Guide to a successful "date"

[dip]

bumpp

 

[whatsupwiddat]

Perfect. I have a date in... lets see. 1 hour 24 minutes.

Hehe wish me luck bros!

 

[Eternal]

Good luck, whatsupwiddat. Oh, and go get her tiger!

 

[dip]

Originally posted by whatsupwiddat
Perfect. I have a date in... lets see. 1 hour 24 minutes.

Hehe wish me luck bros!

good luck, how did it go?

 

[dip]

bizzump!

 

[tracy Jaks]

Are you talking about 1st date, or are these the rules for any date?

Cuz if your talking 1st date you full of ****.

You dont pay on the 1st date, well you could buy her some candy or a drink or something, you dont give gifts on the first date thats chumpy.

You do these things on the 1st date then you st yourself up to be walked all over.

Why do you put cologne behind your ears and wtf s the chap sitck all about.

Also you aint gunna get laid on the first date. unless you get her drunk.

apart from that

good post.

 

[dip]

Originally posted by tracy Jaks
Are you talking about 1st date, or are these the rules for any date?

Cuz if your talking 1st date you full of ****.

You dont pay on the 1st date, well you could buy her some candy or a drink or something, you dont give gifts on the first date thats chumpy.

You do these things on the 1st date then you st yourself up to be walked all over.

Why do you put cologne behind your ears and wtf s the chap sitck all about.

Also you aint gunna get laid on the first date. unless you get her drunk.

apart from that

good post.

Whats wrong with paying on the first date? Do you really not want to pay for it? Or is it beacuse someone on this site told you that? I always pay for my first dates, and it shows class. BUT i dont always pay for the dates after that, once youve gone out with the girl once, u dont always have to be the one to pay. Usually, the girl offers to pay on the first date, and i say somethng like "nah i got it, how about you pay for our next date" this makes things even, she dosent feel bad for me paying, and it gets me another date .

Cologne behind the ears? Why? If youve ever been to the movies with a girl, you should know that they like to rest their head on your shoulders. Would you like her to smell your dirty ears?! Cologne there can only help..not hurt...

Suppose you were out with a girl, and you were having a good time. The night was coming to an end, and you wanted to kiss her to seal the night. As you go in for the kiss, you see her dry, chappy lips. Would you kiss her? would you want to hang around her?! it shows bad hygene and ish.. NOW, im not saying that you have dry lips, but some people here do, so thats why i said it

Why cant you get laid on the first date? Read some speed seduction post's and learn, it can be done, and ive done it. I know many girls who get laid on the first date, and sometimes i only go out for girls lookin for some ass'

pz!

 

[dip]

how do i edit my post..i wanna add more stuff!!

 

[oakraiderz2]

Originally posted by dip
how do i edit my post..i wanna add more stuff!!

Click that button that says.....edit?

 

[dip]

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[Canadianpimpology]

You've got to be smarter than the thread.



Hmmm try it again, or ask Matrix to add what you want.

 

[Eternal]

Due to the chance of this being deleted due to time, Matrix has requested me to bump this for it to stay in the High School bible. Thank you.

 

[dip]

bump so it dosent delete!

 

[SoonToBeDJ]

Hey I got a question on the the quick tips from the experts part. On one of the links theres a "Can I Kiss You?" tip and it explains how you could a girl all geeked up about kissin you if you ask her. My question is I thought if you asked a girl could you kiss her that would be too much of a "nice guy" move and blow your chances. How is this different? Is it because you really don't give her a kiss at that time or what? I might sound stupid but I want to know the correct way of using this tip if I am going to use it. Also my next question is can you use that tip on the first date or just on later dates?

 

[jonny football hero]

Back to the top you go!

