Going out with a bang...

[619joe]

Man your progressing which is good.I even laughed at some of your comments which they are pretty funny.Some of them you did sound like a prick though which you have to work on.Before you say something though,think of what the girl MIGHT say.

Like your telling girls they look angry or asking if her friend is cool,but be honest,where are you trying to get with that?Telling them they look angry isnt gonna sweep them off their feet and neither is asking them if their friend is cool.Thats what an average friend would do but you dont wanna be like that.

Well your AA seems to be unaffecting you which is great.What do I think you should do?Make friends with some guys.Have someone to look up to and even observe some naturals in the field and watch how they interact.

Infact here,I am going to personally put down some of my favorite links from Keys to the VIP.Watch these clips cause this is what prime game is all about.

http://youtube.com/watch?v=sT6HBQlQjL4&feature=related
(my 2nd favorite)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7HC7KnirKAY&feature=related
(my favorite one.kyle is just awesome)

http://youtube.com/watch?v=BS1XBy_iOWM&feature=related

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yLXiC5f_11U&feature=related
(The first guy is ABSOLUTELY TERRIBLE.The second guy is pretty good)

Believe me,watch that show and more episodes and Im guaranteed it will help you

 

[FireOnTheMountain]

Hmm.


Well, I have all but abandoned this project lately. As I predicted, I never heard from that Chinese girl again.

I still try to say funny things to girls I interact with at grocery stores, restaurants, etc. But I don't try very hard and it doesn't really go anywhere.

To be honest, ever since the time I tried to dance with that girl in the club and everyone said I looked gay, I just haven't had the same determination. It's dumb, but true. I was making real progress before that, which helped spur me on, but now I find it hard to get motivated.


But the real reason is because of the job I have.
It's a good job. Not to brag, but the pay is well above the starting salary for fresh college graduates. The problem is that it's also pretty exhausting. I sit in front of a computer all day and by the time I'm finished. my eyes are bleary and tired and I feel on the verge of a headache. Usually a hot shower relaxes my back but I still just feel like laying around and doing nothing.

My job offers a discount at a local gym. I think I will try that--I've heard exercise can help give you more energy. In fact, I bought a bicycle several weeks ago and after riding it for an hour or two, I feel much more awake than after drinking coffee or soda. I keep saying I am going to get in better shape but I never do it. It can't be that hard, come on.


As far as the band, it still sucks but we are going to play a show in mid-October. Maybe I can get back into things then.

I'm trying to have more fun lately and am posting this from my college town's library. Maybe I will try to find some girls after I'm done. Previously I was afraid I would get a reputation as a loser who hits on girls and always fails (It's a real small college) but I shouldn't worry now that I graduated. Nothing to lose, right?

 

[FireOnTheMountain]

Muahahah, I'm glad I stayed in this band.


The show was good and bad. It was at somebody's house--A really redneck, hick kind of party.


But the important part is, after enough alcohol was consumed, some people started dancing to the music--One very hot girl, in particular.


Man, I didn't realize how much leverage being 'in the band' gives you. She started the conversation with me, put her arm around my shoulder, etc.

When it was time to go, I wasn't sure how old she was so I took my phone out of my pocket and said

Me: "Hey, I don't know if you're in high school or not, but--"

Her: "I'm legal."

Then she took the phone out of my hand and put her number in it.


I haven't felt so pumped up in a long time. I had a hard time falling asleep after that I was so excited.


I'm going to call her tonight. Gosh, I don't feel confident anymore though. I'm pretty nervous. Where the hell am I going to take her on a date?

 

[Huffman]

This is what some people like to call "situational confidence" - extremely powerful and also addictive.
You should try out "The Blueprint Decoded" some time - they're really getting down on this stuff in particular.

 

[FireOnTheMountain]

This is the first update to this thread in a long time. I'm getting ready to make another big effort at this, and when I do I think I'll make a new thread.


Today, I was in the check out line at Wal Mart.

The cashier was a black woman who looked about the same age as me. She had a pretty face, her waist was small and her boobs were huge. I usually don't get 'excited' during or before approaches, but I got a boner from looking at her while I was in line.

I confess that I have a hard time approaching women whom I percieve as being outside of my own culture. This can be race, income level, or just social background. Not because I dislike them or am prejudiced, but because I fear that they will be more likely to reject me. So to try and help with that problem, I decided right away that I would ask this girl for her phone number.


After paying for the grocieries, she said a pretty routine sounding 'Thank you, have a good night.'

Me: "Hey, I know it's a weird for me to ask this straight off, but I know you're busy and I have to get going...'

She looked at me curiously.

Me: "...But I just have to ask. Why don't you give me your phone number?"

Her: "Oh, no. I have a boyfriend." She said this in a friendly way with a genuine smile--I don't think she was BSing like girls sometimes do.

Me: "That's okay. I don't get jealous"(I blatently stole this from someone elses thread.

Her: "Oh, I can't. I have a boyfriend. That was really cute, though."


It probably doesn't come through just in text, but she seemed really surprised, and I also think pretty flattered. Her mood totally changed from going-through-the-Wal-Mart motions to a genuine smile and inflection in her voice.




s I always do after asking a girl for her number, I felt awesome afterward. I don't know why this is, but I always feel great.