I'm in a relationship with this girl and she has gone back to her country for a month for the summer. She grew up in her country and from the sound of it she was a bit of a party girl and a bit promiscuous with "badboy" boyfriends who broke her heart.
Anyway she fell really hard for me and was super clingy the whole time she was in my country and even when she was back in her country she emails me everyday. She is also really jealous and all I have to do is mention IM seeing a friend and she says "Is it female?". She's really sweet and loving and tells me she loves me all the time even though we've only been seeing each other for three months.
She goes back to her country and her ex boyfriends keep calling her. A couple of times in her country she's emailed me asking me if it is alright if she goes to a house party an ex boyfriend is throwing with her friends, or if she can see her ex boyfriend for tea in his flat. She claims they are just simple friends now and she loves them like a brother.
She is from a muslim country so men and female can't really hang out in public in the same way so everyone socialises in private houses.
But I still feel a bit uneasy. I know women and if they've been intimate with a guy in the past, she's easy to seduce if you get them alone. I myself in the past have hooked up with ex girlfriends.
I wouldn't worry so much if they were meeting in a cafe or something. But at night, in a private home or at a house party? It sounds a recipe for trouble.
Should I just play it cool and trust her? Or should I tell her that I do not think it is appropriate for her to socialise with ex boyfriends?
Anyway she fell really hard for me and was super clingy the whole time she was in my country and even when she was back in her country she emails me everyday. She is also really jealous and all I have to do is mention IM seeing a friend and she says "Is it female?". She's really sweet and loving and tells me she loves me all the time even though we've only been seeing each other for three months.
She goes back to her country and her ex boyfriends keep calling her. A couple of times in her country she's emailed me asking me if it is alright if she goes to a house party an ex boyfriend is throwing with her friends, or if she can see her ex boyfriend for tea in his flat. She claims they are just simple friends now and she loves them like a brother.
She is from a muslim country so men and female can't really hang out in public in the same way so everyone socialises in private houses.
But I still feel a bit uneasy. I know women and if they've been intimate with a guy in the past, she's easy to seduce if you get them alone. I myself in the past have hooked up with ex girlfriends.
I wouldn't worry so much if they were meeting in a cafe or something. But at night, in a private home or at a house party? It sounds a recipe for trouble.
Should I just play it cool and trust her? Or should I tell her that I do not think it is appropriate for her to socialise with ex boyfriends?