Girl walked out... Of my fvcking house

[guru1000]

She just got a text from a better option, that's all. You gave her a great excuse to bail.

LOL. Not everything is hypergamy. Release the poison.

 

[CMNILS87]

“Hey, I’m running late from the gym, swing by in 15 and we can rock and roll”...

This is literally all you had to say. Most women would take up a free drink while waiting 10 mins anyways.

 

[guru1000]

Didn't say it was hypergamy, this is how millennials plan weekends

Bro, I probably date younger girls than you. LOL. Stop it.

Not everything a girl does is due to a "better option."

 

[QuadDeuces]

She did you a favour, showed her true colours before you spent more time and money on her.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Sure I would, my bros would turn on the tv and have a beer.

Yeah if there’s more than one. And you actually knew them for more than one hangout lol

 

[Juanto]

TAKE HER OUT AND PAY FOR EVERYTHING

why?

 

[Murk]

She nexted you over gross misconduct of her time ...Girl has been reading this forum shes smart

Hahaha!

She just left without saying a word. Imagine getting ready and coming downstairs to emptiness.

Boss b1tch

 

[guru1000]

You "pull"...ok... I'm an actual millennial with dozens and dozens of millennial friends lol.

I know. But the OP dates women ... little different.

 

[Von]

All I got from this:

Don't take a shower before SEX... especially if you are LATE... beside why take a shower BEFORE SEX... you just came out of the gym.... sweat is sexy in sex....

You could have asked her to take a shower with you after the LAY.

Instead you made her wait 20 minutes on arrangement that were made WEEKS ahead.

It wasnt an episode of ... oh here you are.. I just need to put on my shirt and put some cologne and I am ready... have a drink, it will take 1 minute than we talk 15minutes and go.... you literally TOLD HER BY ACTIONS... that you don't give a cr!p....

No matter what type of girl she is.

You sound entitled BRO... beside what kind of date did you plan that you would be making her wait 20minutes to clean yourself?

 

[Murk]

Sweat during sex may be sexy but smelling sweaty for a date is not. She was in his house the only reason she would leave while he’s up there is low interest, another option, saw a girl text pop up on his phone (was your phone downstairs bro?)

 

[mrgoodstuff]

all female species are unconfrontational within reason unless you harm there offspring or make her jealous, youve most likely done other things where attractions has dropped and this is the final nail...ie refer back to my previous post on how fickle they are

Now picture this shes turned up to your house cool calm collective and shes vanished cool calm collective

this has sent you into a bit of a spin on the forum

She is the real DJ here

Not necessarily true dude. You haven't met aggressive drama queens. They do things to trigger negative reactions.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Even just a single bro.

And for a girl I have fvcked? Sure no problem.

This just seems so foreign to me. Especially if it’s been planned for a while prior. There’s a lot more people out there who don’t like that.

 

[hitmanwalking]

This is what happens when you "date." Don't date. Forge connections with every girl that you like. Don't just settle for women you are merely attracted to. Go for girls you genuinely like as friends or fvck buddies. When you have an actual relationship (not just romantic, but any type) with someone, they won't do stupid flakey stuff. I have had female friends that I sleep with all my life. They don't act like flakey drama queens because somewhere in her head I am a "friend." I am a part of her social life. Most women have no remorse when it comes to ditching someone in their "he's the guy you sleep with and forget about" zone.

Most guys talk about the friend zone but the "guy you sleep with and forget about" zone is equally as frustrating. This guy doesn't count to women. He has no feelings to hurt. Create a connection with her and suddenly she treats you different. The funny thing is, the relationship dynamic is the same. You are still using her for sex and companionship. But you are in the "friends with benefits" category and he gets more respect.

 

[hitmanwalking]

I agree with you 100% and this is why social circle game is so important, HOWEVER to have real abundance you do have to date a lot of women outside of your social circle that you are just a "random" to. If you sit around in your social circle(s) you will not have abundance.

It depends on your definition of "social circle." If you are have a vibrant social life where you do a lot of fitness and dancing and you're surrounded by 8+, you can connect with them all and have more abundance than you know what to do with.

Forget social circles. Get a social life. All the 8+ with great personalities has social lives that is leaps and bounds greater than the average guy in the manosphere.

Most guys I know in seduction only know tinder.

 

[hitmanwalking]

You can sleep with two women that know each other in such an environment?

