Girls coming back

[SargeMaximus]

Hey guys, just did a girl who “broke up” (we only had sex twice) with me in 2020. She was in the app yesterday and we had sex today.
Anyhow I’m wondering what the policy is you guys have for returning girls. I personally feel like as long as they keep me satisfied they can come back but do any of you impose some kind of penalty or tax for them leaving in the first place? Thanks

 

[Stanley]

I think penalizing them is silly.

I'm of the mind that if you gave them a fair shake once before and they failed you or were disrespectful to leave things in the past. If they come back you can assess what you want from them. If you were in a relationship prior than it is likely in your best interest to not commit to this woman. I think if your interest in her is casual and the shoe fits then wear it until it doesn't.

Anecdotally, I had a girl last year that came back after things got weird and fizzled out. She wanted to revisit, I declined politely. Why? Because I saw her on tinder shortly after the split and didn't want to waste my time on her or bring about drama, the writing was on the wall and I read it thoroughly. Not worth it, learned from past mistakes. Generally, better to invest in a new relationship in my opinion.

 

[SW15]

It was casual sex in 2020 and likely a 1 to a few instances of casual sex in 2023.

2020 was a bit of a weird year in the mating environment.

Iron Rule of Tomassi #7

It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was.

I don't think Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 applies here. It wasn't a relationship in 2020, it was 2 instances of sex.

How did things end in 2020 and how did you persuade her to have sex today?

 

[SargeMaximus]

It was casual sex in 2020 and likely a 1 to a few instances of casual sex in 2023.

2020 was a bit of a weird year in the mating environment.

Iron Rule of Tomassi #7

It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was.

I don't think Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 applies here. It wasn't a relationship in 2020, it was 2 instances of sex.

How did things end in 2020 and how did you persuade her to have sex today?

Ah, so I literally was doing my “check through each app tonight” ritual before retiring to video games. I didn’t know it was her (long time ago and we only fvcked twice) anyhow I did my standard opener and followup and she was receptive. After a few back and forth s she reminded me who she was so we set plans to fvck today and we did.

 

[Scars]

Recreational use only.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Recreational use only.

Always

 

[Millard Fillmore]

I personally feel like as long as they keep me satisfied they can come back

And you're correct. The minute they start becoming a net negative it's ejection time.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Hey guys, just did a girl who “broke up” (we only had sex twice) with me in 2020. She was in the app yesterday and we had sex today.
Anyhow I’m wondering what the policy is you guys have for returning girls. I personally feel like as long as they keep me satisfied they can come back but do any of you impose some kind of penalty or tax for them leaving in the first place? Thanks

Only if you are immature.

 

[characternote]

do any of you impose some kind of penalty or tax for them leaving in the first place

20 pressups

 

[soulforge]

01. If it was a relationship and feelings where involved & you broke up.. Then I would pass on this.

02. If it was something casual from the offset, then hey why not, keep her recreational use only.. Catch & Release