 

[Tempest]

i dislike a few of the points in this post, mainly because it contradicts a lot of what i've learned, and STILL am learning. is noone here familiar with david deangelo's book, or advanced series?

paying for dinner? are you trying to buy her affection? are you trying to bribe her with dinner first, so that she'll go out with you and you can secretly convince her into liking you? buying her flowers? wtf.

for the first get together, i usually invite them along with me to go to the mall, and tell them i need to buy my sister's birthday gift, or whatever. during the date i'm sure to bust on her constantly, i'm C/F, i misinterpret things that she says and just have FUN. i lead the way and take control on the date. if we're in a store together, i usually walk away from her for awhile to another part of the store, and let her find me (shows that you're not clingy or desperate to be around her). of course, one aspect which i'm sure to do while being C/F is to be a gentlemen, like by opening doors. another good thing to do when walking along the sidewalk with her, the male is suposed to walk on the outside of the sidewalk (closest to the road). this was a gentlemanly thing to do in the olden days. it was incase a car drove out onto the sidewalk and you'd get by it, instead of her. or even if there was a puddle and a car drove by, you'd get wet and not her. you can even explain that concept to her. she'll be impressed.

i prefer not to pay for dates. i like to tease them while setting up for the date. i usually tease for them to pay and say things like, "i'm really looking forward to that movie you've promised me. when are you going to pick me up?" and ask them, "how else do you plan to maintain the lifestyle that i've been accustomed to?", ect.

either way, there are still tons of other things to do with a girl, besides wasting money on her with the first date. read deangelo's book or listen to the series. i can't elaborate deeply into this, as i'm still learning myself.

 

[Vincent]

Originally posted by Tempest
for the first get together, i usually invite them along with me to go to the mall, and tell them i need to buy my sister's birthday gift, or whatever. during the date i'm sure to bust on her constantly, i'm C/F, i misinterpret things that she says and just have FUN. i lead the way and take control on the date. if we're in a store together, i usually walk away from her for awhile to another part of the store, and let her find me (shows that you're not clingy or desperate to be around her). of course, one aspect which i'm sure to do while being C/F is to be a gentlemen, like by opening doors. another good thing to do when walking along the sidewalk with her, the male is suposed to walk on the outside of the sidewalk (closest to the road). this was a gentlemanly thing to do in the olden days. it was incase a car drove out onto the sidewalk and you'd get by it, instead of her.

Ironically that wasn't always the case, back in like the 1800's and before there was no plumbing (go figure), so then the woman would stand on the right side of the sidewalk so that when people threw there waste out the window, the men would get hit instead of the woman, it actually switched more lately, you are right about the cars, but i hardly consider the early 19th century the "Olden days" when this transition happened after hundreds of years of one way
or even if there was a puddle and a car drove by, you'd get wet and not her. you can even explain that concept to her. she'll be impressed.

either way, there are still tons of other things to do with a girl, besides wasting money on her with the first date. read deangelo's book or listen to the series. i can't elaborate deeply into this, as i'm still learning myself.

This has been said numorous times, but i'll humor you:

Do whatever works for you, if you can get away with not paying, all the better. But there are no laws set in stone, so do whatever you want to do.

That book's (DYD) alright, he gives you a VERY sugar coated kind of point of views, and thats expected because it helps sales, and he did help me. I was subscribed to his tips for quite a while, but i just outgrew the need to hear the things over and over.

Sure you can do dates like windowshopping, parks, etc that don't cost anything. Dip wasn't promoting dinner and a movie, all he was saying is that you could do it.

You'll realize the more painful truths of being a don juan in time than what he portrays in those books.

And on a final note:

Welcome to the boards, hope you learn something

 

[syemour]

thx

 

[dip]

theres really no point of going to the mall with a girl. most girls have been to the mall millions of times with guys, so next time u should try somethin new...take her mini golfing, to a theme park, something of that nature.

also, i know how u feel about paying for her, it really depends on how ur relationship is with her. if u just met her and ur taking her to a park, she should deff. pay for her own ticket...if ur going out to dinner with her, it looks cheap/shady attempting to sort out how much her meal was, then asking her for the money..

and about the flowers, ive never done that! but i know that some of you like to...so i just wanted to let you all know not to bring roses

 

[Rick]

I perfer not to pay on first dates if per-say I'm going to the movies with the girl. I think it's too formulaic for the guy to pay for the women. Make her pay for her own ticket. Infact, on my recent date, she paid FOR me. I didn't expect that at all.

That date didn't go too well either afterwards. I apparantly had busy hands, so I responded saying "I'm a busy guy. "

Anyway she was an attention *****.