My girlfriend of 7 months is entertaining the idea of joining a sorority in the fall (her second year of college.) Now, she's very loyal, respectful, and very much so in love with me. Her reasoning is that she does not have that extremely close knit group of friends as she did in high school, partly due to the fact that she did not stay in dorms for her freshman year. The problem for me is that there will be situations on a weekly basis where we will be partying seperately because of the fact that sometimes a sorority will have to party with a frat and it's pretty much closed to anyone not involved in one of the two. I am not involved in greek like and am mildly uncomfortable with the fact that we'll be partying away from each other.
Now, my girlfriend has made it clear time and time again that she has no interest in "gross frat guys" and that if she wanted to cheat on me then she would not be in the relationship, and would at least have the respect to break up with me before doing so. I have a good amount of trust in my girlfriend and our relationship but the whole situation is still a tad bit unsettling to me and I'm just not sure if i'm willing to be in this kind of relationship.
Any input would be amazing, preferably from experience. Also keep in mind that my girlfriend isn't some drunk slut, I was DJ'ing and gaming chicks before her, so I made damn sure that she was a great catch before I invested myself in a relationship with her.
Now, my girlfriend has made it clear time and time again that she has no interest in "gross frat guys" and that if she wanted to cheat on me then she would not be in the relationship, and would at least have the respect to break up with me before doing so. I have a good amount of trust in my girlfriend and our relationship but the whole situation is still a tad bit unsettling to me and I'm just not sure if i'm willing to be in this kind of relationship.
Any input would be amazing, preferably from experience. Also keep in mind that my girlfriend isn't some drunk slut, I was DJ'ing and gaming chicks before her, so I made damn sure that she was a great catch before I invested myself in a relationship with her.