so i am the typical story, about 6 months ago i was the nice guy that never had a girlfriend. sorry to be ****y... i definitely had the looks but as we a know personality can easily turn that around. i would kiss too much ass or whatever blah blah. they would lose interest fast and be like "oh.... i thought wrong" probably.
i have recently switched schools, so it was kinda cool.... I went into a whole new field of girls to start fresh with. this is the internet so im not trying to impress people, i will straight up say most girls at this school wanna get with me, and i have them under MY control and it is them that try to impress me.
i have my eye on this girl. its funny, i have all of her friends numbers and they all say good things about me i know for a fact so she definitely has an eye out for me and is wondering what she is missing out on. inside i really like her but i have done a great job of not persuing, but more attracting her. i don't have her number yet and have a clever way planned out of asking her for it. i am a senior in high school and thought i would ask for her number after prom. i am going with one of her friends which is good in a way and the guy she is going with she has lost interest in i know for a fact, and she doesn't wanna go out with him.
i ask for numbers all the time, but i thought it would be a better way if i get her number and then try to escalate into a relationship right after that (obviously not push it fast, but it would be less likely for her to lose interest in me maybe if i had already asked and done nothing). it would be weird to try to get with her now when im going to prom with her friend.
she is a 9 or 9.5 and one of the best looking at school and has a great personality, BUT she has never had a bf before. some of her friends are also hot but haven't had bfs, only hook ups with guys. apparently they just don't care and are into their own lives, ive been told. that is good because i am very independent and not clingy and work a lot and want time for my own friends..... buttttt... when it comes to trying to attract a girl who is already set in this mode, i have no idea what is best to break thru this.... can i get some help here?
just do the same thing, try to attract and not persue? its hard to tell though, they like to be friends with guys so they are all tight with me but i dont wanna fu.ck it up by trying to advance it when she doesnt want to.
- a confused and challenged boy in northern california..... sincerely program
i have recently switched schools, so it was kinda cool.... I went into a whole new field of girls to start fresh with. this is the internet so im not trying to impress people, i will straight up say most girls at this school wanna get with me, and i have them under MY control and it is them that try to impress me.
i have my eye on this girl. its funny, i have all of her friends numbers and they all say good things about me i know for a fact so she definitely has an eye out for me and is wondering what she is missing out on. inside i really like her but i have done a great job of not persuing, but more attracting her. i don't have her number yet and have a clever way planned out of asking her for it. i am a senior in high school and thought i would ask for her number after prom. i am going with one of her friends which is good in a way and the guy she is going with she has lost interest in i know for a fact, and she doesn't wanna go out with him.
i ask for numbers all the time, but i thought it would be a better way if i get her number and then try to escalate into a relationship right after that (obviously not push it fast, but it would be less likely for her to lose interest in me maybe if i had already asked and done nothing). it would be weird to try to get with her now when im going to prom with her friend.
she is a 9 or 9.5 and one of the best looking at school and has a great personality, BUT she has never had a bf before. some of her friends are also hot but haven't had bfs, only hook ups with guys. apparently they just don't care and are into their own lives, ive been told. that is good because i am very independent and not clingy and work a lot and want time for my own friends..... buttttt... when it comes to trying to attract a girl who is already set in this mode, i have no idea what is best to break thru this.... can i get some help here?
just do the same thing, try to attract and not persue? its hard to tell though, they like to be friends with guys so they are all tight with me but i dont wanna fu.ck it up by trying to advance it when she doesnt want to.
- a confused and challenged boy in northern california..... sincerely program