Got a job and most of my co-workers are hot girls. How would I go about gaming?

[Clockwerk50]

Incorrect. That would be a better play if he were working a white collar job that he wanted to keep that job for an extended period of time. This isn't a white collar job. This is a service sector job in a bar/restaurant.

No offence, but maybe @Travel memoir21 has more experience and gets more punani than almost all of everyone here combined? Lol

 

[Travel memoir21]

No offence, but maybe @Travel memoir21 has more experience and gets more punani than almost all of everyone here combined? Lol

Let me ask you this...do you have a great social circle where it's totally happening and you've met a couple of the girls you've hooked up with there? If you don't, then exactly. If you have then you would totally agree with what I'm saying. The truth of the matter is these type of things happen organically and naturally if you're just a cool dude whose not desperate for feminine approval. A couple of athletic chicks who worked out and lifted weights dmed me on my Tinder a few days ago...but being me, I chose not to reciprocate because I know what type of girl I want and I'm not into short term flings, I'm a Man of faith and won't compromise my beliefs on intimacy for short term pleasure.

 

[corrector]

A couple of athletic chicks who worked out and lifted weights dmed me on my Tinder a few days ago...but being me, I chose not to reciprocate because I know what type of girl I want and I'm not into short term flings, I'm a Man of faith and won't compromise my beliefs on intimacy for short term pleasure.

Just because someone dmed you doesn't mean it's going to go anywhere, lol I have never been on Tinder before, but if you are a man of faith, then wouldn't you just go on a Christian website, like Christian Filipina or Christiancafe? As a Christian/man of faith, I would have reservations against going on a site like Tinder (ie if my life/home situation was not too oppressive enough to meet women in the first place). It's not a place you are going to meet like minded women of faith.

 

[Travel memoir21]

Just because someone dmed you doesn't mean it's going to go anywhere, lol I have never been on Tinder before, but if you are a man of faith, then wouldn't you just go on a Christian website, like Christian Filipina or Christiancafe? As a Christian/man of faith, I would have reservations against going on a site like Tinder (ie if my life/home situation was not too oppressive enough to meet women in the first place). It's not a place you are going to meet like minded women of faith.

Lol...I'm in South East Asia bro...most of the girls here are pretty conservative, relationship minded and religious. The few girls that I am talking to on Tinder are the ones that giving off cute, chaste, reserve vibes that I like and I know are good people. When Im in America thats when I don't use my Tinder as much and try to meet people in real life. It really depends where you're at if Tinder can be a great tool or not, if I'm in a liberal place like Austin, Texas or Los Angeles...lol haha, I would not use my Tinder but if I'm in a laidback province in Japan in the mountains where people meditate daily somewhere...you bet your @ss I'm using Tinder to meet the Locals.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

A few years ago, I got divorced. My work has good looking people. When it became known I was single, a number of the girls made advances.
So. Things happen organically. If you are attractive, the girls at your work will initiate. All that remains is for you to handle it correctly.
In my case, the girl that won out was the one I fell hard for.

 

[Oatmeal31]

A few years ago, I got divorced. My work has good looking people. When it became known I was single, a number of the girls made advances.
So. Things happen organically. If you are attractive, the girls at your work will initiate. All that remains is for you to handle it correctly.
In my case, the girl that won out was the one I fell hard for.

Give us an example of what happened. She initiated, and you asked her out, or did she invite you somewhere

 

[corrector]

Lol...I'm in South East Asia bro...most of the girls here are pretty conservative, relationship minded and religious. The few girls that I am talking to on Tinder are the ones that giving off cute, chaste, reserve vibes that I like and I know are good people. When Im in America thats when I don't use my Tinder as much and try to meet people in real life. It really depends where you're at if Tinder can be a great tool or not, if I'm in a liberal place like Austin, Texas or Los Angeles...lol haha, I would not use my Tinder but if I'm in a laidback province in Japan in the mountains where people meditate daily somewhere...you bet your @ss I'm using Tinder to meet the Locals.

Where did these Atheletic chicks DM you from then? In America?

 

[Travel memoir21]

Where did these Atheletic chicks DM you from then? In America?

here. I hardly get any matches in America…but here, Im a Tinder Rock star lol.

 

[Solomon]

You will have them fighting over you if you play it right and then it becomes a competition on who can fvck you first

Also a good way to get fired and have your rep ruined if you don't execute it properly(I have seen this first hand). girls are very catty, OP is better of focusing on the money first then the patrons, if things go sour with a co-worker even as a barback, you gotta see them every weekend, and things can get awkward fast. That is if you don't get fired for harassment first because a vindictive ex or hookup levy's false allegations against ya.

2nd day and instead of focusing on the job, being the best you can be there and learn it very well, you are flirting already? Desperate much?

