my close friends aren't down to go to clubs/bars because they are all in relationships. only once in a blue moon my friends and i will get together for a club. before i was really self-conscious to even think about going to a club by myself; despite that, i started going to clubs/bars by myself.
when i'm by myself, i chat it up w/ everyone: guys, gals, & bartenders. i'm practicing conversations and at the same time hitting up girls.
while chatting w/ girls, some would ask, "who are you here with?" my response is always, "i'm here by myself." i practice body language and voice; and although i say this in a direct, "don't give a ****" manner w/ no excuses, i can read the expression on girls' faces when i tell them this, and it's not positive.
at first, i figured girls would appreciate a man who doesn't care and has the balls to go to a club/bar by himself. after all, groups of two or more usually flock to these scenes. but now i realize girls get weirded out by guys who go to clubs by themselves.
maybe i shouldn't go to clubs alone anymore? no, that's not an option because i won't progress sitting on my ass at home. there has to be some ways around this. what are your thoughts/experiences?
when i'm by myself, i chat it up w/ everyone: guys, gals, & bartenders. i'm practicing conversations and at the same time hitting up girls.
while chatting w/ girls, some would ask, "who are you here with?" my response is always, "i'm here by myself." i practice body language and voice; and although i say this in a direct, "don't give a ****" manner w/ no excuses, i can read the expression on girls' faces when i tell them this, and it's not positive.
at first, i figured girls would appreciate a man who doesn't care and has the balls to go to a club/bar by himself. after all, groups of two or more usually flock to these scenes. but now i realize girls get weirded out by guys who go to clubs by themselves.
maybe i shouldn't go to clubs alone anymore? no, that's not an option because i won't progress sitting on my ass at home. there has to be some ways around this. what are your thoughts/experiences?