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Theres a HB8 23 y/o gym bunny that trains at my gym and over the last couple of weeks ive approached and have been building up familiarity with her

We have also been flirting a bit on instagram

Today I am chatting with her She's smiling, laughing at my jokes and playing with her hair whilst I am talking to her and the conversation generally seems positive

I end up telling her that we should train together, she immediately says we definitely should

So yea I guess a gym date is on the horizon , anyone done anything like this with a chick before ?
This might be a meaningless interaction. What do you mean by trains at the gym? If she's a personal trainer/fitness instructor at that gym, you're flirting with an employee. If you want to pick up a gym trainer, you're at a disadvantage since you met her at her workplace.

If she's a random gym member like you are, then it's possible it's a meaningful interaction. From what I read, it's not looking good. You needed to ask her for drinks at a bar. If she said yes, then she is romantically interested in you. Asking her for her Instagram and then asking her on a gym date is a waste of time that means nothing.

I'm not optimistic this goes anywhere.

I've had multiple gym approaches in the past and none of them amounted to anything, in fact they all lead to a ton of unnecessary drama for me. I'm not saying this to put you down, it's just an environment where you need to tread very carefully because it can easily become incredibly awkward or even a problematic situation for you.
That seems unusual for a 6'4" man with big muscles. In general, I would think a 6'0"+ man who is fit/muscular could easily pick up women in a gym. Yes, there would be rejection, but I would think that man could arrange a first date within 5-15 approaches.
 

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This might be a meaningless interaction. What do you mean by trains at the gym? If she's a personal trainer/fitness instructor at that gym, you're flirting with an employee. If you want to pick up a gym trainer, you're at a disadvantage since you met her at her workplace.

If she's a random gym member like you are, then it's possible it's a meaningful interaction. From what I read, it's not looking good. You needed to ask her for drinks at a bar. If she said yes, then she is romantically interested in you. Asking her for her Instagram and then asking her on a gym date is a waste of time that means nothing.

I'm not optimistic this goes anywhere.



That seems unusual for a 6'4" man with big muscles. In general, I would think a 6'0"+ man who is fit/muscular could easily pick up women in a gym. Yes, there would be rejection, but I would think that man could arrange a first date within 5-15 approaches.
British term for using a gym

She's just a regular gym goer , I Agree I probably should have arranged something outside of the gym but the conversation just naturally leaned towards a gym date and us training together so I went with it

its difficult to stop a natural conversation and completely change the course with something like " so lets go for drinks"

It may come too nothing , if it does actually happen then obviously I'm going to flirt with her during it and once we have done the session together I will suggest a more traditional dating venue as a second date

Was just thinking on my feet not everything with women can be textbook perfect lol
 

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If you asked for her Instagram you're not being original, just like I said another fans.

If she volunteered her Instagram you could have said "Nah its okay I don't add strangers to my Instagram, but tell me when are you free so we can get to know each other better" or ask for her number, but typically you're just another DM that's she's being entertained from

When are you planning to invite her out?
Stuff like this can go awkward fast especially with people you hardly know its better to just go with the flow for the first few interactions so you can get a sense of each others personalities

Instagram is good for getting a bit of a sense of who someone is , also needed it to check if she had a boyfriend which she doesn't

I will suggest we train together towards end of next week if thats received well and actually happens then I will defenitley arrange a second date outside of the gym environment
 

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Plenty of fat or chubby women go to the gym a lot. You can still go to the gym a lot and eat like a cow afterwards.
Yeah, but if they're huge are they still considered a bunny? Or would they be like a gym sow or something?
I guess they'd go to Planet Fitness?
A bunny to me conjures up images of like a centerfold model or Playboy bunny or something (if people still know what that is).
 

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Theres a HB8 23 y/o gym bunny that trains at my gym and over the last couple of weeks ive approached and have been building up familiarity with her

We have also been flirting a bit on instagram

Today I am chatting with her She's smiling, laughing at my jokes and playing with her hair whilst I am talking to her and the conversation generally seems positive

I end up telling her that we should train together, she immediately says we definitely should

So yea I guess a gym date is on the horizon , anyone done anything like this with a chick before ?

train with her, have some meals prepped with macros noted for after, invite her over for some post workout nutrition and nectar.
 

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After work out suggest a drink coffee or something like so its all gonna play out fine dont over think it
 
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