Have you ever been in these social circles? Everyone sleeps with each other. It's like that tv show Beverly Hills 90210.

All it takes is one woman to be satisfied. It's called social proof.

 

[hitmanwalking]

i cosign this.

i have both. im constantly making decisions of who/what to go with. tomorrow afternoon im going to an organized event to clean up the beach where i surf. great way to kick off this spring, shake off the cold and meet new people. the gf is working so shes none too happy about it but it is what it is. i met her in a similar way

but dont bash sleeping with women you wont ever see again. most often than not thats what i prefer. nothing worse than running into a girl you fooled around with in your normal day to day or not being able to frequent a favorite spot for the same reason. im constantly telling my friends not to hook up with girls at our favorite spots because if they cant go in, by extension i cant go in. and that fvcking sucks

Don't get me wrong, I love one night stands with hot women. It's just that for some guys, that's all they know. So they get laid 5 times a year and they think that's the norm. The norm is you should have 5 women on rotation at all times + the occasional random hookup.

Yeah so you got game. But you have no life. Guys with 1/10th your game have rotation of women because they have social lives.

 

[hitmanwalking]

No, my social circles are one girl at a time per circle or others would be pissed.

My bad, my experience is kind of unique. I purposely seek out social circles with predominately 8+ women. They all think they are dimes. And they all need validation from the alpha guy. It's a lot different from normal social circles. think hired gun dancers in night clubs. They have their own fraternity like groups.

On second thought, even in normal social groups i am that guy who sleeps with every girl. Guys get props for sleeping around. That's how my circles have always been.

My personality is creating connections with women with sexual flirting. After a few months they finally break and tell me "Let's just act like we are friends but between us, we can do whatever we want."


Believe it or not, even in your socials this guy exists. Women might act like nothing is happening. But this guy exists in plain sight.

 

[BeExcellent]

She felt disrespected. It was only a second meet up. She may have remorse for giving you sex so fast & having her wait on the bed seems a little personal to me. If this date was planned a week in advance you could have managed your time better. Poor time management and not being ready at the appointed time (that YOU set) is disrespectful.

When my guy tells me be ready to go out at 8? I'm ready. If he tells me I'll come by at 6 and let's have some snacks & drinks at your place before we leave? Then I might finish doing my make up while we hang out & chat.

Next time pick her up at her place (this means you take her back home later/after), or have her meet you out.

I would have been like WTF in her shoes too, but I think she was already afraid you saw her just for sex...and when you couldn't bother to be ready to go on time (not even showered yet), I can see why she cruised.

Combination of her fears (of being used) and your failure to honor the arrangement you made, result is she felt disrespected & she left.

Had you planned your time better this would not have happened.

You gotta own it.

 

[hitmanwalking]

She felt disrespected. It was only a second meet up. She may have remorse for giving you sex so fast & having her wait on the bed seems a little personal to me. If this date was planned a week in advance you could have managed your time better. Poor time management and not being ready at the appointed time (that YOU set) is disrespectful.

When my guy tells me be ready to go out at 8? I'm ready. If he tells me I'll come by at 6 and let's have some snacks & drinks at your place before we leave? Then I might finish doing my make up while we hang out & chat.

Next time pick her up at her place (this means you take her back home later/after), or have her meet you out.

I would have been like WTF in her shoes too, but I think she was already afraid you saw her just for sex...and when you couldn't bother to be ready to go on time (not even showered yet), I can see why she cruised.

Combination of her fears (of being used) and your failure to honor the arrangement you made, result is she felt disrespected & she left.

Had you planned your time better this would not have happened.

You gotta own it.

This is why I think connection is so important. I've had women in the past waited hours just to see me foe 5 minutes.

Genuine interest prevents her from feeling like she is being used. And you get away with a lot more than just being 20 min late. But its something you can't fake. This is why I think guys should only go for girls they are genunely interested in. If you are lukewarm about her, then don't expect her to bend over backwards for you.

 

[hitmanwalking]

Yes, I was genuinely interested bc I've heard others speak to this, I just havent really experienced it. Part of it is, not having the time to have a large presence in a social scene with a lot of ppl, like as a bartender or something. I think my social circles are just too small and and cliquey for that. There is definitely a hookup culture but to have FWB with two women in the group would be poor form.

A relationship with more than two women is poor form. FWB was meant for multiple women. Keep your options open! Lol.