girl looks good..then bad

[ozzfest]

i find this in many instances...a woman can look awesome one day and then just a few days later look barely respectable. Its all in the makeup and their hair and outfits. I am interested in this one woman and she can look so good at times. When I see her at these times I am practically drooling. Total knockout and I desperately wanna ask her out. Then the next week she will look bagged out and leave me thinking "what was I thinking". But then the next week look awesome again. Its like I'm on a rollercoaster. Not sure which girl I'm getting.

Also there is another girl I was interested in, but lately I notice she has been developing some love handles. I notice this cuz those tight clothes she wears are getting tighter. Now mind you she is far from fat but its just that her tight shirts show off her love handles now. Not sure how/when/where this fat came from but its there all of the sudden. The sad thing is that I think I'm so shallow that it effects my desire for her. I mean before when her body was kickin there was no doubt I would go out with her but now I am not so sure.

Anybody out there have this happen to you or am I being too shallow and too nit picky?

 

[Chewy Bagel]

There was a Seinfeld episode based on the very topic. I'd say hit it and move on, unless you decide you want more...

 

[FlyGuy]

Haha, this reminds me of that Seinfeld episode. You're just being too nit picky IMO but hey everyone has their standards.

 

[squirrels]

Look at certain celebs out there: Britney Spears, Jennifer Lopez...

If she's good looking when you hit it...well, to me, that'd be just fine. Most of those girls you see at the club (or anywhere) looking really good...don't look that good.

And don't even get me STARTED on strip clubs. Darkness, fog/smoke, and strobe lighting can make even the most torn up woman look like a goddess.

 

[becker]

I think that there are very few natural beauties out there. I tend to admire a girl who wears little makeup. Some examples of girls that I'm sure would be knockouts even without makeup are Jessica Alba and Katie Holmes. Jennifer Lopez, Sarah Michelle Gellar and even Britney Spears would both require makeup to look good. Britney is deceivingly good looking, because she actually has some imperfections, like her nose, which is sort of weird.

 

[Gold Heart]

What's the term IMO stand for?

 

[abcd_z]

In My Opinion.

It's a chat acronum, and not a SoSuave one.

 

[Gold Heart]

Originally posted by abcd_z
In My Opinion.

It's a chat acronum, and not a SoSuave one.

Thanks, you answered both questions I asked.

 

[coin]

Haha, funny that you mention the Seinfeld episode...

There is currently one girl that has shown some interest in me, and some of the other guys around refer to her as "seinfeld's girlfriend."

 

[chlywly]

When you pass a certain stage in your life you realise that women have something called a personality which actually in most situations will be just as if not more important than pure looks.

TALK TO HER, if you like her, go for it. If she can look bomb good enough.

 

[Thoroughbred]

I gotta agree with squirrels.

I hate going to clubs because you can't see the women, it is too damn dark! And, that is important to me- you know being able to see the chicks.

Anywhere where it is too dark is a bad place to meet chicks.

 

[ozzfest]

couple things...i thought i was shallow..but someone said Britney spears had imperfections...well i'dtake her in a heart beat...

anyway getting back to the heart of the issue..it just shows ya how confusing women are..not only do they play mind games with their words and actions but they can also do the same w/ their looks. At least w/ guys you know what your getting. We basically look the same day after day. However with woman and all their makeup and clothes...you never know what you are getting.

Not sure how many of you are in the workplace but if so have you ever gone to a company function such as a Xmas party? You show up , look around and see all these hot chicks..and you wonder where did they all come from? You see the same ladies day in and day out and they look bad and then for that one night they can spruce themselves up and get all decked out and look awesome.

I'm just confused is all. Like I said, one minute she has me panting ..the next time I don't wanna look twice at her.

 

[Player_Supreme]

Just think if she was your woman and you had to wakeup next too her without her make up and outfits on...

 

[davelmn2003]

in my humble opinion you're quite shallow (if looks are the only determining factor in your decision), but if it's just for casual dating I guess it's fine...

 

[becker]

I'd take Britney Spears as well, imperfections and all. Remember, nobody's perfect anyways. The point is that sometimes people look super-hot but they actually aren't that much hotter than other girls, once makeup is removed.

 

[davelmn2003]

I wish to add that I was once in the same situation as you are, ozzfest. I found this girl incredibly hot and irresistable. I saw her some other time and thought less of her looks (though still placed her very high on my list). I guess it's like taking pictures. Sometimes you see nice pics of yourself (or of others), in some pics you think you look yuck.

 

[TesuqueRed]

Are you shallow because you respond so strongly to looks..???

You like what you like, it's an honest reaction. Start second-guessing that and you'll begin a pattern of screwing yourself based on some lame theory of what you should be like.

Besides--as a guy, you're hard-wired to respond to perky tyts and clear skin and luscious hair and long legs and toned tails and --whatever it is that cranks it for you.

As someone said above, though, you should be responding to more than just physical appearances. Or--rather, young guys respond to physical appearances more. As you get older, you need more in the way of personality and compatibility out of them.

I can walk downtown and be amazed at the dozens of truly fine specimens that pass me by (aged 18 to 40) at lunch. I appreciate their beauty and physical gifts. I wouldn't say a word to them, though--most don't look like they have anything to say that I would find interesting and I bet they think the same about me. So I look and I have no regrets about letting them pass by without saying anything...

 

[BobbDobbs]

Celebrities with and without makeup: http://www.ebaumsworld.com/celeb.html

 

[ozzfest]

if you wanna call me shallow i'll accept that...but the bottom line is i know what i am attracted to and what i'm not. Hard to have sex w/ someone you're not physically attracted to. Also, lets face it most of us spot someone who is appealing 1st and then try to get to know them. So we are constantly sizing up chicks based on looks.

My whole gripe about ladies who sometimes look great and sometimes look less than great is that its frustrating...ever buy a shirt or clothes and you love it in the store..bring it home and think to yourself "why did i buy this ugly thing?".... You can return clothes, no harm. Try returning a chick ...hard to do w/o hurting feelings

 

[Kodiac]

Be true to yourself.
You know what you like.
End of story.

If your attracted to her, your attracted to her, if your not..your not. You have personal tastes, preferences and standards. Don't try and change yourself.

But i agree. Some chicks look good when done up, fugly at other times...lots of factors come into it.

HB9 with no makeup might scrape in at HB6 without it. Unfortunately, thats life. Just make sure she has time to hit the bathroom before interacting with her