I can't say that Im one hell of a DJ, but let me give you some advice. Keep being friendly with the girls...make them laugh and be happy. Dont be an emotional tampoon or a stooge though. A highschool boyfriend isn't a husband my dear DJ. He's an obstacle =). but I dont suggest you to start asking these girls on dates or hitting on them. Keep being friendly and who knows...one of these days...one of this chicks may eventually fall for you. That bf who's constantly watching her is insecured of you, and I dont think they're relationship will last since he's immatured and has no CHALLENGE AND SELF-CONTROL. You are still young. Meet a lot of girls out there. Don't worry about rejection. It's a part of life. I suggest you start reading doc love's articles at askmen.com Good luck