Got pulled by copper for not wearing my seatbelt when i was!

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Hi all, thanks for taking the time out to read my post.

Basically, my situation is as follows:

Driving down a road, spotted a policecar reversing into a driveway to go in the direction i was going. I saw in my mirrors that he pulled out behind me. I made sure i was driving careful. He's behind me for about a minute and then i saw flashing lights.

I pull in and stop the car. Handbrake on, neutral gear, turned the engine off, and took my seatbelt off. Realized that i forgot to wind my window down, so turned the key again to do so. Coppper shows and says i wasnt driving with a seatbelt, get in the back of his car. Shock! I pointed out to him that i was, and that i had just removed it. He said he saw me not wearing it and that i tryed to put it back on when i stopped the car! I was both fuming and overwhelmed at this.

As i was getting out of the car, i said "I'm not having this!" Angry because i've done no wrong. Now i was still trying to point out that i was wearing the seatbelt, and perhaps unwisely said "just cause i've got a nice car." Upon reaching the passenger side door of the policecar, i was still saying i was wearing my seatbelt, and then he grit his teeth staring at me and said "You're a liar!" I tried to reason with the guy, i pointed out that my car has an alarm that goes off if i drive off without my seatbelt on. I'd been on the road for over an hour and why would i not wear it and have to listen to the constand drone of an alarm in my ears?

I got back in my car after talking further, and i put my seatbelt on, he told me to turn my engine on. He said there's no alarm, to which i said i'd have to drive away for it to come on, which he could do, but i pointed out that it would be breaking the law lol, so i then pointed to the seatbelt light on my dash which was lit. As if i'm not gonna notice that when im driving!

Upon returning to his car, i stated the fact that with my fiat grande punto sporting having a smallish back window with a black border surrounding it, that it was hard to see my seatbelt. He got in my car, and put my seatbelt on while i stayed in the car to see if i could see it. I moved my head to the drivers seat and moved it around at different angles. Yes, i could see he had it on, but hardly. Due to the fact the seatbelt comes across its not showing the bulk of the belt.

He returned and said that i could attend a 2 hour crash course and no further action would be taken, or id get taken to court. Well because im innocent of breaking the law, i said id see him in court (im from the UK so our system will be different i'd assume). He starts writing out a bit of what was said. And then said that my attitude wouldn't help matters. Which is a joke considering that he was basically bullying me and using an intimidating tone. Calling me a liar, when im not. I was standing up for the truth, and of course im gonna defend my point. He didnt like it, and he defo had a chip on his shoulder.

Saying that he's pulled a number of people not wearing their seatbelts that day, and how he's got a career for 30 years bla bla. Yet when i stated to him that i'd past a parked policecar already that day, and if i wasn't wearing my seatbelt he'd have seen. He dismissed this also. I felt like he was using the threat of court to persuade me to go this course.

I asked him a number of questions, like how do i contact to know about going to court etc. I did take the option to go the course, because he said that i dont have to go and still get summoned. So i wanted options i guess, but because i felt under pressure i dont know what was the best course of action to take.

I see this "crash course" as a community service, why should i go when i ain't done owt wrong? It's the principle. Why should the cops get a tick to say i attended so they can say they got x amount of people to boost some stats?

If i go, yes its over and done with in 2 hours, no further action taken. Yet what would you each do if you were wearing your seatbelt, and you were dealt the same as i was? I want to put in a complaint against the officer, and go to court. I'l say that yes my reaction wasn't a calm one, and this perhaps did me no favours, but i did say to the officer in the car, that i didnt mean to have an attitude.

What should i do now? Please anybody who could help, i'd greatly appreciate it, thanks.

Also, i had an accident 3 months ago. My car was written off, i hit a tree straight on at bout 40mph. I was wearing my seatbelt, so i fully know by experience the importance of wearing one. Yet why am i made to feel guilty and having to explain myself? I've been stressed for hours, but i want my name cleared.
 

