i really need your help here guys. i came to this place to get some advice on what to do anyway....
I been dating this chic for 9 months, when we first met i asked how how her last relationship ended and she said she cheated on the guy she with for 4 years for a year. at the time she did a good job making me believe that it was all i mistake and she has changed..so we started dating we became pretty serious and exclusive. she would always come over to my house everyday to see me and sleep with me and i would so the same. we did everything together and we even went on a trip together. we were tight and i was really falling for her hard but i have a little of a jealous streak and insecurity due to her past, she had a wild past with threesomes and all that stuff so it made me a lil insecure whenever she get call s from guys from her work or other guys from her past. so anyway fat forward to out 7th month being together...she started acting all distant and less affectionate towards me , and she said that maybe we should see each other less and have more time with our friends, so i refused and asked why , its because i got so used to being with her everyday and it was hard to adjust. so she started acting ll distant and **** and would make up lies how she can't meet me cause shes going to a faimly dinner and stuff so she would see me the next day instead. then out of nowhere she told me i need space. so i agreed and i stopped contact for 1 week then she finally contacted me a week later saying she misses me and she wants to work it out so i agreed. things are good and **** for a week then she become distant again and would see me less cause she said she wants to take things slow and build trust to have a better relationship this time. so anyway one night she was sleeping over my house and i noticed she was getting a call ffrom a number ..so i decided to take the number down and call this person the next day. i called the person and talk to this dude who apparently has beeing datign my gf for 2 months now and he even told me how she wanted to be with him and she was single. my gf even blew this guy while we were on a break so i was pissed and i confronted her so she told me how she met this guy they got along started having feelings for him so she decided she wante space to see what can happen between him and her. but she realized that she loved me and wanted to be with me. i was pissed and told her that her just work it out witth your new guy and good luck. so 3 days later she calls me and told me that she was with this dude now and really hurt me why she would call me tell me this **** for....she has been calling me trying to be friends with me and ****......i was thinking maybe i should just try to get back with her and use her a sex buddy or just completely move on...i still tink abotu her and i miss her....any advice? how do i get revenge and make her realized shes wrong?
I been dating this chic for 9 months, when we first met i asked how how her last relationship ended and she said she cheated on the guy she with for 4 years for a year. at the time she did a good job making me believe that it was all i mistake and she has changed..so we started dating we became pretty serious and exclusive. she would always come over to my house everyday to see me and sleep with me and i would so the same. we did everything together and we even went on a trip together. we were tight and i was really falling for her hard but i have a little of a jealous streak and insecurity due to her past, she had a wild past with threesomes and all that stuff so it made me a lil insecure whenever she get call s from guys from her work or other guys from her past. so anyway fat forward to out 7th month being together...she started acting all distant and less affectionate towards me , and she said that maybe we should see each other less and have more time with our friends, so i refused and asked why , its because i got so used to being with her everyday and it was hard to adjust. so she started acting ll distant and **** and would make up lies how she can't meet me cause shes going to a faimly dinner and stuff so she would see me the next day instead. then out of nowhere she told me i need space. so i agreed and i stopped contact for 1 week then she finally contacted me a week later saying she misses me and she wants to work it out so i agreed. things are good and **** for a week then she become distant again and would see me less cause she said she wants to take things slow and build trust to have a better relationship this time. so anyway one night she was sleeping over my house and i noticed she was getting a call ffrom a number ..so i decided to take the number down and call this person the next day. i called the person and talk to this dude who apparently has beeing datign my gf for 2 months now and he even told me how she wanted to be with him and she was single. my gf even blew this guy while we were on a break so i was pissed and i confronted her so she told me how she met this guy they got along started having feelings for him so she decided she wante space to see what can happen between him and her. but she realized that she loved me and wanted to be with me. i was pissed and told her that her just work it out witth your new guy and good luck. so 3 days later she calls me and told me that she was with this dude now and really hurt me why she would call me tell me this **** for....she has been calling me trying to be friends with me and ****......i was thinking maybe i should just try to get back with her and use her a sex buddy or just completely move on...i still tink abotu her and i miss her....any advice? how do i get revenge and make her realized shes wrong?
