Guys does it ever pay to not go for the number right away? theres this girl I work with and I talked with her 3 times already each for longer and longer but I havent gone in for the number..is it ever good to play it cool for a little bit and act like you could careless or should I just go right for it? its not like im not gonna ask her out but I dont wanna be like every other guy and try jumpin her bones immediatly..because she is pretty hot so I know guys are prolly all over her so im tryin not to do that..I know sometimes this works but I also dont want her to lose interest..