CornbreadFed
Master Don Juan
Ask me when I am older than 40 and chasing after 18 year olds
Guess what? Money doesn't matter.
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Not true at all. The broke guy isn't going to have the class or elegance required to navigate such an environment. People who are well heeled or posh behave a certain way. They speak a certain way. The broke guy who comes into money isn't going to learn all that stuff over night even if he ends up with sudden money. He also won't have the ability to manage his sudden wealth, and typically people who get sudden money are deposed of it in a short period of time.
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Having a basic level of money matters for this, sure. Having a car and your own place. Not being destitute.
But if you think having a good income without other qualities will result in getting beautiful women, you're delusional and you'll stay sexless.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
It's easy to regurgitate redpill talking points but when it comes to money a lot of guys who don't have it get exposed very easily. You're correct it's not black and white. A lot of guys here who don't have money have this delusion that having money will all of a sudden help your love life. I already discussed this a little here in detail. I had a lot of these delusional beliefs to when I was broke, I don't mean this as an insult to anyone but the truth is a lot of guys who are going of 2ndhand information simply aren't qualified to be in this discussion as it requires nuance which can only be gained through personal experience!
This is why if you're a dork or nerd money won't save you, unless you plan on becoming a glorified trick. I know some guys who made money and learned it the harsh way. One guy already had solid game, he got inshape got a 6pack and now he has some of the hottest smokeshows most guys would dream off. Another guy lost 80ibs, short guy he is on his way to getting married. Money doesn't make the ***** wet but a 6pack pulling up in a Bentley coupe certainly will.
I think money does matter as it gives you access, logistics and retention when it comes to women. The basic level you are talking about is something that I use to mention as well when I was 25 (I see you 28 around the same age) at that age I do agree with you money doesn't matter as much. However once you are in your 30s especially 35+ money does matter especially if you want to deal with a certain caliber of woman(I'm not talking about your average woman on bumble, single mothers etc. I'm talking about Trustfund chicks, the Stacy's that travel to Maldives everywhere that have a certain look etc.)
I do agree with you other qualities matter, I would go as far to say that your physique matters more than money. Being in shape can always get you some and heck in some cases even a g/f. Money alone won't do anything for you if your game is trash, you have no social status, and you dress like Big Bird.
A lot of guys who think money is the be all end all have a tricking mindset or dont understand the nuance it's very simple
CornbreadFed
Master Don Juan
From what I’ve noticed, there are three distinct types of wealth when it comes to how women respond: attractive wealth and unattractive wealth. Let me break it down.
1. Attractive Wealth = Status
This type of wealth comes with prestige and high social standing. Think along the lines of doctors, lawyers, CEOs, pilots, high-status consultants, successful business owners, and other leadership roles in prominent industries. These professions not only provide financial stability but also carry a certain level of charisma and status that women tend to find appealing.
I’ve seen it happen countless times. I have friends who might look pretty average in person, but as soon as they drop, “I’m a doctor,” or “I own a few franchises,” the interest from women immediately spikes. It’s not just about the money, it’s about the confidence, ambition, and social prestige that come with these careers. If you disagree, you’re likely underestimating how much status factors into attraction.
2. Unattractive Wealth
On the flip side, there’s wealth that, while substantial, doesn’t necessarily generate the same level of interest. Here’s where entrepreneurs (or at least those who self-identify as such without clear success), blue-collar workers, and those accumulating wealth through steady means like 401ks or equity tend to fall.
Entrepreneurs: These days, anyone can slap “entrepreneur” on their profile, and that’s the problem. The label has become watered down to the point that many women are skeptical. My advice to my friend who’s a successful business owner was to drop “entrepreneur” from his dating profile entirely—it often raises red flags. Women have become cautious because of the flood of fake entrepreneurs out there. Stability and success are attractive, but vague claims of entrepreneurship are not.
401k/Equity Wealth: This type of wealth is typically associated with steady, long-term accumulation. While it’s a smart financial move, it doesn’t have the excitement or social allure that comes with flashier forms of wealth. To many women, it can seem predictable or boring, especially when compared to higher-status professions.
Tech Personalities: A prime example of how wealth doesn’t always translate to attraction is TechLead on YouTube. Yes, he’s financially well-off, but his persona and approach can be off-putting, and that’s a key factor—money alone isn’t enough if the overall personality isn’t attractive.
3. Blue-Collar Wealth
I’ve noticed that blue-collar wealth, despite being hard-earned, often gets an unfair reputation. While there are exceptions, many women are put off by the stereotypes: overweight, arrogant, or suffering from a bit of Napoleon syndrome. Of course, this isn’t always the case, but it’s no surprise that these perceptions exist. In many cases, blue-collar success doesn’t come with the same level of status or social grace that makes it attractive to women.
Bottom Line:
Wealth alone doesn’t determine attraction—it’s the social status, confidence, and personality that come with it. Women are naturally drawn to stability and prestige, and not all types of wealth provide that. If you’re looking to attract higher-quality women, it’s important to recognize the social dynamics at play and how certain types of success are perceived.
1. Attractive Wealth = Status
This type of wealth comes with prestige and high social standing. Think along the lines of doctors, lawyers, CEOs, pilots, high-status consultants, successful business owners, and other leadership roles in prominent industries. These professions not only provide financial stability but also carry a certain level of charisma and status that women tend to find appealing.
I’ve seen it happen countless times. I have friends who might look pretty average in person, but as soon as they drop, “I’m a doctor,” or “I own a few franchises,” the interest from women immediately spikes. It’s not just about the money, it’s about the confidence, ambition, and social prestige that come with these careers. If you disagree, you’re likely underestimating how much status factors into attraction.
2. Unattractive Wealth
On the flip side, there’s wealth that, while substantial, doesn’t necessarily generate the same level of interest. Here’s where entrepreneurs (or at least those who self-identify as such without clear success), blue-collar workers, and those accumulating wealth through steady means like 401ks or equity tend to fall.
Entrepreneurs: These days, anyone can slap “entrepreneur” on their profile, and that’s the problem. The label has become watered down to the point that many women are skeptical. My advice to my friend who’s a successful business owner was to drop “entrepreneur” from his dating profile entirely—it often raises red flags. Women have become cautious because of the flood of fake entrepreneurs out there. Stability and success are attractive, but vague claims of entrepreneurship are not.
401k/Equity Wealth: This type of wealth is typically associated with steady, long-term accumulation. While it’s a smart financial move, it doesn’t have the excitement or social allure that comes with flashier forms of wealth. To many women, it can seem predictable or boring, especially when compared to higher-status professions.
Tech Personalities: A prime example of how wealth doesn’t always translate to attraction is TechLead on YouTube. Yes, he’s financially well-off, but his persona and approach can be off-putting, and that’s a key factor—money alone isn’t enough if the overall personality isn’t attractive.
3. Blue-Collar Wealth
I’ve noticed that blue-collar wealth, despite being hard-earned, often gets an unfair reputation. While there are exceptions, many women are put off by the stereotypes: overweight, arrogant, or suffering from a bit of Napoleon syndrome. Of course, this isn’t always the case, but it’s no surprise that these perceptions exist. In many cases, blue-collar success doesn’t come with the same level of status or social grace that makes it attractive to women.
Bottom Line:
Wealth alone doesn’t determine attraction—it’s the social status, confidence, and personality that come with it. Women are naturally drawn to stability and prestige, and not all types of wealth provide that. If you’re looking to attract higher-quality women, it’s important to recognize the social dynamics at play and how certain types of success are perceived.
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