Got a job and most of my co-workers are hot girls. How would I go about gaming?

[Oatmeal31]

Title.

Got a job as a barback/busser and at a popular restuarant that's kind of like a club. Turns out every server there, even the hostesses and some of the bartenders are hot girls. They are literally all attractive. There's not a single average or ugly girl.

How do I go about hooking up with some of them?
There are literally 20+ hot girls, I'm talking.

It's only my 2nd day and I've been flirting with some of the girls after introducing myself. A few were into it, a couple lukewarm. One of them is leaving next week, and she seems into me, but I'm afraid of poisoning the well. I don't want to be known as 'that guy' in a bad way, so I can't just go around and ask them out willy nilly, like I would with daygame.

Do I just play the long game? When do I make a move? When flirting reaches a climax? And then, do I ask them out on a date, or do I say we should hangout (with an ulterior motive)?

I've never worked with this many attractive women in one place. It's been probably 6 before at most, but this is a gold mine, so I don't want to **** it up

 

[BackInTheGame78]

You will have them fighting over you if you play it right and then it becomes a competition on who can fvck you first

 

[Oatmeal31]

You will have them fighting over you if you play it right and then it becomes a competition on who can fvck you first

How do I play it right? Just continue to flirt, tease, humor? Do I get them comfortable enough to casually get into bedroom talk?

When I was a server at another restaurant, the girls I worked with pretty much talked with each other about guys and bedroom stuff, sometimes openly in front of me and the other male servers. They weren't my type so I never made a move

 

[BillyPilgrim]

How do I play it right? Just continue to flirt, tease, humor? Do I get them comfortable enough to casually get into bedroom talk?

When I was a server at another restaurant, the girls I worked with pretty much talked with each other about guys and bedroom stuff, sometimes openly in front of me and the other male servers. They weren't my type so I never made a move

Sow your oats, duh

 

[characternote]

How do I go about hooking up with some of them?

if they think you're hot, it'll pretty much just happen
If they don't (and you're not her type) then it won't.
Are you getting clear signs of interest? I've always found the ones who want you really do tend to make it kind of obvious.
('advice' is always 'hit the gym' and 'make more money' on sosuave so that part is already obvious)
hit on the ones who like you. Ask them out.

 

[Clockwerk50]

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[BackInTheGame78]

How do I play it right? Just continue to flirt, tease, humor? Do I get them comfortable enough to casually get into bedroom talk?

When I was a server at another restaurant, the girls I worked with pretty much talked with each other about guys and bedroom stuff, sometimes openly in front of me and the other male servers. They weren't my type so I never made a move

Restaurants and Bars are pretty much hookup havens where everyone is fvcking everyone.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Just be attractive/sociable but not too aggressive and it will work itself out.

 

[Travel memoir21]

Easy become good friends with most of them, don't be a creep, be the cool guy, build rapport and invite them to events/parties/bbqs at your place or backyard. Become good friends with them, you've literally build a great social circle over night landing that job. Those girls might even hook you up with even more abundant hot women in the future since hot women knows hot women. If those hot girls got awesome personalities, even better lol

 

[SW15]

Easy become good friends with most of them, don't be a creep, be the cool guy, build rapport and invite them to events/parties/bbqs at your place or backyard. Become good friends with them, you've literally build a great social circle over night landing that job. Those girls might even hook you up with even more abundant hot women in the future since hot women knows hot women. If those hot girls got awesome personalities, even better lol

Incorrect. That would be a better play if he were working a white collar job that he wanted to keep that job for an extended period of time. This isn't a white collar job. This is a service sector job in a bar/restaurant.

Just be attractive/sociable but not too aggressive and it will work itself out.

This is the way to do it. In service sector work like this, it is common for co-workers to have sex with each other. There has been a sexual sterilization of the white collar working environment through Human Resources departments and sexual harassment culture.

Service sector employment lacks that sterilization culture from the office.

Additionally, a lot of bars/restaurants hire hot young women and expect them to only work there for a short period of time.

 

[BPH]

It looks like I'm in the minority, but I'm gonna suggest NOT hooking up with your co-workers.

My brother got fired from a supervisory position early last year because he got into relationships with 2 of his co-workers. The first of which created a stalkerish and vindictive ex, and the second of which is what led to his termination because other employees were complaining to management about him because he was engaging in relationships with people who were positionally beneath him.

Workplace politics differ, so basically, I'm telling you to think about how much you need this job vs this nut.

I worked as a bouncer for a short time and got plenty of attention from patrons, so you shouldn't have an issue.

 

[SW15]

I worked as a bouncer for a short time and got plenty of attention from patrons, so you shouldn't have an issue.

Why didn't you remain a bouncer for a longer time?

Being a bouncer is a good way to get pussie.

In the workplace, many bouncers have sex with attractive female bartenders. Additionally, strip club bouncers are known to have sex with strippers.

You also had options with female bar/nightclub patrons too.

It doesn't require waking up early in the morning and facing rush hour traffic to sit in an office. You get to sleep later into the day, go to the gym, and seduce at night while on the job.

 

[BPH]

Why didn't you remain a bouncer for a longer time?

They wanted me to work Halloweekend.

I had joined a fraternity my junior year and was not willing to spend those nights making $10/hr dealing with drunken idiots instead of having a good time with my brothers during one of the sluttiest holidays for my last year at the school.

 

[corrector]

It looks like I'm in the minority, but I'm gonna suggest NOT hooking up with your co-workers.

