Wow, interesting site. J. Lo, Oprah, Christina Aguilera, Pam Anderson, and Christina Applegate look kind of scary. Others don't look terrible, but definitely a difference between a touched-up picture and one that isn't (obviously).
girl looks good..then bad
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Do not ever ever consider yourself shallow because you're not attracted to what you see. Looks are the main factor that gets a persons attention and sparks a sexual interest. Shallowness is a creation that fat, ugly, and lazy people use to excuse their own flaws. Rather then going to the gym or taking care of themselves these people wiggle out of their own responsobility by puttin the blame on the people who judge them. Its not your fault if the girl in question is fat, its hers. Its not your fault if you are no longer attracted to her, you are entitled to your own opinions.Originally posted by ozzfest
The sad thing is that I think I'm so shallow that it effects my desire for her. I mean before when her body was kickin there was no doubt I would go out with her but now I am not so sure.
Anybody out there have this happen to you or am I being too shallow and too nit picky?
Girls play the shallow card much more then guys, but take a look at a typical girls list of qualities a guy should have.
borrowed from nomarriage.com
Theres not a guy here who can argue that most girls would list this many features if we let them have enough time to describe a quality guy. I'd bet that this girl doesn't even have anything special to offer and she could hardly meet any guys perfect list, yet she would look for all these qualities while claiming a guy was shallow if he didn't like her body.Rachel's "Perfect Guy" Qualities List
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Rachel is a real girl. The list was taken from her website. Rachel is a typical American woman. Keep in mind that she expects everything on the list simply because she has vagina.
5'8” and taller
Dark brown hair with brown eyes/blue eyes
Handsome
Muscular
Weight depending on height – not skinny, not fat
Good sense of humor
Dimples
Cute laugh
Sensitive
*Affectionate* in front of friends
Gives me lots of attention
Outgoing
Popular but doesn't know the whole state
Friends with my friends
Nice smile
Straight teeth
No facial or body hair (except legs n under arms)
Pierced ear(s) if any
Not too many tattoos if any
Likes to cuddle
Likes to party
Takes me out
Grabs my hand to hold
Kisses me unexpectedly
Dresses nice (*ABERCROMBIE*) hehe
Has a good job
Tells me he misses me when we're not together
Makes me laugh
Open minded
Polite
Holds doors for me
Opens car doors
*Romantic*
Likes all type of music
Likes going to the movies
Talks to his friends about me
Looks into my eyes when just laying there on the bed
Gives massages without me having to ask
Plays with my hair
Calls me to just say hi
Tries not to argue
Apologizes for when he does wrong
Says what he's feeling
Has a car
Has a dog
Has a family that likes me
Compliments me
Is tan
Doesn't curse all the time
Wants to be with me as much as possible
Comes over unexpectedly
Wakes me up with a kiss
Same age or 3 years at the most older than me
*Trustworthy*
Patient
Likes to shop
Has good manners
Doesn't smoke
Occasionally drinks
Athletic
Is on time for dates
Calls back later when he says he will
Lives close to me
Wants to meet my family
Treats me like a princess
Has a cute butt
Good kissable lips
Good kisser
Good memory
Does special things for holidays/birthdays/anniversary/etc
Intelligent
Has direction
Creative
Likes everything about me
Committed
*My best friend*
Respectful
Mature
Persistent – Hard working
Likes walks on the beach
Likes just staying home sometimes
Writes me songs/poems
Likes to dance
Has a sexy voice
Cooks for me
Likes to show me off
Calls me or introduces me as his "girlfriend" not "Rachel"
Likes to take pictures
Flirts with me in public and in private
Puts up with my mood swings
Comforts me when I'm sad
Doesn't say “sorry” all the time when it's not needed
Sticks up for me
Likes animals
Sends me flowers for no reason
Ignores my imperfections
Surprises me (good surprises)
Doesn't ever yell at me
Likes picnics
Likes to clean
First to say I Love You
Listens to me
Smells good
*Doesn't lie*
Likes kids
Makes me the center of his world
Not in trouble with the law
Isn't a goody-goody
Doesn't stare at other girls
Doesn't talk to other girls more than me
Doodles our names on paper
Likes to draw
Leaves notes on my car
Let's me go out with him and his friends
Will hang out with me and my friends
Puts pictures of me in his car and wallet
Gets jealous but not too jealous
Dependable
Doesn't hang up on me
Calls me babe, sweetie, etc
Calls me cute pet names
Isn't conceited
Isn't a penny-pincher
Likes sports and going to sports events
Likes to play board games/video games and lets me win
Doesn't play mind games
Doesn't just think about sex
Cares about world issues
Doesn't make me cry
Leaves sweet voicemails/text messages on my phone
Isn't shy
Has hopes, dreams, and wishes
Not opinionated
Will watch chick flicks even if he doesn't like them
Can spell
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Master Don Juan
Didn't call you shallow Ozz, I pointed out that it is all quite natural and healthy.
Oh--the celebs posting--ouch! Never thought I'd say this, but Hollywood makeup artists are underpaid! I've seen normal girls walking down the street look better....
Oh--the celebs posting--ouch! Never thought I'd say this, but Hollywood makeup artists are underpaid! I've seen normal girls walking down the street look better....
When you wake up next to a woman and she looks as good as she did the night before, you got a keeper. That's the TRUE test of beauty.
I will never, I repeat, NEVER get seriously involved with a chick who needs warpaint in order to look presentable.
I will never, I repeat, NEVER get seriously involved with a chick who needs warpaint in order to look presentable.