This is most likely why you run into these situations in the first place.
Your making the classic rookie mistake of putting this girl on a pedestal because you have already determined she is relationship material when you have only went out on one date!!!
Furthermore you think that you need to VERBALLY show her that she's special and not just some chick you want to bang, but any solid DJ knows that the key to seducing a woman, escalating interest level and closing is to SHOW her rather than tell her.
Honestly I think your putting this chick on wayyyy to high of a pedestal without really knowing much about her. Secondly you held hands with her on the first date, which is a great way to scare her away since your acting like your in a relationship already. Slow down, relax, enjoy the moment rather than worrying about the future. But just don't forget that you are a man and its GOOD for you to express your sexual desire in a suave way.
PIMP