but what if the person is just pointing the gun? and does not threaten to kill you?
Groping is SEXUAL ASSAULT. Groping is a CRIME. Groping is PUNISHABLE BY LAW. Men have NO RIGHT to grope women who DON'T want to be GROPED. The man who groped me COMMITTED A CRIME. I knocked him out with my beer mug. I was JUSTIFIED in knocking him about because he SEXUALLY ASSAULTED me.
i have not once said that groping is not a crime,and yes it is punishable by law, your missing the point here, you where not JUSTIFIED in knocking him out, he commited a crime but he did not pose a threat to you, or hurt you in anyway
Yes, I WAS justified in knocking his ass out. He was NOT justified in touching me and pinning me against the bar. I couldn't just "walk away" because I was pinned against the bar. Contrary to what you might think...when some strange guy touches you sexually it IS extremely upsetting and you DO feel threatened and frightened. Again...I was ENTIRELY JUSTIFIED in hitting him to get him off me.
No doubt...I mean, I could have called the police and filed charges AFTER I got him off me. There were certainly enough witnesses to get a conviction easy enough. Then the guy would have had to register as a sex offender for the rest of his life for grabbing me in a bar when he was probably drunk and being stupid. The whack on the forehead will likely prevent him from ever doing it to anyone again and he won't be considered a sex offender for the rest of his life.
Actually, I DID tell him to leave me alone after he grabbed me. That's when he pressed up against me and pinned me to the bar...laughing. That's when I smiled at him and belted him with the beer mug. Even if I hadn't told him to leave me alone it was HIM who assumed that it was his right to touch me. It was him that pinned me against the bar. So...it was him that found himself picking himself up off the floor. There was nothing unjust about how I handled it.
If I were a guy then he would not have sexually assaulted me and pinned me up against the bar so that I couldn't get away from him. Telling him to leave me alone didn't make him leave me alone. I had three choices. I could have allowed him to violate me and just let him sexually assault me. I could have called out for help from some guy to step in on my behalf. I could have hit him. I hit him. If I had of hit him with just my hand it would not have been effective in getting him off me. In fact, it could have led to me being hurt by him. In a situation like that where you are at a severe physical disadvantage...if you are going to hit to defend yourself you need to make it count. That's what I did.
It wasn't his party - it was the girls' party, and their apartment. Considering he had nothing to do with throwing the party, he was in no position to ask me to leave. It was the girls' house, not his. In fact, it pissed me off that he was trying to make me leave.
No your the ****ing idiot as u do not read,
I didn't even LOOK at the f*cking guy, let alone talk to him or "flirt" with him. I'd never even laid eyes on him before. I was wearing jeans and a nice blouse...nothing revealing or suggestive. And for God's sakes...STOP blaming me for a guy's LACK OF SELF CONTROL.
No, the second the guy touched me and pinned me against the bar HE was being violent. Violence isn't just hitting. You're an idiot.Originally posted by john_x
and as for you , you little attention seeking SLAG, if i was with a friend and he felt a girls arse and she glassed him id beat the **** out of her,
your the one making the situation violent,, SEXUAL ASSULT SEXAUL ASSULT!!!
keep shoutng it from the rooof tops in your capital letters wont you
I can't believe that some of you know any women at all, especially attractive ones. If you do you'll know they get uninvited hassle off creepy men on a regular basis.