The thirst is real with most men that value, coochie over everything, like the comment below

Why didn't you remain a bouncer for a longer time?

Being a bouncer is a good way to get pussie.

In the workplace, many bouncers have sex with attractive female bartenders. Additionally, strip club bouncers are known to have sex with strippers.

You also had options with female bar/nightclub patrons too.

It doesn't require waking up early in the morning and facing rush hour traffic to sit in an office. You get to sleep later into the day, go to the gym, and seduce at night while on the job.

Did you copy and paste this from chatgpt?

It looks like I'm in the minority, but I'm gonna suggest NOT hooking up with your co-workers.

My brother got fired from a supervisory position early last year because he got into relationships with 2 of his co-workers. The first of which created a stalkerish and vindictive ex, and the second of which is what led to his termination because other employees were complaining to management about him because he was engaging in relationships with people who were positionally beneath him.

Workplace politics differ, so basically, I'm telling you to think about how much you need this job vs this nut.

I worked as a bouncer for a short time and got plenty of attention from patrons, so you shouldn't have an issue.

I actually agree with you, I have had buddies who work as bouncers. They were 1 about the money first and the only girls they dealt with were patrons

To many men shyt where they eat cause of thirst, MOB (Money over Broads) I don't care if you working a 7-figure Job or as a barback. The money should always come first

Suppose you don't date a direct report. If you get fired because the woman makes some $hit up because of jealousy, you can sue the company and win, people are so scared that they accept the termination. There is no law against dating in a workplace. Its your word against hers, and if you have messages saved where shows it was consensual, nothing creepy from the man's part, she might be the one who losses her job for defamation. A woman just can't say you are stalking her or whatever $hit and then they firing you just like that, stop believe that bull$hit, I work with the top 3 companies in commercial/defense airplanes where politics are very strict, and this is a myth..

Not true women can and do make shyt up if they are scorned. I had a buddy who was banging 2 girls at my old job. One found out and manipulated text i.e. said certain things to get a reaction out of him, and deleted other text etc. The story is longer than I care to post but once the girl found out he was playing her, she basically orchestrated a whole scheme to get him fired. Not saying he was FULLY innocent cause he sure as hell wasn't but threatening women over text never ends well

He could have sued them but 1. he was to broke paying child support to another broad(probably would have lost anyway) and 2. He didn't have a case because of the situation

 

[SW15]

Did you copy and paste this from chatgpt?

No, I didn't copy and paste from ChatGPT.

My posts have been all based on 25 years of mating experience and observations.

There's an argument that ChatGPT has greater collective knowledge from online content posted over the years. However, I am a breathing human being that has been out in the real world unlike programmed, artificial intelligence.

I have thought about the idea of being a bouncer before. I have thought about what it would like to be a bouncer. That's where I got those comments.

 

[characternote]

My posts have been all based on 25 years of mating experience and observations.

one of the very few posters who I pay the slightest bit of attention too nowadays, now that posters like @Velasco and mikedee and a few others whose opinions I actually cared about stopped and/or left. Not that we agree on every single thing, but generally we do.

 

[BadBoy89]

Give us an example of what happened. She initiated, and you asked her out, or did she invite you somewhere

You forget your original question about 20+ hot girls and how to get with them.

You lost frame bro.

 

[New_Journey]

Not true women can and do make shyt up if they are scorned.

I never said they won't make $hit up.

I had a buddy who was banging 2 girls at my old job. One found out and manipulated text i.e. said certain things to get a reaction out of him, and deleted other text etc.

Most men are fvcking stupid, they inherently trust women. When you're fvcking a coworker, the less text, the less conversation between you two, the less you see each other, the better, it also creates an atmosphere of mystery, when only you two know about it, that $hit is an aphrodisiac for women.

You buddy is a retard who deserved what he got, he wasn't ready to fvck women in the workplace.

This is a classic oldie of mines...

The Psychology of Ignoring Women

. Yeah man, this is just some advice and insight. I already know that some of you guys on here are kiss ass beta males and worship the ground that women walk on, and this information will be hard for you to grasp. However, for those that are willing to pay attention, learn something, and...

www.sosuave.net

High level game right here...and you are in the perfect situation to apply this strategy.

Based on the strategy, my advice as to what you should do is simple.

Strategies are for beta males with no game, no charm and nothing going on for them, therefore they resort to strategies to become someone they're not.

Ignoring a girl on purpose is for puzzies, to think that " Oh let me ignore her so she likes me more" Its a cover contract, it doesn't work. She can see how you look at her from far away from time to time, she can see your body ticks when she's around you, she knows you like her and you will appear you don't have the balls to approach. You are a beta male using tactics like a robot.

You should ignore her, not on purpose, but because you're doing better things than pay attention to her. That's the difference between a beta vs alpha. I can teach you a thing or two at a low modest price, DM so you can finally leave that loser mentality of yours.