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what i dont understand is why you would take your seatbelt off when you have just been pulled over by cops, you just gave them a reason to hassle you
 

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reminds me of the time I got rear ended by a cop when I was on my BICYCLE. I hear the revving and turned around in time to see them smirk.

anyways they tried to fine me and take my bike for BIKING ON THE SIDEWALK.

i went to court and defended myself basically asking them how they were driving on the sidewalk if I were on the sidewalk. There is hard evidence they rear ended my bike.

anyways, i got off clean and they got no punishments but a HUUUUUge waste of time. some people are just pricks
 

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I had parked my car, and turned the engine off. So im breaking no law by taking the seatbelt off, im not at a set of traffic lights parked or anything else. And there isn't any set procedure i have to abide by other than pull over in a safe place and stop i guess.

But i do know what you mean, in hindsight i should have left it on, but given that my engine is off it doesn't really make a difference. As my car isn't in a drivable state, so im not going anywhere. Though given that he had to pull me over for a reason in the first place, and the fact that people without seatbelts was what they were clamping down on according to him, i figure he would have still said i had just put it on even if i hadnt have removed it lol.

In future i'll keep it on, no doubt about that. Though it still doesn't mean i was driving without it.
 

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Samedi said:
Hi all, thanks for taking the time out to read my post.

Basically, my situation is as follows:

Driving down a road, spotted a policecar reversing into a driveway to go in the direction i was going. I saw in my mirrors that he pulled out behind me. I made sure i was driving careful. He's behind me for about a minute and then i saw flashing lights.

I pull in and stop the car. Handbrake on, neutral gear, turned the engine off, and took my seatbelt off. Realized that i forgot to wind my window down, so turned the key again to do so. Coppper shows and says i wasnt driving with a seatbelt, get in the back of his car. Shock! I pointed out to him that i was, and that i had just removed it. He said he saw me not wearing it and that i tryed to put it back on when i stopped the car! I was both fuming and overwhelmed at this.

As i was getting out of the car, i said "I'm not having this!" Angry because i've done no wrong. Now i was still trying to point out that i was wearing the seatbelt, and perhaps unwisely said "just cause i've got a nice car." Upon reaching the passenger side door of the policecar, i was still saying i was wearing my seatbelt, and then he grit his teeth staring at me and said "You're a liar!" I tried to reason with the guy, i pointed out that my car has an alarm that goes off if i drive off without my seatbelt on. I'd been on the road for over an hour and why would i not wear it and have to listen to the constand drone of an alarm in my ears?

I got back in my car after talking further, and i put my seatbelt on, he told me to turn my engine on. He said there's no alarm, to which i said i'd have to drive away for it to come on, which he could do, but i pointed out that it would be breaking the law lol, so i then pointed to the seatbelt light on my dash which was lit. As if i'm not gonna notice that when im driving!

Upon returning to his car, i stated the fact that with my fiat grande punto sporting having a smallish back window with a black border surrounding it, that it was hard to see my seatbelt. He got in my car, and put my seatbelt on while i stayed in the car to see if i could see it. I moved my head to the drivers seat and moved it around at different angles. Yes, i could see he had it on, but hardly. Due to the fact the seatbelt comes across its not showing the bulk of the belt.

He returned and said that i could attend a 2 hour crash course and no further action would be taken, or id get taken to court. Well because im innocent of breaking the law, i said id see him in court (im from the UK so our system will be different i'd assume). He starts writing out a bit of what was said. And then said that my attitude wouldn't help matters. Which is a joke considering that he was basically bullying me and using an intimidating tone. Calling me a liar, when im not. I was standing up for the truth, and of course im gonna defend my point. He didnt like it, and he defo had a chip on his shoulder.

Saying that he's pulled a number of people not wearing their seatbelts that day, and how he's got a career for 30 years bla bla. Yet when i stated to him that i'd past a parked policecar already that day, and if i wasn't wearing my seatbelt he'd have seen. He dismissed this also. I felt like he was using the threat of court to persuade me to go this course.

I asked him a number of questions, like how do i contact to know about going to court etc. I did take the option to go the course, because he said that i dont have to go and still get summoned. So i wanted options i guess, but because i felt under pressure i dont know what was the best course of action to take.

I see this "crash course" as a community service, why should i go when i ain't done owt wrong? It's the principle. Why should the cops get a tick to say i attended so they can say they got x amount of people to boost some stats?

If i go, yes its over and done with in 2 hours, no further action taken. Yet what would you each do if you were wearing your seatbelt, and you were dealt the same as i was? I want to put in a complaint against the officer, and go to court. I'l say that yes my reaction wasn't a calm one, and this perhaps did me no favours, but i did say to the officer in the car, that i didnt mean to have an attitude.

