Girls with boyfriends

[Trump]

This site is about being a DJ, the best man you can possibly be. Improve your mind, your body, your soul, your spirit and you will be set for life. Be authentic, be sincere, do what is best for you at all times.

Then when posters ask about a girl they are interested in, but she has a boyfriend she is having trouble with, the advice is; ‘go for the quick lay, ask her out for a good time, make the move already, screw him, don’t be a beta have sex with her.’

Is this what the highest quality, well respected, strong alpha male does? Or am I missing something?

 

[Chev.Chelios]

Read the alabaster girl..

The writer zan just wants to experience and befriend all woman and could give a chit about
husbands or boyfriends.

Men that lock their GF/wife up and get mad there girl is being loved and adored by a genuine man that
love and adore all woman are ch0des.

Ive been having a really had problem with this and it really destroyed me life.
being jealous about your gurl being hit on by "lovers" is what WILL BE YOUR FVCKING DEMISE
LOLOOL

So if you meet a girl with a bf/husband(all hot girls will have relationships/orbiters guaranteed!)
the fool proof game plan is to love and appreciate them all and NOT SEEK TO TIE THEM DOWN
FOR YOUR OWN SELFISH REASONS!

the best game plan is what ive said above.

Love and adore all woman, be their friend, celebrate them.
the jealous men that ruin your game have virtually no defence agaisnt this attitude.
Any negative reaction they give you will lower their own status.

If you are stuck in bitterness and hate woman in deep ways, which tons of men are.
reading this will butthurt the fvck out of you.

because currently im the way right now. i have literally despised woman my whole life.
felt betrayed, jealous, hateful, wanting to murder the guys that abused the girls i loved.

its all chodism, hypocrital, non sense.

 

[Building_and_Loan]

This site is about being a DJ, the best man you can possibly be. Improve your mind, your body, your soul, your spirit and you will be set for life. Be authentic, be sincere, do what is best for you at all times.

Then when posters ask about a girl they are interested in, but she has a boyfriend she is having trouble with, the advice is; ‘go for the quick lay, ask her out for a good time, make the move already, screw him, don’t be a beta have sex with her.’

Is this what the highest quality, well respected, strong alpha male does? Or am I missing something?

To be completely honest I've never seen anyone suggest what you say they have.

It's always "go find other women".

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

By definition, an alpha male is the most dominant male of the group. And when looking way back when, the alpha male just took what he wanted, including women, and they’d go to him. Hypergamy. Yes, it’s real. Most men suck nowadays. Therefore, if you don’t suck, his girl is gonna look at you and say to herself “I want that”.

Take morals out of the damn equation for being a DJ or being a man or being alpha. Morals have nothing to do with determining one’s strength. What DOES determine one’s strength is how well they hold their integrity, how well they stick to their guns, so to speak. But you trying to force this on all of us with your holier than thou attitude trying to say what is and isn’t masculine is pathetic and weak in and of itself. It’s like when a woman tells a guy to ‘be a man and just take it’. You are literally on the same level as those b!tch females. Man up and quit being so insecure. Some people are willing to fvck ‘taken’ women, others aren’t. So fvcking what. If women had the same morals as you, I’d consider what you say. But because they don’t, I spit on you and your moralistic high horse just like I spit on women who tell me how to be a man. Shut up already you pansy.

Just because a woman is taken does not mean she is off the market.

 

[Macaframalama]

I'm kind of with thedouble on this. Tactical virtue is what affords us metaphorical morality in this day and age. I don't go around asking them if they are in relationships, but if it comes up and they are, I keep it moving. Easy pvssy isn't exactly a rare commodity these days, but if society were to fall and we were to go back to banding in tribes and gangs, I'm sure you wouldn't be so judgemental of the Romulus' out there, unless maybe you were a Titus.

 

[Andrewdiceclay]

OP

lets say youre hanging out at a hotel bar and hot 9 you know is taken chats you up, you have a few drinks with her and then you find a dark corner somewhere and start to make out with her. things are getting hot really fast and you finally realize this is your chance to have earth shattering, life changing sex with a girl you never imagined would be interested in you. she asks if you have a room in the hotel. this is it. its not a shlt test or anything like that. its the real deal

what do you do?

You go for it but what if it's a girl you want to keep around? Then she won't trust you and you won't trust her and she's married and it's a chit show.

 

[RangerMIke]

If you are doing things right... treating all chicks the same. You will have married women interested in you. But you are the man and can control your emotions... So you will not go down that road... but flirting with relationship chicks is good practice and it's fun for her so why not... as ling as you don't fvck her.

