Flabbergasped?
Master Don Juan
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I heard this a couple times from different sources on different occasions, so there's some truth to it (or at least, some common misinterpretations). I can't really put my finger on what the problem is, but here's my thoughts:
When I'm hammered I get really flirtateous and hit on people hard. That would be fine and dandy, everyone's drunk at college parties, but I'm not that attractive (yet, I've started working out and fixing my wardrobe) so it just comes on creepy. Cavemanning is hard when you don't have the looks.
So, I figure I'll cut back on 1) spitting game and 2) alcohol until I'm done sexifying myself. To anyone out there who's been called creepy:
-I think 'creepy' or 'sketchy' is another way for girls to say "guy I'm not attracted to who's hitting on me." Two ways to fix that. 1) Become more attractive, whatever that means, and 2) don't telegraph interest. It's especially a big deal at my school, because it's small and word gets around.
The good thing about this situation is, I don't really give a rat's @ss what people think, so these rumors haven't really affected my mindset much, but I'd rather start damage control before my reputation sinks any lower.
When I'm hammered I get really flirtateous and hit on people hard. That would be fine and dandy, everyone's drunk at college parties, but I'm not that attractive (yet, I've started working out and fixing my wardrobe) so it just comes on creepy. Cavemanning is hard when you don't have the looks.
So, I figure I'll cut back on 1) spitting game and 2) alcohol until I'm done sexifying myself. To anyone out there who's been called creepy:
-I think 'creepy' or 'sketchy' is another way for girls to say "guy I'm not attracted to who's hitting on me." Two ways to fix that. 1) Become more attractive, whatever that means, and 2) don't telegraph interest. It's especially a big deal at my school, because it's small and word gets around.
The good thing about this situation is, I don't really give a rat's @ss what people think, so these rumors haven't really affected my mindset much, but I'd rather start damage control before my reputation sinks any lower.