Great Date, then i get the cliche line...

[Demonicale]

You know it pisses me off when your speaking to a girl for 2 weeks ... then you goto the trouble of a date (that was brilliant) as in we did'nt stop talking and everything was going well

And then you recieve the text ... "i'm still not over my ex, it's not you it's me i'm sorry" ... i mean WHA THE ****!!? ...

An women wonder why us guys ... yeah US GUYS ... the guys who try to be good .. not like a ***** or anything, just kinda nice... turn into such pricks ... because of YOUR ****!.

Anyhow, my rant over ...

Has anyone else found that on here, the bigger the prick you act the more results you get? ... as i did'nt alway's act "good" to women and enjoyed better results.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

Honestly you need to blow her off at this point. No answering or initiating calls, no texting or replying, no contact. Let her wonder. And let her keep on wondering.

You don't have to act like an a$$ to women, just don't be a "friend" or a nice guy, but a good person who has a backbone and his own life.

Women are only here to compliment your life. Not be the whole of it.

 

[Matt281]

lol my ex did the exact same thing to a guy she met.

 

[nismo-4]

This cliche line means that she's just not that into you. You're just not better than her ex.

Case closed. Move on.

 

[Diaforetikos]

Should of turned up your sexual notches. Bet you she wouldn't texted you that little cliche after some good old fashion kino. Its the basics man.

Better luck next time mate.

 

[f283000]

Should of turned up your sexual notches. Bet you she wouldn't texted you that little cliche after some good old fashion kino. Its the basics man.

Better luck next time mate.

THIS and what nismo said.

OP, you said this

You know it pisses me off when your speaking to a girl for 2 weeks ... then you goto the trouble of a date (that was brilliant) as in we did'nt stop talking and everything was going well

So this is how you define an "excellent" date?? So you couldn't stop chatting with her, everything was going well, all good and fun right?

Well guess what she could pick a random guy from the street that could give her a fun night out just like you did! She could pick a random guy from the street that would chat her up for hours just like you did! Does it mean that she will f*** him? NO!

You said the date went excellent but let me correct you IT DIDN'T! And you know what you're problem is? You believe what most men in this world have been taught to believe in. You go on a date with the mentality of giving a woman a good fun time, chatting for hours, when instead you need to be thinking of just how much you are going to push her buttons that night!

A good date is not all about how much you chat with a woman or how much fun you have. A good date is about how far you can push her buttons while having a good time!

How much simple kino? Did you do other forms of kino? Did you put your arm around her? Did you neg her? Did you disagree with some of the stuff she said to create disconnection? Did you talk about topics involving sex or kissing? DID YOU KISS HER??? Did you get her to sit on your lap? Did you spank her butt?


The above list are just a few things that a PUA will try on a date to push the envelope a bit. You need to go on a date with a mentality of not just having fun but creating attraction and pushing the envelope and using kino as much as you can.

Don't think just because you were chatting for hours and everything seemed rosy that somehow a female will want to f*** you. If she wanted to chat for hours and have a good fun night she could just call up her girlfriends. You on the other hand need to provide both a fun experience and a romantic experience at the same time.

If you look back on a date and you couldn't tell that it was a romantic date between you and her but more like a hangout then IT WAS NOT EXCELLENT.

 

[Joe Stud]

actually she was honest. less time to waste. next

 

[seagull]

It shouldn't piss you off. You shouldn't be attached to a girl after two weeks.

But since you are, then this is a positive thing as you would likely have been the rebound had she let you keep seeing her and you would've let her hurt you even more.

 

[Demonicale]

THIS and what nismo said.

OP, you said this

So this is how you define an "excellent" date?? So you couldn't stop chatting with her, everything was going well, all good and fun right?

Well guess what she could pick a random guy from the street that could give her a fun night out just like you did! She could pick a random guy from the street that would chat her up for hours just like you did! Does it mean that she will f*** him? NO!

You said the date went excellent but let me correct you IT DIDN'T! And you know what you're problem is? You believe what most men in this world have been taught to believe in. You go on a date with the mentality of giving a woman a good fun time, chatting for hours, when instead you need to be thinking of just how much you are going to push her buttons that night!

A good date is not all about how much you chat with a woman or how much fun you have. A good date is about how far you can push her buttons while having a good time!

How much simple kino? Did you do other forms of kino? Did you put your arm around her? Did you neg her? Did you disagree with some of the stuff she said to create disconnection? Did you talk about topics involving sex or kissing? DID YOU KISS HER??? Did you get her to sit on your lap? Did you spank her butt?


The above list are just a few things that a PUA will try on a date to push the envelope a bit. You need to go on a date with a mentality of not just having fun but creating attraction and pushing the envelope and using kino as much as you can.

Don't think just because you were chatting for hours and everything seemed rosy that somehow a female will want to f*** you. If she wanted to chat for hours and have a good fun night she could just call up her girlfriends. You on the other hand need to provide both a fun experience and a romantic experience at the same time.

