Girl I'm seeing wants to participate in orgasmic meditation with a 'friend'

[channingtatum]

Dude, I'm sorry to be the one to say this, but you have two longggggg threads on this board where you ask random internet strangers on what to do with every interaction you have with a woman. Man the **** up and make decisions for yourself.

 

[MtnMan]

Hah, thanks

 

[Malcontent]

Dude, I'm sorry to be the one to say this, but you have two longggggg threads on this board where you ask random internet strangers on what to do with every interaction you have with a woman. Man the **** up and make decisions for yourself.

That's what this forum is for if I'm not mistaken. Guys come here asking for advice or to start a discussion.

 

[vinkoch]

This female really has you in a tricky spot eh? You agreed to not have sex with other females but she's not your girlfriend! Think about that and analyze this more. This makes you a candidate for the sex act because you're not romantically involved. And it wouldn't be emotionally cheating for another person to do it to her. What you do have is someone who is honest with you. If she was your girlfriend she'd be plain rude for talking about this. But she's not. You're overlooking this part.

What you need to do is consider why she wants to be sexually exclusive only. Maybe it's about std concerns and she wants to get to know you more before she's emotionally committed to you also.

I would say this to her. Since we aren't technically in a romantic relationship, I think I would be the perfect person to do the slow sex thing for you. She might just think it's cool you're understanding the boundaries and make her more bonded with you for going along with her and doing the act together without her feeling like she has to do it to be emotionally faithful when she's not quite there yet.