My brother got fired from a supervisory position early last year because he got into relationships with 2 of his co-workers. The first of which created a stalkerish and vindictive ex, and the second of which is what led to his termination because other employees were complaining to management about him because he was engaging in relationships with people who were positionally beneath him.

Workplace politics differ, so basically, I'm telling you to think about how much you need this job vs this nut.

I worked as a bouncer for a short time and got plenty of attention from patrons, so you shouldn't have an issue.

Your brother broke social circle rules, let along job rules. The first one was fine but it looks like the second one did him in. You are not supposed to serial date in a social circle, pick one and if it does not work out, the next one has to be from the outside. This example is a bad example.

 

[BPH]

You are not supposed to serial date in a social circle, pick one and if it does not work out, the next one has to be from the outside. This example is a bad example.

What, you think he only wants to bang 1 of his 20+ hot co-workers? I think this is an excellent example.

 

[New_Journey]

It's only my 2nd day and I've been flirting with some of the girls after introducing myself

2nd day and instead of focusing on the job, being the best you can be there and learn it very well, you are flirting already? Desperate much?

 

[New_Journey]

It looks like I'm in the minority, but I'm gonna suggest NOT hooking up with your co-workers.

My brother got fired from a supervisory position early last year because he got into relationships with 2 of his co-workers. The first of which created a stalkerish and vindictive ex, and the second of which is what led to his termination because other employees were complaining to management about him because he was engaging in relationships with people who were positionally beneath him.

Workplace politics differ, so basically, I'm telling you to think about how much you need this job vs this nut.

I worked as a bouncer for a short time and got plenty of attention from patrons, so you shouldn't have an issue.

Suppose you don't date a direct report. If you get fired because the woman makes some $hit up because of jealousy, you can sue the company and win, people are so scared that they accept the termination. There is no law against dating in a workplace. Its your word against hers, and if you have messages saved where shows it was consensual, nothing creepy from the man's part, she might be the one who losses her job for defamation. A woman just can't say you are stalking her or whatever $hit and then they firing you just like that, stop believe that bull$hit, I work with the top 3 companies in commercial/defense airplanes where politics are very strict, and this is a myth.

Now, if you don't wanna date because of your uncomfortable with her if you break up, its different.

Your brother broke social circle rules, let along job rules.

Yeah, the rules you made up in your incel mind, you just don't say $hit and that's it, you back it up.

You are not supposed to serial date in a social circle, pick one and if it does not work out, the next one has to be from the outside

Again, according to who? Show me the law against it. In fact I'm gonna teach you something, you can go to whatever company you want and ask "Is there a policy about office romance?" (unless direct report). Stop pulling fake $hit from your a$$.

This example is a bad example.

Its better for you to keep paying for escorts and only fan girls, instead of giving advice about dating that clearly you don't know $hit about.

 

[corrector]

Suppose you don't date a direct report. If you get fired because the woman makes some $hit up because of jealousy, you can sue the company and win, people are so scared that they accept the termination. There is no law against dating in a workplace. Its your word against hers, and if you have messages saved where shows it was consensual, nothing creepy from the man's part, she might be the one who losses her job for defamation. A woman just can't say you are stalking her or whatever $hit and then they firing you just like that, stop believe that bull$hit, I work with the top 3 companies in commercial/defense airplanes where politics are very strict, and this is a myth.

Now, if you don't wanna date because of your uncomfortable with her if you break up, its different.


Yeah, the rules you made up in your incel mind, you just don't say $hit and that's it, you back it up.


Again, according to who? Show me the law against it. In fact I'm gonna teach you something, you can go to whatever company you want and ask "Is there a policy about office romance?" (unless direct report). Stop pulling fake $hit from your a$$.


Its better for you to keep paying for escorts and only fan girls, instead of giving advice about dating that clearly you don't know $hit about.

@SW15 has allot of posts about social circle game and I basically parroted his points here. I dont pay for escorts (ie in person). There is also an intent to cancel all subscriptions as of April 15th. The porn-free sector is always between April 15th to Sept 25th. There is no consistent year-round policy surrounding onlyfans or any explicit content.

 

[New_Journey]

@SW15I basically parroted his points here.

Great

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

Title.

Got a job as a barback/busser and at a popular restuarant that's kind of like a club. Turns out every server there, even the hostesses and some of the bartenders are hot girls. They are literally all attractive. There's not a single average or ugly girl.

How do I go about hooking up with some of them?
There are literally 20+ hot girls, I'm talking.

It's only my 2nd day and I've been flirting with some of the girls after introducing myself. A few were into it, a couple lukewarm. One of them is leaving next week, and she seems into me, but I'm afraid of poisoning the well. I don't want to be known as 'that guy' in a bad way, so I can't just go around and ask them out willy nilly, like I would with daygame.

Do I just play the long game? When do I make a move? When flirting reaches a climax? And then, do I ask them out on a date, or do I say we should hangout (with an ulterior motive)?

I've never worked with this many attractive women in one place. It's been probably 6 before at most, but this is a gold mine, so I don't want to **** it up

This is a classic oldie of mines...

The Psychology of Ignoring Women

. Yeah man, this is just some advice and insight. I already know that some of you guys on here are kiss ass beta males and worship the ground that women walk on, and this information will be hard for you to grasp. However, for those that are willing to pay attention, learn something, and...

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High level game right here...and you are in the perfect situation to apply this strategy.

Based on the strategy, my advice as to what you should do is simple.

Do nothing.

And by doing nothing, you are actually doing something.

Going to the gym and building muscle cant hurt either.