Group types on this site

[Kerensky]

I was acknowledging that you were a female. Usually, people say "hey guys" but I said "hey guys and gal" except I wasn't sure you were a female.

Otherwise, you put too much energy into other people. I used to get into arguments with people about stuff, but if they won't take my advice, I will not be their mother nor father nor anything more than someone who is sharing his opinion. There is no use getting into arguments with people online so I do not. Clarifying my point for the benefit of others is ok, but my time is too valuable for all the stuff on the other page I didn't really read.

So with that said, this will be my last post on the issue and I'm going to do some real work.

 

[Blue Phoenix]

Originally posted by Wyldfire
You can't judge a person by their behaviors in this medium. You can, however, keep an open mind about what is written and put rational and logical thought into it rather than simply assuming that just because it was written by a woman it isn't appropriate for this site.

Here is a clue about my behavior...an example from work relevent to the issues discussed here.

I am a waitress at a restaurant with a bar. The day bartender is the worst drama queen/attention wh*re I've ever seen. She goes out of her way to make guys want her only to brutally shoot them down one minute and then flirt with them again a couple of days later to confuse them. Her behavior repulses me and I actually warn men of what she does. Yesterday a middle aged guy came in to sit at the bar half of the day for the second day in a row. He left her a $40 tip on a $20 tab both days. So she comes into the kitchen telling me and the 30 something male cook about the nice old guy who tipped her well and did it because it was slow and didn't want her to earn no money for the day. I laughed in her face and told her that the only reason the guy left her huge tips is because he's hoping that if he does it enough that someday she'll have sex with him. She got all pi$$ed at me and said "not everyone is like that!" and I said "If he has a penis, sweetheart, he IS like that because that's the nature of things. He doesn't want you to make money, he wants to f*ck you." The cook was grinning and turned away to try to hide it. She stomped out of the kitchen all indignant and disgruntled. I laughed, looked at the cook and said "Am I right?" And he said "Oh...you are definitely right."

At least now, when that poor old sap comes in to try to befriend her...she will KNOW why, and hopefully it will instill enough guilt in her to not toy with the poor guys head. But hey...I just call 'em as I see 'em.

Lol...

That was a funny read!

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by Kerensky
I was acknowledging that you were a female. Usually, people say "hey guys" but I said "hey guys and gal" except I wasn't sure you were a female.

Otherwise, you put too much energy into other people. I used to get into arguments with people about stuff, but if they won't take my advice, I will not be their mother nor father nor anything more than someone who is sharing his opinion. There is no use getting into arguments with people online so I do not. Clarifying my point for the benefit of others is ok, but my time is too valuable for all the stuff on the other page I didn't really read.

So with that said, this will be my last post on the issue and I'm going to do some real work.

I just went back and re-read your post...and I did misunderstand what you meant. I apologize for being snarky. Unfortunately, you mentioned me at the worst possible moment...right amid me getting flak for being a woman. I was on the defensive and was unfair to you. Again, I apologize.

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by Blue Phoenix
Lol...

That was a funny read!

You'd probably get a kick out of being an observer of some of the stuff I say to her. We have a "sister" restaurant and bar a couple of towns over and one of the mid to late 20's cooks there has fallen into this biotch's web of head games. Poor bast@rd. I warned his a$$ right from the get go, but apparently he's a dummy. He has his nose driven so far up her big 'ol fat arse it's not even funny. She constantly complains about how he's always calling her, bothering her and wanting a relationship with her. She makes fun of him, laughs at how mean and brutally hateful she is to him and then turns around and says he's okay as a friend, but he just won't get the hint. I got so sick of hearing it one day that I turned around and told her that if she would stop f*cking with the poor guy's head and leading him on he might not be such a pain to her and that it's her own damn fault. That pi$$ed her off in good shape. She's a real piece of work, that's for sure.

 

[Golden Arms]

Originally posted by Wyldfire
I only make an issue out of being given the same respect as any other poster on here when some wet behind the ears poster who has been here two years less than I have and has no Bible posts feels compelled to disrespect me just for having tits.

If you're referring to me I wasn't givng you grief for being a woman . Maybe you think that your non-stop complaining and arguing has to do with the fact that you're female; I think it's annoying no matter what sex you are.

 

[Albion4]

Originally posted by tmpgstx
I think there are variety of people on this site:

- The Virgins

No experience with women what so ever, and very afraid of women. Looking to make that first 'score'.

- The Geeks

Some are virgins and some aren't. This group has little to no social contacts with women for whatever reasons. Not being in social circles, no sports, job mainly male dominated etc. (I'm in this group by the way - not a virgin either!).

- The Players

Looking for tips on improving their 'game' but always frustrated thay end up with the 'party' girl all their buddies have had a time or two. Often turned down by the 'good girl' they can never seem to get

- The Experienced

I also am in this category (you can belong to more than one). This group has been in both LTRs and have had one-night encounters. I can tell by the way people post who these guys are, right Albion?

- The Wannabes

The guy who got laid once, but was by some freak accident. He's not sure how it happened and if it ever will again. He's looking to 'score' that second time.

- The introverts

The guys in this group don't get out at all, other than to work and groceries. They maybe get laid every 4-5 years and that's pushing it. They often feel women aren't worth pursuing because the majority are fvcked up.

And?

-Al

 

[Fatality]

great thread

 

[Golden Arms]

Originally posted by Fatality
great thread

better than all those team Mower threads

 

[MacDiddy]

firstly, As long as we keep things civil and non-personal, I don't think this thread should be closed or repressed as Alphawolfx has suggested in his little display of affection to Wyld.

This thread inadvertantly highlights and debates the value of what woman have to offer seduction wise....