What should i do now? Please anybody who could help, i'd greatly appreciate it, thanks.

Also, i had an accident 3 months ago. My car was written off, i hit a tree straight on at bout 40mph. I was wearing my seatbelt, so i fully know by experience the importance of wearing one. Yet why am i made to feel guilty and having to explain myself? I've been stressed for hours, but i want my name cleared.
Take a step back and stop trying to be logical with the police officer.

He is obviously on a power trip.

And yes he probably is subconsciously jealous of your nice ride.

But what's the point of actually saying it to his face. You are just fanning the flame.

And then you go and on about him being wrong - making him feel stupid.

Now his pride is injured so of course his ego is going to make sure he gives you hell so he assigns you to this crash course - which is a complete waste of time for you.

Next time something similar like this happens, stay cool and poised tell him something like:

'Oh this has happened to me before. Cops have mistakenly pulled me over for not having a seatbelt, the reason why is because of my car. The back window is rather small and the border around it is black, so it is difficult to see clearly.'

And then add: 'I would love to show you how my car does not even let me drive without a seatbelt, the alarm automatically turns on.'

Understand human nature. If you come off as standoffish to a cop - you are dead because they are a power trip. By telling the cop he is wrong, you are attacking his ego, and you will bear the brunt of his power. If you let him know that is the CAR that confuses cops, then he can admit his mistake while leaving with his ego intact and you are free to go.

But now here your ego comes in: 'But I was right and he was wrong, why can't I just tell him straight up he is mistaken?'

Kill your ego and be smart, that way you get what you want. That is true power.
 

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Damn man sounds like a lot of hassle. Where I'm at I guess I'm pretty lucky its just a $10 ticket if you get busted and no insurance issues.
 

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Never f*ck with cops. When you get pulled over turn the car off and don't move. Provide them with your ID as you are required by law, and refuse to have any further conversation with them by invoking your fifth amendment rights. Seriously, nothing but harm comes in talking to cops.

Samedi said:
I pull in and stop the car. Handbrake on, neutral gear, turned the engine off, and took my seatbelt off. Realized that i forgot to wind my window down, so turned the key again to do so. Coppper shows and says i wasnt driving with a seatbelt, get in the back of his car. Shock! I pointed out to him that i was, and that i had just removed it. He said he saw me not wearing it and that i tryed to put it back on when i stopped the car! I was both fuming and overwhelmed at this.
If you have the key in the ignition you are considered driving. Because you had the key in the ignition and your seatbelt was not on you actually were breaking the law, even if you weren't wearing it previously.

(im from the UK so our system will be different i'd assume)
Well in this case I'm not sure what the laws are, since everything I just wrote about was based on US law.
 

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Well,you're lucky the cops whereever you live give a damn. Where I live, they don't. You can do anything and they won't enforce it. You can hit n run and they won't even try to look for you or investigate. As a result, I live in the most dangerous city in the whole continent.

Watch out for what you wish for.
 

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The cop got in your car and put your seatbelt on? What the hell kind of cop is this?

I've had pointless traffic bs thrown out of court before, and rarely have I seen a situation like yours not award in your favor (if it was going to court, that is).

When it comes to the road, I have learned to keep everything clean as a whistle. It seems like so many people get in trouble for things found in a vehicle, just leave your sh!t at home man! I see clearly a correlation between a clean vehicle and not getting busted.
 

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JLay87 said:
Seriously, nothing but harm comes in talking to cops.
:rolleyes: Please. Speak for yourself. I talk to cops on a fairly regular basis and no harm has ever come to me (unless you count that speeding ticket I got 6 months ago, which was no fault of the cop's).

To the OP, if it were me I'd fight the ticket just based on general principle. Nothing worse than taking a hit for a crime you didn't commit, imo. I'd go to jail for a month out of spite to avoid confessing to a crime that didn't happen, lol. I don't know if that's your bag, but that's what I would do.
 

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I talk to cops on a fairly regular basis
In what context? I was referring to in the context of them charging you with a crime, which I thought was completely obvious.

