Girls says "I wish you knew more about cooking"

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Some of you guys just don't get it (women). The woman is a chef, she already knows how to cook (she's a chef) and probably enjoys what she does, it may even be one of her passions.

It isn't always the case that a woman wants you to do something for her when she makes a statement like that. In this case I think that all she wants is something to share between each other. Women call that 'intimacy.'

Guys, have you ever wished that your women could appreciate some of the things that you are passionate about (sports in particular). How many of you actually dated women that actually asked you to explain the Double Nickle Defense. Alright, that may be a stretch but you get where I am going.

I don't recall who brought up ideals of masculinity in this thread but they may have been onto something. So many times I see guys define themselves by society's idea of what it is to be a man. If we agreed with that, we wouldn't be on a site like this.

The whole idea is to be a man by your rules, your definition, your actions. How else will you differentiate yourself from the rest of the masses?

If a guy doesn't want to cook so be it, it's his decision. It's just a bit disconcerting that the decision is based on the ideas of the masses. If that held true for everything, we would succumb to the beliefs that men should pay for everything, women should stay home and keep house and there should not be any sex before marriage.

Scary, isn't it?

 

[00Kevin]

women are domestic
men are providers.

end of discussion.

 

[Nighthawk]

If a woman wrote this

"A guy I've been dating for a bit recently told me that he wished I knew more about sports.

I was very insulted by this remark.

This guy is an expert at sports. Why the **** would he want me to be one? What is he doing sizing me up for marriage already? That kind of **** scares the hell out of me.

We never finished the conversation and quite frankly as a result of this he is almost on my next list.

I'm going to tell him off and that is it.. I'm so sick of these b******ds with all these macho concepts in their head.

**** him.. I am not a f-ucken football fan and I never fu-cken will watch the Superbowl!

I should also point out that I do know the rules of some sports. but that isn't my focus in a relationship at all.

In fact he is the one that should to watch sports for me! "



Yeah, sounds pretty dumb...

 

[00Kevin]

Originally posted by Nighthawk

Yeah, sounds pretty dumb...

not really.. the fact is most guys don't want a girl who is into sports. I for one would never look for a girl who is into sports.

The last thing I would want is for her to hang out with the "guys".

 

[Nighthawk]

You miss the point. Which is that it would be a major over-reaction to a off-the-cuff comment.

 

[00Kevin]

Originally posted by Nighthawk
You miss the point. Which is that it would be a major over-reaction to a off-the-cuff comment.

Her comment and other parts of the conversation is typical of the "modern" female perspective on relationships.

My main point is that modern women don't seem to show much appreciation for men who are natural providers and are NOT domestic.

In other parts of the world and in other cultures women do admire men who are non domestic.

I would also like to say that I agree with the statement that americanized women are no good for LTRs. As time goes on, I find my self agreeing with many of the points outlined on NoMarriage.com.



WHAT? I'm not domestic? lol

 

[DJ4Real]

Hey, dude. There isn't anything wrong with being a good cook. But, don't get too angry about what she said. Just show her that you are a good cook. If you know a few basics, you'll be straight.

 

[nishbuk]

Statement: "I wish you knew more about cooking"

Response: "I wish you knew more about 'SHUT THE HELL UP SLUT'! GO IN THE KITCHEN AND MAKE ME A SAMWHICH!"

Owned...

and you get a sandwhich.

 

[ShyRyder]

Learn how to cook for yourself it's a major tradmark of independence. I think in terms of cooking in marriage the women should have a huge menu for every day of the week. The man should cook one or 2 days of the week and special occasions.

 

[Invisible-Limits]

For the past 3 years I have lived in a University residence that didn’t have a cafeteria and I observed that the guys had much more advanced cooking skills than the girls. Practically every male roommate I had could and would prepare meals from scratch using the oven (chicken, roasts, steaks, stir-fries, salads, rice/pasta dishes), while it seemed to be the girls who were the ones eating prepared meals or living off of icheeban noodles and were generally clueless in the kitchen.

It’s easy for a girl to get away with bad eating habits and no cooking skills. A 120 lbs girl can eat a few pieces of bread and a bowl of yogurt and still have a nice slim figure.

On the other hand, let’s say a guy is really active or lifts weights, he’ll have to put down a lot of clean and healthy food. So unless he has a personal chef or lives with his mom, he’ll have to know his way around the kitchen.

 

[MetalFortress]

Originally posted by 00Kevin
Let me explain something.

She is not trying to relate to me. She is just one of those girls who is screwed in the head when it comes to gender roles. I have no respect for that kind of woman. She is into this 50/50 bullcrap that basically only ends up working in her favour.

Here are some good qualities that you need to have in a woman for a long term relationship and/or marriage.

Cooking, cleaning, mothering, nurturing, wants kids, loves kids, loyal, trustworthy.

What is important is that the woman does not have a real negative attitude towards doing those things. Any trace of snobbery at doing traditional female tasks is a bad sign of a princess.

Marrige is a case where both partners need to give up something to get somthing different and greater in return. If anyone is selfish about the realtionship then it won't work.

And a marrige except for a few cases needs someone to be a provider, and someone to be a domestic.

