Good Date Ideas Other Than a Bar/Club/Restaurant?

[Nu Vision]

Looking to take this girl out on Friday but want to do something different other than a bar/restaurant. I know drinks is the safest way to get laid but after last outing where she felt award after I took her to a hotel I want to do something a little nicer and dare I say on the romantic side.

Any ideas?

Bowling or skating is not good.

Maybe playing pool ...

 

[logicallefty]

For a first date, you won't find much argument that the bar/drinks thing is the way to go. Why blow all that money on other cr@p for nothing?

For the following dates after, if you want to make her eyes spin out of their sockets take her to an adult bookstore or even a strip club. :crazy: Gets the sexual mood going and shows her that you are a guy who isn't afraid to deviate from the norm and you are going your own way. I took a chick to an adult bookstore once on a second date and b@nged her on the movie booth. You don't even have to do that, just go there and show her you are a sexual man who means business. Trust me

 

[chaj3_11]

Depends what shes into. You must have a rough idea what she likes?

Off the top of my head a concert or jazz bar. Maybe a show depending on where your from n what shes into. ****tail making at a bar always goes down well but you say you dont want to do bars. Weirdly one of the best dates i ever had was at a casino she loved it.

If you describe the girls personality a bit you ll probably get some good ideas from people on here.

 

[skinnyguy]

Cooking dinner and watching movies at your place.

 

[Nu Vision]

The adult book store is not good for this date. Maybe later on. First date was at a bar/restaurant and we ended up in a hotel. I think she felt weird about it and so I'm wanting to do something more low key and more reserved. I think she felt a little pressured first date.

She's into books, art, dogs, animals.

It's a night date so it limit the options. Thanks guys.

Skinny,

Cooking dinner at my house would be good but my living situation doesn't allow me to do that right now.

 

[Fitters]

Always remember , first dates are not that serious. If you decide to spend over 60$ I recommend doing something YOU ENJOY. If the date doesn't work out , you still did something you enjoyed.

 

[cola]

A club.
This is what I do. I will take a date to a club, buy us both a drink. I will wait till a song comes on I like, then BAM!
I go to the middle of the dancefloor and instantly become the life of the party.
The date eats that **** up everytime.

 

[The_411]

Wine bar is usually a good place for the simple reason you can get libations and if things don't go well you're likely in a good spot to meet other women right away.

 

[Nu Vision]

Wine bars ... there are some I know of. Good TIP. Thanks.

Would this be too beta to say to her? "It would be easy for a guy to fall for you".

Note that I'm not telling her it would be easy for me to.

She basically said yesterday that she doesnt get why her having good qualities can't get guys to want to commit or want to get married. I said I know why and have kept her guessing and asking. She said she thinks guys are scared if her for some reason and I said I know why. My response would be what I said at the beginning that they are afraid to fall for her.

She's so interested in finding out what it is I have to say. I'm telling her I willl let her know on Friday. Or maybe I won't.

This I did to buold mystery but I may be going about it the wrong way. I think is a good sign she's talking about commitmen. It mat mean she likes me. She also asked if I think my son would be ok if I have a gf.

 

[usernamedox11]

Wine bars ... there are some I know of. Good TIP. Thanks.

Would this be too beta to say to her? "It would be easy for a guy to fall for you".

Note that I'm not telling her it would be easy for me to.

She basically said yesterday that she doesnt get why her having good qualities can't get guys to want to commit or want to get married. I said I know why and have kept her guessing and asking. She said she thinks guys are scared if her for some reason and I said I know why. My response would be what I said at the beginning that they are afraid to fall for her.

She's so interested in finding out what it is I have to say. I'm telling her I willl let her know on Friday. Or maybe I won't.

This I did to buold mystery but I may be going about it the wrong way. I think is a good sign she's talking about commitmen. It mat mean she likes me. She also asked if I think my son would be ok if I have a gf.

wtf?

b**** is crazy

 

[Nu Vision]

Applegoo,

I think this pretty much follows what we know and have learned here. That after a woman has sex with a guy she starts to become emotionally attached and wants more.

 

[usernamedox11]

Applegoo,

I think this pretty much follows what we know and have learned here. That after a woman has sex with a guy she starts to become emotionally attached and wants more.

not all woman are like that,

she sounds kind of nutty to me...be careful, dont get attached quickly

 

[Nu Vision]

Ruler,

Let me step back and think for a minute ... logically about it.

Applegoo,

I'll be on the lookout and I agree I have to guard myself and not get attached too quickly. She's smoking hot and can do that to a guy.

Would me telling her what u said above be too beta?

 

[Nu Vision]

I'm contacting some other girls I haven't talked to in some time that I kind of touched basis with and see what comes from there. Right now this girl is the only one I'm talking to and scarcity could mess me up here so I'm on the move.

 

[usernamedox11]

Would me telling her what u said above be too beta?

i honestly don't see what saying that would accomplish. just hang out with her, let her do most the talking, be fun to be around, tease her. Don't try and attract her with logic, doesn't work...girls are dumb like that

 

[Nu Vision]

I see your point applegoo.

But she's waiting for a response to her question. I told her I know why guys are scared of her. I may just give her a big kiss and start making out and tell her I forgot what it was. Lol

 

[Alexandar]

a lot of good ideas in this thread, i just want to chime kn on your original idea of pool

this is what i usually do, its simple, you can choose what. music you want on the jukebox, easy for conversation, fun, and you can easily do all kinds of kino (i always slap their a s s es at some point in a congratulatory manner for a good shot or whatever)

i recently took the hottie from my current thread to pool eventhough she said shes never played before, and even then it works great because you get to assume the role of a teacher which is always a huge plus, and you can kino them even easier as youre showing them how to shoot, overall super simple way to build rapport. and cheap. most of all cheap.

 

[Huffman]

Always a great suggestion (Dinner+Movie at your place). Depends if she's willing though.

Never hurts to ask though.

I got turned down on that pretty much universally if we haven't had sex yet. In fact I've seen women go from hot to cold immediately with this, and never seen them again. Even after 2 really great dates + makeout. Maybe I'm doing something wrong?

Then again they might not have been that interested to begin with, but still it's sticking to my mind

 

[Nu Vision]

Espi and Alexandr thanks for the posts.

In my case I need to do something that shows her I'm not just thinking about sex because sex already happened and it I think she felt pressured.

 

[Huffman]

In that case, an action date where YOU definitely have lots of fun. You can make it clear that it's more for you and not her

I personally would go hiking in the mountains on a sunday.

Then again, not so sure about your decision to not go for sex on the next date.