skip2mylou781
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This is a pretty obvious thing im gonna say here, yet no one (at least not those who post approach journals) seem to follow it:
ALWAYS ASK FOR THE NUMBER!!!
Look at it this way - you've already conquered your fear and approached the girl, and even talked to her a lil bit.......yet you still eject - WHY? UR NEVER GONNA SEE THIS GIRL AGAIN!!! you have absolutely NOTHING to lose by ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS askin the girl for her cell # before u eject.
U may think u dont have rapport or the girl is not interested, but so the **** what??? still just ask for ur #, DONT reject urself, let HER reject u!!!!
The following has actually happened to me - My friend and I came to eat at a restaurant, the hostess was really cute, so we asked to see the menu b4 eating there cuz we never been there b4.......we looked, didnt like anythign we saw, and as I was handing the menu back, the girl said "so, table for 2?"
And I said "nah we're not gonna eat here but hey gimme ur # ill call u"
SHE GAVE ME THE GODDAMN #!!! imagine that - 0 rapport, 0 convo, and i got her # (we then introduced ourselves and talked for a minute after she gave me her #)
we ended up going on a date where we kissed alot, but back then i had AFC'sh tendencies and after date 1 i musta blew it cuz she "got back with her ex"
i COULD have not asked for her #, but wtf i wasnt ever gonna see her again, so I just went for it.
Let that example be a lesson to all u guys who approach girls - ALWAYS ASK FOR HER PHONE # BEFORE YOU PART WAYS NO MATTER HOW THE PICKUP IS GOING
ALWAYS ASK FOR THE NUMBER!!!
Look at it this way - you've already conquered your fear and approached the girl, and even talked to her a lil bit.......yet you still eject - WHY? UR NEVER GONNA SEE THIS GIRL AGAIN!!! you have absolutely NOTHING to lose by ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS askin the girl for her cell # before u eject.
U may think u dont have rapport or the girl is not interested, but so the **** what??? still just ask for ur #, DONT reject urself, let HER reject u!!!!
The following has actually happened to me - My friend and I came to eat at a restaurant, the hostess was really cute, so we asked to see the menu b4 eating there cuz we never been there b4.......we looked, didnt like anythign we saw, and as I was handing the menu back, the girl said "so, table for 2?"
And I said "nah we're not gonna eat here but hey gimme ur # ill call u"
SHE GAVE ME THE GODDAMN #!!! imagine that - 0 rapport, 0 convo, and i got her # (we then introduced ourselves and talked for a minute after she gave me her #)
we ended up going on a date where we kissed alot, but back then i had AFC'sh tendencies and after date 1 i musta blew it cuz she "got back with her ex"
i COULD have not asked for her #, but wtf i wasnt ever gonna see her again, so I just went for it.
Let that example be a lesson to all u guys who approach girls - ALWAYS ASK FOR HER PHONE # BEFORE YOU PART WAYS NO MATTER HOW THE PICKUP IS GOING