Guys that neglect their partners/wife’s sexually?

[EyeBRollin]

Why did you get married then?

You are starting off with pro-female framing. Not a good look.

Are you going to cheat on your wife? Can she do the same to you? Are you gonna open the relationship? Did you talk to her about, you having poon from time to time?

My friend you don’t get it. Male sexual fidelity and female sexual fidelity are not synonymous.

 

[RickTheToad]

the wives got fat

This. Stop eating crap and work on losing weight. Dudes just want two things. Good food and decent pvssy. It's really not that hard. Oh, one more thing, peace and quiet.

 

[RickTheToad]

Idk why girls find it so hard to believe that a guy can find a whole day to himself completely relaxing.

Tell my GF this. You'd be amazed how she has to run around to do absolutely nothing. I can just relax on the couch and just enjoy the silence. Females are certainly different. They do not like silence; they need noise.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Right you don't like to be on the spot, so you virtue signal your way out of it

Its fine if you will cheat on your wife from time to time, its your life no need to be ashamed.

There is no shame. If I do cheat, it goes with me to the grave. And if my wife cheats on me I better not find out.

As for what I endorse- do what you can live with. If that means having a harem god bless you. If it means the same one poon for fifty years…god bless you too.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

There is no shame. If I do cheat, it goes with me to the grave. And if my wife cheats on me I better not find out.

As for what I endorse- do what you can live with. If that means having a harem god bless you. If it means the same one poon for fifty years…god bless you too.

this lol

 

[BadBoy89]

Once a woman gains weight and turns Menopausal, it’s over. No man would complain if a woman remained 18 and fresh forever. But alas, nature is cruel beast to woman.

The whole point of sosuave is to compete for the YOUNG, SEXY, FERTILE girls. No one cares about older, aging, Menopausal women. Even in society, they are useless for the average man.

Come on men,

 

[Bingo-Player]

Once a woman gains weight and turns Menopausal, it’s over. No man would complain if a woman remained 18 and fresh forever. But alas, nature is cruel beast to woman.

The whole point of sosuave is to compete for the YOUNG, SEXY, FERTILE girls. No one cares about older, aging, Menopausal women. Even in society, they are useless for the average man.

Come on men,

That is what is already happening throughout the manosphere and society

But most men aren't competing they are just flatline Simping or paying to play

Thanks to OLD , sugar Daddying , social media and only fans it's like fvcking open season out there

Everyone wants a slice of the same pie now from the 20 year old guys right up to the 60 year old guys

But there ain't enough pie to go around , infact there is nowhere near enough pie to go around unless you wanna pay top $$$ for it

The women at their peak value in their 20's have quickly realised they need to make hay whilst the sun is shining so why waste time going on normal dates

Might As well get paid for it and secure the bag.


This is what happens you try to commoditise attraction and relationships

Utter fvcking chaos

 

[ThisIsSparta]

So I’ve been browsing r/deadbedrooms and I noticed there’s a lot of women complaining about their men not wanting sex. What type of situations/women cause this to happen because I thought men were the ones that always wanted sex. I’m just curious about this subject matter. I guess I will hear that the girl is ugly, but is this ugly girl dating a Chad or something lol.

After having steak for 10 years, every day, you´ll be drooling all over that Mc D. burger with fries.

I found out, long before i got married, that however good the woman was looking, her pvssy got old after half a year max. for me and made peace with that fact.

That said, i still do my job as a husband 3 times a week, because if you dont do it, someone else will.

 

[EyeBRollin]

That said, i still do my job as a husband 3 times a week, because if you dont do it, someone else will.

If she goes down that road she is out the door.

It is not a man’s “job” to sexually pleasure his woman. It is her job to pleasure him. Women know this, because they treat sex as a value loaded exchange (he has to do X, Y, and Z if he wants sex).

If sex is an equal value exchange, what else is the woman providing a man that is of no direct benefit to her?

 

[Bingo-Player]

It is not a man’s “job” to sexually pleasure his woman. It is her job to pleasure him. Women know this, because they treat sex as a value loaded exchange (he has to do X, Y, and Z if he wants sex).

Agreed many of my freinds have this mixed up and often get into pathetic arguments with each other about who is better in bed and who's d1ck is longer

Women are most sexually satisfied when being used for male pleasure , it may shock you all to know most women's dark fantasy is to get ran through by multiple men at once

I can remember a chick i was banging used to tell me she liked to fantasise about having all her holes filled at once ......so make of that what you will....

 

[ThisIsSparta]

If she goes down that road she is out the door.

It is not a man’s “job” to sexually pleasure his woman. It is her job to pleasure him. Women know this, because they treat sex as a value loaded exchange (he has to do X, Y, and Z if he wants sex).

If sex is an equal value exchange, what else is the woman providing a man that is of no direct benefit to her?

Well, yes...... didnt say anything else. Expecting a women to take it all and dont even get ****ed if she wants/needs it is a bit too macho even for my taste.

She does pleasure me...... i still need to take part in it though ...... so? I dont know where you wanna go with this? Do you want to tell me that getting your woman off is redpill-haram or unmanly?

