Stop Wasting Time!
Maeisgood: The fact that you did not "strike while the iron was hot"
WAS a mistake, yes, but right now, at THIS time, there is no use crying about the past mistakes, and rather take it as a lesson for the future.
Look at you situation now, u made a mistake, you still wnt this girl, but you are affraid of what will happen if her bf finds out.. what do you do?
if she is willing to cheat on he bf, then go for it!
I personally try and keep away from girls with bf's, i think that its wrong, and there are plenty of other woman out there up for grabs, which wont run the risk of having a bf coming after you with a sledge hammer. But if you really like this chick, and she really likes you, then i would suggest that you tell her to break it off with her bf, and THEN th 2 of you can do whatever u want to do.
U need to remember that life is too short to waste so much time over
ONE girl, so either u tell her to break up with her bf if she wants you, or you take the chance and kiss/get with her while she is STILL with her bf, or u simply NEXT her and look for a less complicated girl (a girl that doesnt have a bf)... Any one of those 3 options are what you SHOULD do, and you SHOULD do soon, you have wasted enough time on this girl already!
Maeisgood said:
I wish this whole thing would have either worked out or she'd leave me alone. Her presense only reminds me of missed opportunity.
Just like there WERE opportunities in the past, i'm sure that there will be more in the future, this is about YOU making a chouce, and making it promptly and stop wasting precious time! Either make a move, or accept that the 2 of you will only be friends, and then go look for OTHER girls, and if something happens to happen between you and this girl, then that will be "bonus", but if not, then you still have plenty other girls out there waiting to get seduced by you.
Laterz...