 

[CornbreadFed]

It looks like I'm in the minority, but I'm gonna suggest NOT hooking up with your co-workers.

Ehh it depends how you play it out. If you act like a douchie man ***** then yes. If you are respectful and not an butthole then you should be fine. I’ve seen it go both ways to guys losing their jobs to guys finding their eventual wife at work. A lot of people meet through work, so totally shutting down this opportunity is literally like turning down free money from the government.

 

[corrector]

here. I hardly get any matches in America…but here, Im a Tinder Rock star lol.

Oh now I get it.

 

[Travel memoir21]

Oh now I get it.

LOL….I made some changes with my Instagram, did some research and know what type of pics to post to grab their attention. Check out these Cute girls, I recently matched up with, they all look like they’re in their 20s. Good stuff dude.

 

[SW15]

I’ve seen it go both ways to guys losing their jobs to guys finding their eventual wife at work. A lot of people meet through work, so totally shutting down this opportunity is literally like turning down free money from the government.

Meeting women for sex/relationships has been declining since the 1990s for 2-3 related reasons (see chart below), all having to do with white collar work. White collar work isn't where @Oatmeal31 is right now. However, I'll mention the factors in white collar work.

1. The 1990s was before Gen Y/Millennials had really made an impact on the mating environment. At the end of the 1990s, the oldest Millennials were in high school. More of the Millennials were in 6th grade or younger in 1999.

Millennials became a very educated group. Millennials that got bachelor's degrees got their bachelor's degrees in the 2000s and early 2010s. Millennials have completed bachelor's degrees at a rate above Generation X and Baby Boomers. In the Boomer generation, having a bachelor's degree meant something. It has meant less for Millennials and now for Gen Z.

Millennials got their bachelor's and advanced level degrees in an era of rising college tuition costs and many Millennials had their degree completion dates timed with the late 2000s/early 2010s massive recessionary period.

It was difficult for Millennials to complete their EXPENSIVE degrees and start to interview for white collar work right as the worst economic recession since the end of World War II was happening.

2. Sexual harassment culture started to emerge out of 1990s. Human Resource departments (comprised mostly of educated, careerist women) started claiming that men were oppressing women with sexual advances in the workplace. This movement gained a lot of steam in the 1990s-2000s. While many corrupt men were exposed, many men with were mild offenses were made to be examples. Many men started losing jobs due to sexual harassment culture in the 1990s-2000s. Sexual harassment culture is still a major part of white collar work to this day, and it has sexually sterilized white collar working environments.

3. Job interviewing for white collar work has gotten much more difficult. White collar workers (especially males) don't want to run the risk of having their jobs be affected and having to look for work. Older Millennials like myself have lived through 3 significant economic downturns in the last 20 years (Great Recession, Pandemic 2020, and now the white collar recession of 2023-present). Job searching has been unpleasant in all of these. Additionally, the way in which white collar jobs are now found has changed. Since the 2000s, white collar jobs have all been applied for online. The majority of white collar professionals now have to submit hundreds to thousands of resumes online for job postings and sit through longer interview processes in order to get a job. Getting a white collar job was easier in the 1980s-1990s.




For white collar workers, the better play is to avoid dating and sexual harassment culture at work. The better play is to make social connections with females at work and hope you get introductions to their female friends who have jobs elsewhere.

 

[Clockwerk50]

Let me ask you this...do you have a great social circle where it's totally happening and you've met a couple of the girls you've hooked up with there? If you don't, then exactly. If you have then you would totally agree with what I'm saying. The truth of the matter is these type of things happen organically and naturally if you're just a cool dude whose not desperate for feminine approval. A couple of athletic chicks who worked out and lifted weights dmed me on my Tinder a few days ago...but being me, I chose not to reciprocate because I know what type of girl I want and I'm not into short term flings, I'm a Man of faith and won't compromise my beliefs on intimacy for short term pleasure.

I did in the past but not right now.

Do you have a great social circle where you hooked up with a couple of great girls? Not sure what the tinder girls have to do with the topic at hand (workplace seduction in a bar) but maybe these girls that you matched with want to be saved through your faith, religion, and finances?

Either way, I just wanted to point out that @SW15 said your method was incorrect for workplace hookups. I just wanted to start a discussion about which of you had more successful seductions and which advice was the best.

 

[Oatmeal31]

You forget your original question about 20+ hot girls and how to get with them.

You lost frame bro.

Frame? Lmao. What a lame thing to say

 

[Oatmeal31]

2nd day and instead of focusing on the job, being the best you can be there and learn it very well, you are flirting already? Desperate much?

Being a busser/barback is very simple. Doesn't take long to get the hang of it. Also, we have this thing called downtime, sounds like you've never heard of it