Ok let me add my vast knowledge of attention w-hores to this lovely thread....
To a varying degrees EVERYONE (yes guys and girls) are attention w-hores!! Who doesn't like attention from the opposite sex? But here's where the "varying degrees" comes into play.
1-Entry level Attention W-hore: She's a social girl, has girlfriends and guy friends. Loves the attention she recieves from the guy friends even if she has no intention of hooking up with them, she'll flirt with them even if she knows they have no chance. Now the guys who are stuck waiting for an entry level attention w-hore a pretty much shy, AFC's who are "waiting for the day when she realizes how great they are." Personally I have no problem with these girls, they're not psycho, or manipulative, they like the attention but would stop the flirting before it got too far.
2-Mid level Attention W-hore: She's also a very social girl has girlfriends and guy friends, usually her girlfriends are not as attractive as her, this makes her look that much more appealing to the male population. She will flirt with her guy friends, even maybe playfully make-out with a few of them, knowning damn well that she's leading them on, but she really doesn't see anything wrong with it. Once again, these guys are AFC's at heart who might have been mysterious and DJish in the beginning, but soon fell victim to the dreaded diease known as one-itis. These girls would easily be played by a seasoned DJ and enter a relationship with a true pimp and be loyal to him. However she'd still crave that male attention even though she gets it from her man. But she still needs more. These girls are usually young (16-20) and as they mature many of their attention w-hore characteristic vanish. Its more immature combined with attention w-hore characteristics.
3-Full blown Attention w-hore: These girls are T-R-O-U-B-L-E! These are the girls that DJDamage, Blue Phoneix and myself are referring to. They have very few girlfriends, if any and those girlfriends are waaaaaaaaay below average in looks to once again make the attention w-hore stand out even more. They are chornic LIARS!! Their whole life is a soap opera. Thy will lie about the most mundane topics and convince themselves that what they are lying about actually happened. I dated one for a while and they are incredibly seductive, very sexy and very attractive. The will leech onto your personality and make it seem like its "too good to be true" BECAUSE IT IS!! The first time I broke up with her she told me she was going to die in 3 years from a genetic heart condition, yet she smokes, drinks and parties all the time! They come from broken homes, had terrible experiences in their past, abusive parents, sexual abuse, severe neglect, lack of a father figure etc. Due to this extreme emotional hurt they've experienced, they treat every male who comes too close the way they've been treated in their past. Also, due to their past they develop severe psychological disorders, such as borderline, histrionic or anti-social personality disorders. All these disorders are partly genetic and partly a result of their social upbringing. Its really a terrible, unfortunate situation. They treat all males in their lives as objects, using them for supply. When your good in their eyes, your the king of the world, the man of their dreams...pure white!! However, inevitably they will revert back to their destructive behaviors, they act on impulse because they are so emotionally unstable! And once they go back to their ways, your the essence of pure evil, the devil...pure black!! They can love you, fuvk you and then go out that night and fuvk another guy without having guilt about it. When you have differences they manipulate you and make you feel as if its your fault. This stems from their immense fear of being abandoning. They feel emotions 10000x stronger than the average person. Here's an example: A couple times me and my ex got into an arguement over something stupid. I'd walk into the other room to cool off and she'd turn into a 5 year old child and accuse me of crazy things. I asked her why she got so mad when I left the room and she'd say; "When you walk out of the room, it makes me feel like your going to leave and never come back!!" :woo:
These woman are kids mentally and cannot get too close to anyone. Because once you get close, that fake front they put on to lure you in vanishes and you see the girl for who she is. The worst part is these girls are convinced that nothing is wrong with them and they'll make you question your own sanity.
I could go on and on about the true psychological "attention w-hores" but its exhausting just writing about it. I truely hope all of you never get too close to a true attention w-hore because it will spin your life upside down.
Put it this way, after dating her for 2 months she told me she loved me and she knew I was her husband!!!
Needless to say I broke up with her @ss and she still ocassionally calls me to this day!! Go look up some of my posts on BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER for all you non-believers!