The bad news is...... they offer very little.... as one poster has explained, they have no field experience to speak off... and offer advice which makes a chick feel good in giving the ego a boost but not which sparks attraction...
I'll give you an example... a friend in Uni really liked this one girl and he asked everyone for advice... The girls around him told him to buy her flowers and surprise her at her doorstep... Us guys objected to this tactic, but of course he listened to the girls coz he thought that a girl must know what another girl wants... the result is she ended up avoiding my friend for obvious reasons...

The good news is...... they offer little but its still something I guess... I do exact some benefit and a little humor from watching the behaviour and responses of some chicks on this forum rather than the actual content of their advice...
When I see some posters compliment the chicks on this forum, they get treated like the AFCs that they are with a bit of ballbusting from the chicks (due to their inflated egos)... However, when the chicks are getting hammered from the numerous rebukes, they will gladly take shelter from some of these guys that come to their defense... Just something I've observed which validates the principle that you don't compliment chicks... or at least not directly...

 

[Fatality]

Originally posted by Golden Arms
better than all those team Mower threads

Chad is rad

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Originally posted by Wyldfire
Um...I've been a member here since 2001 and I immediately informed everyone that I was a woman. It took much debate, arguments and posts for the members here at that time to accept and respect my opinion and advice. That's why my post count is so high. Much of those posts were from having these same tired old back and forths of having to stand my ground and stick up for myself against constant and relentless attacks. I devoted a great deal of time and energy doing that and I will be damned if some newbie pissants are going to get away with disrespecting me or trying to discredit my posts. THAT is what my arguing is all about.

Many of the guys here came for the very reason of avoiding more female advice which has been the root of their problems for most of their lives (i.e. advice from sisters/mothers). So tough. You're just going to have to put up with it. I don't see how you can come here expecting anything less.

 

[alphawolfx]

MacDiddy, to make sure we're clear on this, I'm not on anybody's side.

Half the time I hate Don Joffe, half the time I've liked his posts.

I like some of the advice Wyld gives, but frankly, I'm gettting tired of all the arguing... from BOTH sides.

My post was directed to Wyld, yes but I meant that advice for everyone.

Just want to make sure everyone kows that I'm aligned with NOBODY.

Whatever, I'll just take my own advice and ignore the rest of this thread.

 

[MindOverMatter]

Originally posted by Wyldfire
You can't judge a person by their behaviors in this medium. You can, however, keep an open mind about what is written and put rational and logical thought into it rather than simply assuming that just because it was written by a woman it isn't appropriate for this site.

Here is a clue about my behavior...an example from work relevent to the issues discussed here.

I am a waitress at a restaurant with a bar. The day bartender is the worst drama queen/attention wh*re I've ever seen. She goes out of her way to make guys want her only to brutally shoot them down one minute and then flirt with them again a couple of days later to confuse them. Her behavior repulses me and I actually warn men of what she does. Yesterday a middle aged guy came in to sit at the bar half of the day for the second day in a row. He left her a $40 tip on a $20 tab both days. So she comes into the kitchen telling me and the 30 something male cook about the nice old guy who tipped her well and did it because it was slow and didn't want her to earn no money for the day. I laughed in her face and told her that the only reason the guy left her huge tips is because he's hoping that if he does it enough that someday she'll have sex with him. She got all pi$$ed at me and said "not everyone is like that!" and I said "If he has a penis, sweetheart, he IS like that because that's the nature of things. He doesn't want you to make money, he wants to f*ck you." The cook was grinning and turned away to try to hide it. She stomped out of the kitchen all indignant and disgruntled. I laughed, looked at the cook and said "Am I right?" And he said "Oh...you are definitely right."

At least now, when that poor old sap comes in to try to befriend her...she will KNOW why, and hopefully it will instill enough guilt in her to not toy with the poor guys head. But hey...I just call 'em as I see 'em.

lol funny read & you're gonna earn some points with the sosuave misogynists cause of that story.

anyway, im out! word of advice boys, less flaming online, more approaching in real life is the key to it all.

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by TillTheEndOfTime
Many of the guys here came for the very reason of avoiding more female advice which has been the root of their problems for most of their lives (i.e. advice from sisters/mothers). So tough. You're just going to have to put up with it. I don't see how you can come here expecting anything less.

Oh bite me you pesky Canadian...



(notice how the vast majority of the guys on here I argue with are either from the UK or Canada? I swear the men from both places operate on the belief that every damn woman is a feminist.)

 

[00Kevin]

Originally posted by Wyldfire
Oh bite me you pesky Canadian...



(notice how the vast majority of the guys on here I argue with are either from the UK or Canada? I swear the men from both places operate on the belief that every damn woman is a feminist.)

You don't know what kind of women we have to put up with here. This place is full of liberal nut cases who worship popular culture. All the universities are loaded with them. It is just sick.

I can tell you that I don't think every woman is a feminist I just think that a lot of women are tainted by it. There are also a lot of guys who are tainted by feminism.

Before I came to this site I only had a feeling that something was wrong with women where I live. As a result of this site, I understand what is wrong with them.

This site helps a guy realize that you don't have to put up those kinds of women. It clearly shows you that you only have to be picky and put forth a confident effort to find a good woman.

For every 10 tainted woman there is one who might be ok.

Alot of the guys who are not from the US are more aware of the problems that feminism has caused. We meet people from many cultures far more often then most people in the US do. We talk to other guys from other countries all the time. These conversations help us develop a global perspective on the issues rather then a US perspective.

I think that a lot of guys in the US don't know how bad they have it.

I've compared women from many cultures and countries and I can say that north american women are the worst. They are not all bad but you really have to search for the good ones.