If you look back on a date and you couldn't tell that it was a romantic date between you and her but more like a hangout then IT WAS NOT EXCELLENT.

Ok first i wanna say "thanks" it seem's this forum has settled down abit and we have some good advice comming through

Yeah i think looking back that was my problem, i DID put my arm around her,hold hands etc ... but i did'nt bother going in for the kiss at any point ... nor did i try to make any attempt at being sexual.

I thought for the first date, it would be good that i could talk to her confidently without any awkwardness and maybe be abit light on the kino etc ..

So everyone seem's to be in agreement that i should've escalated by going for the kiss? ... i don't want to make this the only thing i did wrong as that would suck right?...

I mean, i know everyone makes mistakes and i know's there's plenty more girls out there ... but i just can't help but feel alittle down.

I guess it's back to the drawing board for me lol :nervous:

 

[K-man]

Don't be so hard on yourself mate.

We all make mistakes and every date and every woman has it's own twists.
Do what I do: Get out there and practice, practice and then practice some more!

 

[maqnetik]

sometimes this is just her way of trying to get you to act thirsty/desperate because shes used to that and youre not jumping through hoops to impress her.

 

[f283000]

but i did'nt bother going in for the kiss at any point ... nor did i try to make any attempt at being sexual.

I thought so

Demonicale, you have to realize something first. The simple fact that a female is on a date with you shows that you are attractive enough/interesting enough for her at that point to give you that chance. A female will usually not go out with a man she sees herself giving no chance to having a relationship with.

So you being on a date with her shows that you both are open to a possible relationship depending on how things go.

With that said it is 100% better to show that you are a sexual being than not show you are a sexual being.

She is on a date with you, she is single, she finds you attractive/interesting enough to be with you on this date. Now you have to show your intentions and that you're a sexual being as well.

Women feed off of the vibe you give them. If you give off a friendly and fun vibe that's good but guess what so do her girlfriends. You need to be all that PLUS sexual to show her you can be more than just a friend you can be her lover.

 

[Demonicale]

All may NOT be lost, cause i got a text this morning saying "Sorry for being a ***** the other night, can i make it up to you? .. will you meet me sunday for a drink?"

I then said, well i don't want to meet you as a friend as you know i like you and whatever.

She txt me back saying how she really likes me and she just freaked.

So now i have another date with her sunday, she said she will explain her behavior .....

But now i'm even more nervous about meeting her sunday, i mean, i may have to force the issue and kiss her and be more sexual .. i was going to wait awhile.

 

[scribblec]

dont meet her on sunday just to get an explanation from her that just makes u look pathetic... shes already tried to fob u off and yet the moment she claps her hands you are quick to jump...

my advice is to flake on her

 

[Falcon25]

Listen,

This usually has nothing to do with you. Sometimes, you could be Bradd Pitt, and they won't want you. The reason for this is because if a woman loves her ex she needs TIME to get over him. She's on the rebound. Don't expect anything. Just as in life, meeting women is all about good TIMING. If a girl is trippin over her ex, it's very difficult to make her fall for you. Go out and have a good time with her. DON'T EXPECT ANYTHING FROM A WOMAN ON THE REBOUND.

 

[PlayCold]

Be glad she texted it to you later.... I once was about to f*ck this girl and then she said: "I'm sorry I can't do this.... I still love my ex"

 

[yuppaz]

I would personally meet up with her and playfully use her explanation as a reason to move in. You can even assume the sale at this point. She blatantly told you "she really likes you". You may even be able to just show up, give her a hug, a little kiss on the cheek, sit close to her, don't even discuss what happened at all and when you're feeling the moment state into her eyes, then lips then move in and kiss her. On this one I would try to forgive the last mishaps and make it like it never happened.

 

[Demonicale]

dont meet her on sunday just to get an explanation from her that just makes u look pathetic... shes already tried to fob u off and yet the moment she claps her hands you are quick to jump...

my advice is to flake on her

Usually i would agree with you 100% ... i mean i'm not new to the game and have heard all the **** that women come out with ...

But why i decided to give her another chance is she said "i was a *****", "i just freaked" and "I DO really like you and i'll explain" ... plus she's constantly txting me ...

What i'm gonna do is go on the date and not expect anything, but i ain't gonna just sit there like a ****ing clown this time ... i'm gonna come out with some stupid **** like "I've been wanting to do this since the first date" then go for the kiss ... lol

But if she ****s me around this time it's OVER.

Whatcha think guys?

 

[Demonicale]

Now she's text me "If you want,your more than welcome to come over to mine and chill tomorrow,got the house to myself WOOHOO! xx*

Now is this what i think it is .....

This has GOT TO BE a green light to move forward right?, but it's only the second date

 

[Diaforetikos]

Your in the bag. Fvck this up, and officially call yourself a b!tch.

Escalate your a$$ off. Think and breathe sexual. This isn't a second date. This is an easy lay. Get your work done and report back here as soon as possible. And take risks. If you mess up becasue you took some chances, then it's ok if you mess up.

Good luck mate!!