Group types on this site

[I-am-someone]

I do have to say that people hate it when you put them into a box. People want to be treated like people, they don't like being treated like "The geek", "The jock", "The introvert", or whatever kind of a category you can think up.
If you go around on the street and start saying to people, "You're a <groupname>", I'm certain you will get negative responses all the way. Even if you say someone looks like someone famous, it still makes them feel a bit uncomfortable, because you're not recognizing them for who they are, but are judging them solely on their looks.

Treat people like they're people for crying out loud!

 

[alphawolfx]

Wow, high school all over again.

This is a pointless thread, but I'm bored and feel like being online, so I'll answer.

I'm in the following group:
"Better than the average guy in most aspects, but just want more love and sex."

That's how I think about myself. I don't try to come off ****y & funny, I don't try to overcompensate. I'm me, and I'm happy about me. I wouldn't rather be anyone else.

Funny thing is, most people adopt those kinds of sayings without actually believing it. But it feels so different when you believe it.

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by I-am-someone
Wyldfire... I think you forgot your own group.

How about you try to describe your role and the role of other women in this community yourself?

I am fairly unique to most women who have posted here. I have tips in the DJ Bible and am sort of a "study of contrasts". Yes, I saw your post where you called me an "Attention Wh*re". There are always a handful of idiots who call me that...but anyone who has read a fair amount of my posts knows better. If it were attention I wanted I would just go to the nearest bar and get more of that than I could ever want. I certainly wouldn't be seeking it out on a forum full of guys who came here because they were unsuccessful with women. For some reason many of the guys who post here forget that the women who post here see all the insecurities, second guessing of themselves, fear, problems...etc. It's like chaperoning or babysitting my little brother's slumber party to me here. Sometimes you guys miss the obvious and sometimes the not so obvious. Even though sometimes I get in a goofy mood (like last night) and toss out the sarcastic and smart arsed zingers...most of the time I stick to giving advice and input.

I'm in a category by myself...I'm a cross between the "guidance counselor", the "class advisor" and the "big sister" or "mother figure".

A word of advice...you'd be spending your time very unwisely to use it to insult, argue with or call me names. It's impossible to "win" against me and I'll just frustrate you so badly that you will get all emotional and look like an a$$. Many have made the mistake of thinking they could get the better of me over the last four years and none have succeeded. My advice to you would be to just not go there...

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by 00Kevin
u still bi-tchin?

You still a Canuck?

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by fuzzx
"Women posters who have NO field experience dating women but feel that they know it all. ie Trollettes."

- There are always a bunch of women here with like 4000 posts and STILL 0 experience getting laid with FEMALES and dispensing advice like its pez.

"and the posters who love them"

- the guys who post and defend the women claiming that everyone who posts against them is 'just imature' then tries comforting her so that they might be rewarded with a nod in their direction which is probably the most contact with women they've ever had.

An honest and truthful woman is far more valuable to give advice about other women than a man is. Most women lie to men and make excuses for each other. A woman who doesn't do that gives very good advice.

Another category:

"Young Canadian men who think they have women all figured out but still need to seek advice online to get laid."

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by Golden Arms
I would also expand to say -

Women posters who feel like they have to incessantly push their own agenda in each post; which always has to do with some kind of forum politics and them not getting the respect they somehow feel they've earned from other posters and/or forum moderators

I only make an issue out of being given the same respect as any other poster on here when some wet behind the ears poster who has been here two years less than I have and has no Bible posts feels compelled to disrespect me just for having tits.

 

[Virtú]

Introverted Virgin Geek, a triple threat ... to myself

 

[ketostix]

Originally posted by Wyldfire
I only make an issue out of being given the same respect as any other poster on here when some wet behind the ears poster who has been here two years less than I have and has no Bible posts feels compelled to disrespect me just for having tits.

I think you mean well, but the point is women can't tell guys what works. A woman isn't even cognizant of what works on herself. The point is you have no experience being a guy and picking up a chick. And if anyone was to ask you or any other chick why you went for a certain guy, the reason given would be most bs.

 

[alphawolfx]

This is another one of those threads that need to be closed. Mods?

Guys, stop with the arguing already.

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by ketostix
I think you mean well, but the point is women can't tell guys what works. A Woman isn't even cognizant of what works on herself. The point you have no experience being a guy and picking up a chick. And if anyone was to ask you or any other chick why you went for a certain guy, the reason given would be most bs.

See, this is where you are so wrong. I am NOT like most women. I think more like a guy. I'm logical, not emotional. I not only have a damn good understanding of men and how they think and act...but I also have that same understanding of women. But when I talk about what a woman's behavior means or what her actions imply she is thinking, I am being 100% honest about it. Think of it like if a man could see and hear a woman's thoughts and explain them to another guy. I am able to do that...and that ability is the reason I post here...because I CAN be helpful. Unfortunately, everytime a new group of guys show up we have to go through all this stupid, petty a$$ "you're a woman" crap again. It gets very old after 4 freaking years. Just forget that I am a woman and read my posts with an open mind and you'll likely find much to agree with.

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by alphawolfx
This is another one of those threads that need to be closed. Mods?

Guys, stop with the arguing already.

This always happens everytime a new group of posters arrive here. I get attacked for the audacity of having tits and posting here so I get annoyed and slap them around a bit until they shut up and just get with the damn program and treat me like one of the guys. Of course, the fact that I was sarcastic, snarky and poking fun left and right last night didn't help...but you'll have that sometimes.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Originally posted by Wyldfire
Most women lie to men and make excuses for each other. A woman who doesn't do that gives very good advice.