I have two dates next week with chicks that supposedly have BFs... Boyfriends are temporary.... never worry about boyfriends. Try to make a date... if she spends time with you alone, the BF is just a living vibrator so the chick doesn't feel like she is a *****.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Honestly I wouldn't care if she had a boyfriend if I didn't know the guy or didn't respect him or like him.

I would call the cops if he came after me and makes me wish I was allowed to have a gun, but I'm a felon.

 

[Trump]

Man up and quit being so insecure. Some people are willing to fvck ‘taken’ women, others aren’t. So fvcking what. If women had the same morals as you, I’d consider what you say. But because they don’t, I spit on you and your moralistic high horse just like I spit on women who tell me how to be a man. Shut up already you pansy.

Just because a woman is taken does not mean she is off the market.

Where did I say I was holier than thou?

You will have married women interested in you. But you are the man and can control your emotions... So you will not go down that road... but flirting with relationship chicks is good practice and it's fun for her so why not... as ling as you don't fvck her.

One alpha is telling me: "go down that road, go and fvck any girl who is married."

The other alpha is telling me: "don't go down that road, don't go and fvck any girl who is married."

So confused!

 

[btownbuck2012]

The guys I know who behave this way are DEEPLY insecure. They f*ck around on their women or try to bang taken women because they have a need for admiration and control, it's got practically nothing to do with the physical/emotional pleasure of sex. If you pay attention with these types, you'll notice this.

 

[btownbuck2012]

lots of betas take their weaknesses and convince themselves and others its virtue. you can see this if you look a little closer.

Christ almighty I can't stand this. I had an engaged friend recently give me his theory on how sex isn't cheating if there's no emotional connection with the other person. Said it as casually as if we were talking about what to order on the menu. It's like DUDE keep your bizarre sh*t to yourself and stop trying to make me feel bad for thinking it's wrong. So many fake, weak people in this world putting on a façade for the rest of us.

 

[zekko]

Men that lock their GF/wife up and get mad there girl is being loved and adored by a genuine man that love and adore all woman are ch0des.

And men that happily allow their women to bang every guy who comes along are cuckholds.

That said, I've always thought that it is the woman's responsibility to make it clear that she isn't interested, if a guy is hitting on her and she is taken.
Boyfriends though, are a gray area, because there is no real level of commitment there. Like RangerMike says, they tend to be temporary. It's not like busting up a family with children just because you feel the need to get a nut.

Someone else here recently posted that they felt guilty about having sex with women they weren't truly interested in. All this is why the PUA community pushes psychopathy so hard, IMO. It's not that women are so attracted to psychopaths (some are), but it helps to have no conscience if you are going to break a girl's heart, break up a family, or mess up some "boyfriend's" day by banging "his" girl.

That said, there are many women who are always on the lookout for sex partners, whether they are committed, engaged, married, or not. In the case of those girls, I suppose if you don't bang them, someone else will. But I consider them low quality, so I probably wouldn't bother.

 

[RangerMIke]

this isnt confusing at all.

all men have or should have their own personal moral codes.

the issue is to distinguish real virtues and ethics from weaknesses.

Exactly. The worst thing you can do is go against your own moral code. If you do this then you will come off as in-congruent.

There is a difference between virtue and ethics. Ethics is a conflict between two opposing goods. Virtue has become a goal set by what we WISH society SHOULD be. But in reality, virtue is simply the recognized set a behavioral standards.

It really isn't an ethical dilemma your decision if you are going to fvck a married chick. One good, is you get to have sex with a chick you find attractive. What is the other opposing good? There really isn't one.... you get to behave with virtue? What reward do you get from being virtuous... what is benefit of virtue?

I don't mess with married chicks because I do not like drama in my life. You want a sh!t storm of drama? Get a married chick stalking you.... Have the husband of said chick confront you.... Get your @ss pulled into family court during a child custody dispute. There are too many unattached chicks around to 'volunteer' for this potential BS.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Where did I say I was holier than thou?



One alpha is telling me: "go down that road, go and fvck any girl who is married."

The other alpha is telling me: "don't go down that road, don't go and fvck any girl who is married."

So confused!

Read midnight’s post. The dude spoke gospel. It’s like you’re trying to validate what you believe by forcing it down other’s throats because you feel it’s unfair that they get to have sex with hot women or flake out on dates with uglier women and not feel bad about it while you do. People breaking your moral code bothers you for whatever reason even though they don’t affect you. Take morals out of the equation. What specific morals one has does not indicate strength whatsoever. How steadfast he is in upholding those beliefs does though, and him feeling secure enough within himself that he doesn’t feel he need to really vocalize it to others is another sign due to its indication of high self esteem.

 

[zekko]

no one in the pua community is pushing psychopoathy lmao

You can't possibly believe that. You've never read here about how much women love the dark triad?