She is the one that initiates most of the time, there is no such thing as a value exchange tied to it. She doesnt get anything out of it except an orgasm and closeness.

What you imply into my sexlife is flawed.

Whats the point of the third question in relation to the topic?

 

[EyeBRollin]

Well, yes...... didnt say anything else. Expecting a women to take it all and dont even get ****ed if she wants/needs it is a bit too macho even for my taste.

She does pleasure me...... i still need to take part in it though ...... so? I dont know where you wanna go with this? Do you want to tell me that getting your woman off is redpill-haram or unmanly?

She is the one that initiates most of the time, there is no such thing as a value exchange tied to it. She doesnt get anything out of it except an orgasm and closeness.

What you imply into my sexlife is flawed.

Whats the point of the third question in relation to the topic?

No, I was just clarifying that female sexual pleasure is an external bonus, not a focal point. If you only feel like banging your woman once a week, once a month, or on the flip side four times a day it shouldn’t have anything to do with some “duty” about pleasuring her.

Women generally speaking view sex as a value loaded exchange. If she demands pleasure on top of that, what (if anything) are you the man getting from her that doesn’t directly benefit her?

 

[DonJuanjr]

I think more men need to focus on being Don Juans instead of "Alphas".

 

[RickTheToad]

Some of you dudes place too much value on a female's holes. If you are in a relationship with her, and both of you are doing your share, then you need to go with the flow. Now, if she turns into Tess Holiday; well I can see your point. It she turns into average and you have children with her, it's a bit different.

 

[Fortune_favors_the_bold]

Some of you dudes place too much value on a female's holes. If you are in a relationship with her, and both of you are doing your share, then you need to go with the flow. Now, if she turns into Tess Holiday; well I can see your point. It she turns into average and you have children with her, it's a bit different.

What you said makes perfect sense and I fully agree.

The issue is that we cant change what our personality and deep instinct drive us to do/think.

 

[lost_blackbird]

That is some experience there.
Just curious how old are you? And have you had your T levels checked or tzlk to a doctor about the lack of drive?

I'm 50 in a few months. But I wasn't any different at 35. Like I said, I don't like being naked AT ALL, nor do I like
to be touched, even in 'pleasurable' ways. I have no idea whatsoever about flirting or the social to and fro that
leads to intimacy, I'm too direct for that and completely miss the subtle signals women give. I haven't had my
T levels checked, it's not something that gets much funding in the UK and if I'm honest all a higher T level will
probably bring out of me is more anger meltdowns/outbursts, which I could do without. It's really not that
unusual for people with autism to have a confused and/or fractious relationship with intimacy and sexual
contact. All I know is that sexual contact raises my anxiety through the roof, I tried for years to be like every
one else and just do normal stuff but I just can't relax and get out of my head. I've tried drink and drugs to
try and loosen up a bit and be more relaxed but it just doesn't work. In almost two decades I refused to get
naked with my ex-wife. Whenever we did the deed I was always partially clothed, it may be linked to my dislike
of physical touch creating a barrier between skin on skin. Who knows? I'm pretty broken and it can't be fixed
so I just have to try and manifest some acceptance of the situation. It doesn't cure my loneliness but at least
I don't have to meet anyone else's standards of whats considered normal anymore. In one of our last conversations
my ex wife (rather bluntly for her) said to me "You don't like women and you don't like sex". With reviews like that
it's no wonder I'm tapped out of the whole thing.

Autism, PDD-NOS & Asperger's fact sheets | Sexual relationships

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[Free_Agent]

the wives got fat

Yep. My ex-wife went from 100lbs to 150+lbs at 5'. I tried...

 

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[RickTheToad]

What you said makes perfect sense and I fully agree.

The issue is that we cant change what our personality and deep instinct drive us to do/think.

Perhaps, but one also has to learn to compromise in life. Would I prefer a female who looks like Gal Gadot or Margot Robbie, certainly. However, my GF looks signicantly better than many and she adds additional value. When I got sick or had stressful days in the ER (or dealing with tenants), she's not only there to listen, but it's nice to know someone has my back. And yes, she's proven herself time and time again. Is she without flaws, no, but again, it's about what's realistic. Sex anytime I want. Someone to discuss things with and bounce things off of, and likes to take care of me. If you check my earlier posts, one can see the roller coaster of females I was dating. Where they hotter and in better shape, yes, but there was just sex; nothing more. In my late 30's, I am looking for more than a warm hole. Holes are nice, but even this toad needs a little bit more. Very few females, let alone males will give their friends and family their proverbial shirt of their back, she has and does.

I can only speak for the BS I've gone through over the years. Had plenty of hot females, posted a few of the pics here too. However, after a while, again, it's just a hole, nothing more. It gets boring the same thing with a different female. Yes, the first few times are nice, new pvssy, but it gets old.

 

[Bingo-Player]

I think more men need to focus on being Don Juans instead of "Alphas".

Not really a thing anymore , the game has changed

Women are the real players now men are the pawns and believe it or not women are a lot more ruthless than men are

As a man in 2023 you need to really know where your boundaries are and stick to them like glue

Otherwise you can and will get drawn into a playing field where it is impossible for you to win and you will become depressed.