Hey stupid, you forgot that SHE LOVES COOKING ALREADY. She's not asking you to know more about cooking because she wants you to cook for her and be her domestic man, you tool, she wants you to know more about cooking so you can relate to HER PASSION IN LIFE. Are you trying to tell me that someone whose passion in life is cooking wants you to be her personal cook and doesn't want to cook anymore?

Ugh, shut up and stop embarassing the rest of us traditional guys with your drivel.

 

[00Kevin]

Originally posted by MetalFortress
Hey stupid, you forgot that SHE LOVES COOKING ALREADY. She's not asking you to know more about cooking because she wants you to cook for her and be her domestic man, you tool, she wants you to know more about cooking so you can relate to HER PASSION IN LIFE.
Ugh, shut up and stop embarassing the rest of us traditional guys with your drivel.

You make a lot of statements without actually knowing this girl or even having an understanding of the situation. You are the one that needs to shut your mouth.

I guess you are too stupid to understand that she IS looking for a guy who will share her domestic activities. This is what the conversation was about.

Are you trying to tell me that someone whose passion in life is cooking wants you to be her personal cook and doesn't want to cook anymore?

Yes, this is exactly what I am telling you. The issue isn't that she doesn't want to cook. It is that she wants to force a man to do 50% of it despite the fact that she is a pro and it is her passion!

And that is why I was insulted. F-uck that... any woman who wants to unload her role as a domestic on me is f-ucken useless.

This is why these modern americanized women are just trash.

 

[00Kevin]

Originally posted by Invisible-Limits
For the past 3 years I have lived in a University residence that didn’t have a cafeteria and I observed that the guys had much more advanced cooking skills than the girls. Practically every male roommate I had could and would prepare meals from scratch using the oven (chicken, roasts, steaks, stir-fries, salads, rice/pasta dishes), while it seemed to be the girls who were the ones eating prepared meals or living off of icheeban noodles and were generally clueless in the kitchen.

It’s easy for a girl to get away with bad eating habits and no cooking skills. A 120 lbs girl can eat a few pieces of bread and a bowl of yogurt and still have a nice slim figure.

On the other hand, let’s say a guy is really active or lifts weights, he’ll have to put down a lot of clean and healthy food. So unless he has a personal chef or lives with his mom, he’ll have to know his way around the kitchen.

This just goes to prove the most americanized women are usless trash for LTRs. Other then sex, what is it that these women offer?

 

[MetalFortress]

Originally posted by 00Kevin


Yes, this is exactly what I am telling you. The issue isn't that she doesn't want to cook. It is that she wants to force a man to do 50% of it despite the fact that she is a pro and it is her passion!

Actually, no, you just took one statement she made and assumed that's what she meant. Stop trying to cover for yourself.

 

[naoi deag se deag]

Originally posted by 00Kevin
This just goes to prove the most americanized women are usless trash for LTRs. Other then sex, what is it that these women offer?

Sounds like your woman offers excellent cooking in addition to sex. If you don't want a woman with any kind of independence (judging by your provider-male, domestic-female dichotomy), buy a mail order bride. Simple as that.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by 00Kevin
...The last thing I would want is for her to hang out with the "guys".

What's the big deal about that?

 

[tito]

Fight fire with fire

Fight fire with fire !! !
When woman fire...you should fired back at her !!!

You should said something like this : "Hmmm hunny, I can't wait for you to have a flat (tire) on the highway, so I can look at you change it while Im talking on the phone lauging out loud
... Cause you seems so good at everything !!! "

Fight fire with fire !! -Tito-

 

[white_hype]

Originally posted by 00Kevin
A girl I've been dating for a bit recently told me that she wished I knew more about cooking.

I was very insulted by this remark.

This girl is an expert at cooking. Why the **** would she want me to be one? What is she doing sizing me up for marriage already? That kind of **** scares the hell out of me.

We never finished the conversation and quite frankly as a result of this she is almost on my next list.

I'm going to tell her off and that is it.. I'm so sick of these *****es with all these feminist concepts in their head.

**** her.. I am not a f-ucken cook and I never fu-cken will cook half the meals!

I should also point out that I do know how to cook a few things. but that isn't my focus in a relationship at all.

In fact she is the one that should have to cook for me!


I'm interested in knowing how some of you guys would respond. Keep in mind I'm only interested in an LTR. If she was a fling.. I would care what she said.

lmao you have fvcking problems, I dont even know where to begin

 

[SamePendo]

SamePendo says:

¨I wish she knew more about blovv jobs¨

*****.
Next her fatty ass.

 

[zzirf25]

Homey, with an attitude like that they only pssy you are getting is nasty slvts or you will pay for it. Sounds like you look at wome as an object an not as a breathing person. You need to stop living in black and white and start living in color it isn't 1950 anymore when you come home and say honey I'm home where is my pie. Whether you wanna admit it or not alot of women do not apprieciate guys with an attitude like yours. Sounds to me like you are a control freak. If something like her telling you to learn more about cooking pisses you off then I hate to tell ya, but you will never get a LTR like you want because you will **** it up.

You are right we don't know the entire situation or the girl, but we do know the info you have given us, so don't get pssed at us for telling you what we think about the information you supplied. Did you expect us to think you were right? What you said was the most egotistical thing I have heard in a while. Oh yea and domestic women don't really exist anymore, we live in a place called the 21st century were most women work and don't wanna cook for you when they get home.