 

[Dark Horse]

First off, don't try to go after girls with boyfriends. If they say they have a boyfriend, then chances are they really do have a boyfriend. And even if they are single, do you think a girl is going to mention a fake boyfriend to someone she's interested in? Mentioning her boyfriend is a subtle way of saying, "if you're thinking about hitting on me, not so fast..."

Don't be the type of guy who has sex with other girls in relationships, it's not right. How would you feel if you had been cheated on? You would feel like absolute trash, especially if you loved the girl. And if she's willing to cheat anyways, it's not worth it. Get yourself a woman, not a little girl.

 

[The Diver]

How would you feel if you had been cheated on? You would feel like absolute trash, especially if you loved the girl. .

Although I'm not supporting cheating , the way I see it is very simple: if your GF find the need to cheat on you , that should tell you that you're not her "number one" anymore, and the fault is YOURS. You should find WHY you're not number one anymore, you should check where have you failed in maintaining your position as "number one", which attraction factors you have neglected and should work on and improve, so it won't happen to you again in the future with the next girls.

Girls do what nature embedded in them to do : Attach themselves to the best mate they can find, our job is to be that one at all time.

Yes, we're preaching all the time that we are the prize, but don't expect to be the prize if you're going sloppy.

 

[zekko]

i dont think you understand the concept of the dark triad zek. nor is pointing out behavior an advocating of anything else

The smarter guys here have always been able to see that you can learn certain behaviors from certain personality types without having to become that personality type. The dumber guys have pushed the idea that you have to be a jerk, @sshole, bad boy, psychopath, or whatever the flavor of the day is, to attract women. I've also seen guys redefine "jerks" as having only admirable traits (which seems to miss the point of why he is called a jerk in the first place).

For example, in the stereotypical "Nice guy" vs. "Jerk" comparison, the community's "Nice guy" is really a jerk, and the "Jerk" is really a nice guy. Because the nice guy is only acting nice to get something, while the jerk is being true to himself. Oddly, the "Nice Guy" is a manipulator (which is a dark triad behavior, which supposedly attracts girls - but does not work in this case). Although certainly there are many psycopaths who pretend to be nice (very convincingly) in order to get what they want, and many women eat that up.

Tyler from RSD has said that even asking a girl for her number is acting like an @sshole, because you have the audacity to think that she might like you enough to give you her number (his argument, not mine). I would say that is not @sshole behavior, it is simply going after what you want (which is a good thing). Bold behavior is masculine behavior, not @sshole behavior.

 

[TheGambino]

I am f8cking a girl in a ltr right now. Second lay happened saturday. She is in the emotional state of not wanting to lose him but something keeps pulling her away from him and she falls into my lap even though she doesn't look for it. Why do i do it? For selfish reasons. She's beautiful and great in bed. The highest status she could reach with me? You guessed it well: Fvckbuddies. Were both thots, I don't give two sheits.

I'm an intelligent man that learned game from 2013ish until now and put all his heart and soul in understanding women on this forum, corey wayne and experience. I approached so many women, had so many encounters to fully understand a lot of things. I play this game recklessly without ethic. If a man f8cks the woman I want to spend my life with, I will replace her as fast as my mind can handle it and replace her. He won't be my best friend but I won't blame him for an emotional woman who thinks her value is greater then mine or thinks I got weak and forgot about everything I did to better her or our lifes.

Men can't be trusted too, but I just don't involve ethics in a woman that doesn't deserve respect, she said things like ''you deserve better then me'' and some other stuff in bed sunday. I know she hates herself for f8cking me and probably doesn't want to replace me for her ''secure'' bf. She knows im a thot just like her of what she hear'd and saw about me. She did picture me in her bf's role though, I could tell from her rant sunday morning but I agreed with her and told her ''its just business''. We are attracted to eachother but this whole situation can't lead to a solid relationship.

I just enjoy my life and take every oppurtunity to make money (legit, no criminal stuff) or women (without ethics, no rules) in my life. Experience from my nephew in Morocco (hes a 9 in looks) who pulled married wifes with children, and my own experience that women can't be trusted or maybe temporary. When the right man comes along in the right circumstances, they are gone like the wind. I understand this, and live by this.

That's just how it is and don't forget it's experiences that got me like this.

 

[playa99]

I wouldn't sleep with a girl whose agreed to be in an exclusive relationship with someone else.

I live with my GF & have agreed to an exclusive relationship with her. I have had my indiscretions (getting drunk & spending $1500 in a strip club.) But on the whole I have stayed faithful.

I expect her to be faithful to me, if she didn't I would walk away from the relationship & I would expect her to do the same!

There are plenty of hot single women out there.