I try to make posts that help guys when ever I have a thought that I think would benefit.. I'm not a guru but I try to use my life experience as a reference point. I see posts about red flags all the time, but never green flags.
A green flag means she is exhibiting traits that differentiate her from the herd. She's the woman who you may can build something with. An asset to your life. Here are a few green flags, feel free to add.
A green flag means she is exhibiting traits that differentiate her from the herd. She's the woman who you may can build something with. An asset to your life. Here are a few green flags, feel free to add.
Many of you don't know a good woman because you've never had one. She is rare. If I had to estimate, she is 1 out of every 10,000. Here are some ways to know if you found her.
She offers to pay.
As time goes on, by the 3rd or 4th date she should have offered to pay for something by now. Dinner, the movie tickets, anything.
She only has friends on social media she knows in real life.
She doesn't care for strangers online oogling over her. She is content with following and being followed by real life associates
She is not on social media dressed like a slut
She does not take pictures with her butt poked out for likes, or shirtless covering her boobs with her hands.. stay away from this one. Attention *****.
She goes to bars, clubs occassionaly. Not every weekend.
She much rather hang out at home or an intimate setting than sit at the bar every weekend hammering down fireball shots. She may go for a friend's birthday or an occasional ladies night.
She initiates sex.
This is a big plus and healthy. When she initiates the sex, its a very good sign. You should never have to harrass her for sex. Good sign of high IL.
Shows concern with disappointing her parents.
She is not going to do anything or behave in a way that would embarass her parents. This shows she was raised correctly and they instilled morals in her.
She texts you througout the day because she is genuinely concerned with your well being.
Shows she cares. She finds a second or two out her day just to shoot you a how are you text. Nice, shows she cares but not clingy.
if you are in a bind, could you depend on her?
Probably most important. You are a man, not a boy so the occassion you need a favor should be rare. But if you do.. will she go out her way, drop what she's doing to help?
Most importantantly without emasculating you?
**** happens
Car broke down, need a ride off I-95?
Lost your debit card, need 40 bucks till new one comes?
Rent and student loans are due, but you need a car repair?
Can you call her?
Another key one, shes not argumentative
Every chick will sh#t test you, but Is this becoming a daily thing? Does she challenge your every move? If she doesn't get her way, will she pout the rest of the date and ruin the whole night with a bad attitude?
You shouldnt have to get in a d#ck meassuring contest with your lady. She has to submit majority of the time and not mind doing it.
You know she wouldn't mind a relationship, but shes not pressuring you either. Shes just content being around
Ditto. She's not pressuring you. The one you want is content without titles, even though she wouldn't mind one. She is just happy having you around.
These are a few of Colas green flags.It doesn't mean marry her right away or anything like that, or drop all your plates.. all it means is she is a rare pokemon.The mewtwo of women and it may be worth it to keep her around
Feel free to add your own green flags.
I leave you with a quote from The Book of Proverbs:
A good woman is hard to find,
and worth far more than diamonds.
Her husband trusts her without reserve,
and never has reason to regret it.
Never spiteful, she treats him generously
all her life long.
She shops around for the best yarns and cottons,
and enjoys knitting and sewing.
She’s like a trading ship that sails to faraway places
and brings back exotic surprises.
She’s up before dawn, preparing breakfast
for her family and organizing her day.
She looks over a field and buys it,
then, with money she’s put aside, plants a garden.
First thing in the morning, she dresses for work,
rolls up her sleeves, eager to get started.
She senses the worth of her work,
is in no hurry to call it quits for the day.
She’s skilled in the crafts of home and hearth,
diligent in homemaking.
She’s quick to assist anyone in need,
reaches out to help the poor.
She doesn’t worry about her family when it snows;
their winter clothes are all mended and ready to wear.
She makes her own clothing,
and dresses in colorful linens and silks.
Her husband is greatly respected
when he deliberates with the city fathers.
She designs gowns and sells them,
brings the sweaters she knits to the dress shops.
Her clothes are well-made and elegant,
and she always faces tomorrow with a smile.
When she speaks she has something worthwhile to say,
and she always says it kindly.
She keeps an eye on everyone in her household,
and keeps them all busy and productive.
Her children respect and bless her;
her husband joins in with words of praise:
“Many women have done wonderful things,
but you’ve outclassed them all!”
Charm can mislead and beauty soon fades.
The woman to be admired and praised
is the woman who lives in the Fear-of-God.
Give her everything she deserves!
Festoon her life with praises!