Ah, but if most women lie and make excuses for each other how are we to know the difference?

By observing their behaviors perhaps,..?

 

[California Love]

You've forgotten that the most receptive audience on this site is often the lurkers. I'd been reading threads on this site for at least a year before joining.

Also, the community here is great. You would not have come here if you were not open to learning. In the end, we all enrich each other.

 

[alphawolfx]

Originally posted by Wyldfire
This always happens everytime a new group of posters arrive here. I get attacked for the audacity of having tits and posting here so I get annoyed and slap them around a bit until they shut up and just get with the damn program and treat me like one of the guys. Of course, the fact that I was sarcastic, snarky and poking fun left and right last night didn't help...but you'll have that sometimes.

Wyld, you don't need to tell them to do anything. Just ignore them, eventually they'll respect you or not. It's not a big deal, it's the goddammned internet.

Arguing over a message forum is a battle that either party can never win, so why bother.

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by Rollo Tomassi
Ah, but if most women lie and make excuses for each other how are we to know the difference?

By observing their behaviors perhaps,..?

You can't judge a person by their behaviors in this medium. You can, however, keep an open mind about what is written and put rational and logical thought into it rather than simply assuming that just because it was written by a woman it isn't appropriate for this site.

Here is a clue about my behavior...an example from work relevent to the issues discussed here.

I am a waitress at a restaurant with a bar. The day bartender is the worst drama queen/attention wh*re I've ever seen. She goes out of her way to make guys want her only to brutally shoot them down one minute and then flirt with them again a couple of days later to confuse them. Her behavior repulses me and I actually warn men of what she does. Yesterday a middle aged guy came in to sit at the bar half of the day for the second day in a row. He left her a $40 tip on a $20 tab both days. So she comes into the kitchen telling me and the 30 something male cook about the nice old guy who tipped her well and did it because it was slow and didn't want her to earn no money for the day. I laughed in her face and told her that the only reason the guy left her huge tips is because he's hoping that if he does it enough that someday she'll have sex with him. She got all pi$$ed at me and said "not everyone is like that!" and I said "If he has a penis, sweetheart, he IS like that because that's the nature of things. He doesn't want you to make money, he wants to f*ck you." The cook was grinning and turned away to try to hide it. She stomped out of the kitchen all indignant and disgruntled. I laughed, looked at the cook and said "Am I right?" And he said "Oh...you are definitely right."

At least now, when that poor old sap comes in to try to befriend her...she will KNOW why, and hopefully it will instill enough guilt in her to not toy with the poor guys head. But hey...I just call 'em as I see 'em.

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by alphawolfx
Wyld, you don't need to tell them to do anything. Just ignore them, eventually they'll respect you or not. It's not a big deal, it's the goddammned internet.

Arguing over a message forum is a battle that either party can never win, so why bother.

Ah...but I'm an Irish/Native American hybrid. Which means I am extremely proud and stubborn. If I ever drowned in a river, they'd find my body upstream. I am who I am...and I always respond to anyone who disrespects me. In some ways it's a flaw, in others it's a strength. The same trait that makes me argue a point into the ground also makes me not take any sh*t, never get taken advantage of and makes me a strong person. It also makes me able to withstand an onslaught of attacks from large packs of angry radical feminists on internet forums and actually have THEM be the ones to give in first. As annoying as it can be to some (and I do acknowledge that), it really IS an asset in most cases.

 

[TizZle]

Originally posted by Wyldfire

A word of advice...you'd be spending your time very unwisely to use it to insult, argue with or call me names. It's impossible to "win" against me and I'll just frustrate you so badly that you will get all emotional and look like an a$$. Many have made the mistake of thinking they could get the better of me over the last four years and none have succeeded. My advice to you would be to just not go there...

1. People shouldn't get emotional over internet bs
2. Here's a DJ tip- Do not care if others like you or not. If someone makes you look like an a$$ it shouldn't phase you. Once they cross the line just knock their lights out.
3. Yes you are spending your time unwisely because namecalling and insulting is quite a non-DJ like move.
4. You also are spending your time unwisely trying bragging about being "better" than others.
5. I just wasted time typing this bs now it's time to go party !

Have Fun.

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by TizZle
1. People shouldn't get emotional over internet bs
2. Here's a DJ tip- Do not care if others like you or not. If someone makes you look like an a$$ it shouldn't phase you. Once they cross the line just knock their lights out.
3. Yes you are spending your time unwisely because namecalling and insulting is quite a non-DJ like move.
4. You also are spending your time unwisely trying bragging about being "better" than others.
5. I just wasted time typing this bs now it's time to go party !

Have Fun.

Not bragging...just trying to save the guy from pointless and futile endeavors. Just because I won't back down doesn't mean I prefer to argue. I'd much rather be treated just like one of the guys and not argue.

 

[Kerensky]

Hey guys...and I think Wild is a gal....

They came out with this awesome thing the other day. It's really cool. I can like talk to people have long discussions like this. I think it's called:

AIM



Seriously, does "group type" matter? We all came here for women but some have changed along the way. It doesn't matter. This has no significance.

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by Kerensky
Hey guys...and I think Wild is a gal....

Um...I've been a member here since 2001 and I immediately informed everyone that I was a woman. It took much debate, arguments and posts for the members here at that time to accept and respect my opinion and advice. That's why my post count is so high. Much of those posts were from having these same tired old back and forths of having to stand my ground and stick up for myself against constant and relentless attacks. I devoted a great deal of time and energy doing that and I will be damned if some newbie pissants are going to get away with disrespecting me or trying to discredit my posts. THAT is what my arguing is all about.