What I did basically in my latest text message to her. Shes probably on the date right now. It sounds like she might be a very picky serial, free dinner dater if she only goes out on one dinner date the way she sounds.You really should just delete this waste of time woman man
But since I know u won't ...do this:
Tell her good luck on her date and tell her that you are glad she has finally met someone she has the right chemistry with that it's hard to find blah blah.
Then go no contact wait for her to message u after her date then angle her out for one more date maybe something non threatening like coffee in the park but somewhere u can walk around...got to get her out in person.
Then when u do just start escalating kino and be aggressive go for kiss aggressively until she outright says no. Then just delete her if no success.
Just get the ***** on a date and throw the kitchen sink at her man.
Stop wasting all your time on this one indecisive woman.
But yes if I somehow meet her again definitely going all out on her at this point nothing to lose. Not like I want to stay friends with her then obviously and waste my time.