Girls calling me gay.What the **** is this????

[Elf]

Hi guys!!!


I need some help from you, this is what's happening...

A lot of girls i hit, thinks that i'm gay. I don't know why the **** do they say that.... i use to go to chats like irc and i send this particular photo and some girls look at it and they say that i look like a gay or they just don't talk to me anymore and other girls say that i look fine and are receptive to my approaches. I guess ( i'm not sure, it's one shirt that i bought that it seems to attract undesirable attentions, i don't think it's gay but you never know), for god's sake i even had a gay sending me an email from somewhere.

here's the link to the photo

Please be honest and tell what's wrong

http://www.vulcoes.com/acores/users/salamurian02.jpg

come on, we are on the same boat here

please help a friend dj k?


thanks

peace out

 

[regulus]

is this a joke?

 

[Elf]

regulus what do u mean by that?

 

[Sleepless]

Originally posted by Elf


A lot of girls i hit, thinks that i'm gay. I don't know why the **** do they say that....

Maybe you're gay.

 

[vanillasky]

You look pretty gay dewd

 

[payaya]

its the top! it looks gay!

 

[Slickster]

Hey man no offense but that is a pretty flaming!! shirt you have there.

I'm not sure if this post is a joke.

Forget about what the babes are saying, what do your guy friends say.

My guess is that if you wore that shirt into an establishment where "real" men hang out (ie. construction workers, mechanics, or other macho types), they would say you were gay too and probably kick your a$$.

Open your eyes!! What do you see MEN wearing.

*Also in that picture....... is that a Man's hand around your shoulder??????????? Hmmmm........

 

[EpsilonArmati]

Ah, that top is so thewper! Like, wow! Like, it's fabuluth when you put on purple vinyl pants on too! Rad!

 

[billythekid78]

yes

Yes, you do look gay in the photo. The problem has to do with: a. that gay looking shirt, b. the gay look on your face, c. can't tell if the arm around you is male or female, but they're holding the cigarette in a gay looking way, d. your posture is effeminate (yes, gay).
So the obvious answer is to get a new photo.

 

[payaya]

its a guy for sure! look at the hands.

i got a friend who gets called guy by total strangers! so your not the only one. What you wear has a big part to looking gay

 

[backbreaker]

I see no one has answered your question, so I will try my best to help you.

I honestly used to get hit on by alot of guys, back then I didnt' know why but now I understand perfectly:

It's all in the way you carry yourself.


You are more than likely a "prep", always wear your shirt tucked in, nicely dressed, clean all that good stuff, which is great. But the way you carry yourself needs to change.

I will bet you 100 bucks you look confused when you walk around somewhere, I bet that you don't walk with your sholders back, I bet you don't sound confident when you talk. All these things, for odd reasons, attract gay people.

 

[Starman]

heh

Rule #1 of Man club..Dont wear sleeveless clothes..some models can get away with it(most male models are prolly gay anyway)..but its a popular style in the gay community (see villiage people)

#2 are you wearing lipstick? your lips are way too bright to be male

#3 dont take pics of guys arms around you

#4 unless you are a surfer get rid of that dog collar..and mess up your hair a little

I get the "are you gay?" too everytime I dress a little too trendy (blazer etc)

 

[VoodooChild]

Sorry, you do look gay in that picture. Posture's effeminate, shirt is FAAAAA-BULOUS, and that nose ring, IMHO, has to go.

 

[thejuice]

get rid of the picture...you look gay

 

[DJ Fedorov]

Yea man, not trying to diss you but it looks gay. Those sunglasses look like the kind women wear, the shirt is like... feminine looking then lose the guys in the picture and you wont look gay. 'Nuff said

 

[So pimp its scary]

and the name 'elf' doesn't help the cause...

 

[Oxide]

go to Banana republic, spend 100-200$ and dress nice!
good luck.
p.s. **** those shades.

 

[Pedro]

Hmm um DJ açoriano ?

Há que ser honesto....PARECES gay sim ! Arranja-te de outra maneira pá...

Ah, os DJ portugueses frequentam o #pua no IRC !

 

[Nightwing]

You may not be gay, but that picture does just to give you my honest opinon.

 

[iceman666]

Dude, you look fruitier than Tucan Sam in that picture. Everyone has hit the points of why already. Thats why your being confused as a rectal romeo, anal jouster, colon cowboy...take your pick.

My question is: HOw can you not take one look at that and not see it. Get a new picture, run don't walk.