Girls with boyfriends

[Macaframalama]

did you suck his dlck?"

Yea, what's this all about? I asked my ex about all the intricate details about her cheating. She thought it was weird that I wanted to know. I just felt like it was something I needed to know to move on. My niece and nephew lost their mother in 2013 tragically. She was 9 and he was 8. He's always been inquisitive and wanted to know all the details. She doesn't really care to talk about it at all. I think males just feel like they need to know all the facts.

 

[user43770]

Although I'm not supporting cheating , the way I see it is very simple: if your GF find the need to cheat on you , that should tell you that you're not her "number one" anymore, and the fault is YOURS. You should find WHY you're not number one anymore, you should check where have you failed in maintaining your position as "number one", which attraction factors you have neglected and should work on and improve, so it won't happen to you again in the future with the next girls.

Girls do what nature embedded in them to do : Attach themselves to the best mate they can find, our job is to be that one at all time.

Yes, we're preaching all the time that we are the prize, but don't expect to be the prize if you're going sloppy.

This is some prevalent bullsh1t on this forum that needs to be put to rest. The idea that it's always the man's fault; the idea that it's always within your control to keep a woman in your life.

There will always be somebody that's better than you at x, y or z. Maybe it's looks, money or personality, or maybe it's some obscure sh1t that that nobody thinks about.

Point is, there could be any number of reasons why a woman thinks she finds a better deal in another man. And maybe she actually is more compatible with that other man.

There's no need to beat yourself up over it and scour the potential reasons she left. Just be you and find people that like it. Anti-Dump's Machine is in the dj bible and should be read by any man looking for an LTR.

Paging @Tenacity

 

[sosousage]

This site is about being a DJ, the best man you can possibly be. Improve your mind, your body, your soul, your spirit and you will be set for life. Be authentic, be sincere, do what is best for you at all times.

Then when posters ask about a girl they are interested in, but she has a boyfriend she is having trouble with, the advice is; ‘go for the quick lay, ask her out for a good time, make the move already, screw him, don’t be a beta have sex with her.’

Is this what the highest quality, well respected, strong alpha male does? Or am I missing something?

Why you consider it low quality? Its her fault for cheating on her boyfriend, not yours. If she cheated him with you, she could also cheat him with whole basketball team throughout the year.

In fact you are helping him, if he finds out then he will realise he dated wrong person. maybe he will even become DJ. Thanks To U

 

[The Diver]

This is some prevalent bullsh1t on this forum that needs to be put to rest. The idea that it's always the man's fault; the idea that it's always within your control to keep a woman in your life.

There will always be somebody that's better than you at x, y or z. Maybe it's looks, money or personality, or maybe it's some obscure sh1t that that nobody thinks about.

Point is, there could be any number of reasons why a woman thinks she finds a better deal in another man. And maybe she actually is more compatible with that other man.

There's no need to beat yourself up over it and scour the potential reasons she left. Just be you and find people that like it. Anti-Dump's Machine is in the dj bible and should be read by any man looking for an LTR.

Paging @Tenacity

I'm absolutely agree with you, that there are many reasons women will leave you, reasons that are not in your control like: sickness, mental issues, family dispute, jobs opportunity,,,, and as such , a point I secluded from my post as I thought these reasons are obvious.


Now, these quotes are from the Anti-Dump's Machine article you pointed me to:

" Women have to have certain things in a man to remain interested in them"

"I'm starting to think the most important way to maintain a woman's IL is by improving yourself, and respecting yourself first".

"Improving yourself and respect yourself first! ,,,,,,,. but the point is that if you are constantly growing, constantly improving, constantly living, then you will never become boring, always remain a bit mysterious, and you will always be interesting to her".


I'm here to learn from other experienced DJ's, I'm not trying to be smart a$s and start stupid argument, but my post pretty much said what the quotes above saying.

 

[user43770]

I'm absolutely agree with you, that there are many reasons women will leave you, reasons that are not in your control like: sickness, mental issues, family dispute, jobs opportunity,,,, and as such , a point I secluded from my post as I thought these reasons are obvious.


Now, these quotes are from the Anti-Dump's Machine article you pointed me to:

" Women have to have certain things in a man to remain interested in them"

"I'm starting to think the most important way to maintain a woman's IL is by improving yourself, and respecting yourself first".

"Improving yourself and respect yourself first! ,,,,,,,. but the point is that if you are constantly growing, constantly improving, constantly living, then you will never become boring, always remain a bit mysterious, and you will always be interesting to her".


I'm here to learn from other experienced DJ's, I'm not trying to be smart a$s and start stupid argument, but my post pretty much said what the quotes above saying.

No offense meant. I used you as a springboard.

My idea of anti-dump is filter, filter, filter. That's what I always took from it, at least. Be yourself and find chicks that like it.

I agree you should be the best person you can be, but that varies a lot from me to you, and we would probably agree on more things than not.

My point is, sometimes bad sh1t happens. The idea that you can always prevent it is ridiculous. Nobody is perfect, much less in another person's eyes.

 

[marmel75]

This site is about being a DJ, the best man you can possibly be. Improve your mind, your body, your soul, your spirit and you will be set for life. Be authentic, be sincere, do what is best for you at all times.

Then when posters ask about a girl they are interested in, but she has a boyfriend she is having trouble with, the advice is; ‘go for the quick lay, ask her out for a good time, make the move already, screw him, don’t be a beta have sex with her.’

Is this what the highest quality, well respected, strong alpha male does? Or am I missing something?

They typically do what they feel like doing without regards to other peoples views on the topic. If that means banging the chick then thats what it is. If that means letting her walk and finding other women that's what it is.

Some people want to believe there are certain ethics involved in the game and others don't. To me, its free game. These women are going to be getting banged out by someone..its not like they are just going to go back to the Disney Princess Fairy Tale life with their BF and suddenly have an epiphany just because you didn't bang them. We all know this is what happens directly before a woman dumps her boyfriend(ie, they find someone first before dumping). The dude is on his way out whether you do it or not.