(unless you count that speeding ticket I got 6 months ago, which was no fault of the cop's).
"Fault" is a poor term in this case. Chances are that as long as you didn't confess (and saying you were going 56 in a 55 is a legally admissible confession) you could have gotten the ticket thrown out.

Anyways, this isn't related to your specific speeding case, but this is why you shouldn't talk to cops:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i8z7NC5sgik
 

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JLay87 said:
In what context? I was referring to in the context of them charging you with a crime, which I thought was completely obvious.
Oh. Well I guess I've never come across that sort of situation since I obey the law. So I suppose that yes, if you're talking to a cop in regards to a crime you just committed then yeah, harm will probably come to you...lol.

"Fault" is a poor term in this case. Chances are that as long as you didn't confess (and saying you were going 56 in a 55 is a legally admissible confession) you could have gotten the ticket thrown out.
I hope so, man. I'm doing the written trial right now. He said he was "pacing" me, which I hope doesn't hold up in court.

Anyways, this isn't related to your specific speeding case, but this is why you shouldn't talk to cops:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i8z7NC5sgik
Dude, come on. You really expect me to watch an anti-police vid that's a half hour long? :p I get it. Cops are have power. Don't mess with people that have the power to F you up. I agree.
 

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Oh. Well I guess I've never come across that sort of situation since I obey the law. So I suppose that yes, if you're talking to a cop in regards to a crime you just committed then yeah, harm will probably come to you...lol.
Uh, or if you haven't committed a crime.

Dude, come on. You really expect me to watch an anti-police vid that's a half hour long?
Yes, it's a very good speech. By a defense attorney and a cop. :)
 

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The Piano Master said:
Bro, it can be way worse with cops. Just check this out: TASERS ARE FUN FOR COPS

:yawn: You disobey the law, you risk getting tased. It's a REAL simple equation. When you choose not to follow an order a police officer has issued, then you accept the risks that go along with that choice. In short, if a cop tells you to get back in your car...you may want to think about gettin' the F back in your car.
 
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Just a Shot Away said:
:yawn: You disobey the law, you risk getting tased. It's a REAL simple equation. When you choose not to follow an order a police officer has issued, then you accept the risks that go along with that choice. In short, if a cop tells you to get back in your car...you may want to think about gettin' the F back in your car.
No joke, bro. They'll beat you into something unrecognizable for nothing. When I deal with cops, I just shut my mouth, bite my tongue, and pray to all the Gods in the sky that the H1N1 starter that pulled me over doesn't go Mason Verger on me. I think you must be the same way.
 

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Elect to go to traffic court.

1.) The charging officer probably won't show but if he does...

2.) Explain to the judge just what happened but NOT in a manner of calling the cop a prick. You seem to have a chip about LEOs already. Instead simply tell the judge that you stopped when you saw his lights, pulled over, popped off your seatbelt in order to lean up to pull wallet to begin the search for your ID and registration. I am sure that is what you did next....right? ;)

3.) Add that you know what the officer saw when he approached the vehicle BUT prior to that you were wearing it and he view must have been someway obstructed. You know that it was being worn correctly up until you put the car in park and killed the engine.

NOTE: Most LEO cars film now - make damn sure you had it on correctly before your brake and reverse lights flash as you put your car in park.

Your BIG mistake was getting angry and disrespectful right off - defensiveness and hostility shows guilt to most LEO pretty fast.
 

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scribblec said:
what i dont understand is why you would take your seatbelt off when you have just been pulled over by cops, you just gave them a reason to hassle you
I agree that was a very stupid thing to do. You are getting pulled over by the cop and you take of you seat belt..hmm

I dont see why you are fighting it so much.. Here in US first seat belt vialation fine is around 45-50 dollars. Hardly anything to lose sleep over.
 

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Or you could go the karmic route and admit you've driven without a seatbelt in the past, go to your 2 hour course, enjoy it, and get on with your life.

Going to court is wasting your most precious currency; time.
 
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Prodigy746 said:
I agree that was a very stupid thing to do. You are getting pulled over by the cop and you take of you seat belt..hmm

I dont see why you are fighting it so much.. Here in US first seat belt vialation fine is around 45-50 dollars. Hardly anything to lose sleep over.
The money isn't the issue, my DJ brother. It is all about the ethics of the cop here. He knew he had his belt on before he pulled him over. It's just not right.
 

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