aprilia825
Don Juan
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hey all...an assist is appreciated here.
so basically, there's a place I go to on the weekends where I started casually chatting things up with a waitress several weeks ago. things started moving progressively from the casual chatting, to getting her number, to hanging out a couple times outside of when she worked, to her coming over my place one night...
now this is a place I'm at on the weekends (different town for the summer), and on the weekends she works while I'm there for fun/relaxation. There have been a few times lately that I asked her to hang out, but she was always working (understandable on the weekend...once in awhile she may be free during the day). It seemed like things weren't progressing further and stalled out. Initially, I thought it'd be too bold/creepy to ask her to come up to my neck of the woods one night during the week to hang out...plus, being at work all day, there wouldnt be much time. After awhile tho and with her not having time on the weekends to hang out outside of when I see her at her work, I threw it out there. I said I'd be in touch about getting together later in the week when she wasn't busy. Then, the other day I called, got her vm, and specifically mentioned a day and plan. No call back, even through today.
Ok so long story short here...my attitude is one of "hey either you want to see me or you don't. If so, then return my call and let's make plans, if not, let me know and I'll walk away because there's no sense in keeping this going." ....but when would be the best time to explain that, and how? Do I shoot her a text tonight/tomorrow saying that? (get it out sooner rather than later, especially if she wants to hang out this week) Do I wait until she gets back to me and say it? Or do I wait until I run into her this weekend (after the date would have happened) and tell her in person?
Any tips?
so basically, there's a place I go to on the weekends where I started casually chatting things up with a waitress several weeks ago. things started moving progressively from the casual chatting, to getting her number, to hanging out a couple times outside of when she worked, to her coming over my place one night...
now this is a place I'm at on the weekends (different town for the summer), and on the weekends she works while I'm there for fun/relaxation. There have been a few times lately that I asked her to hang out, but she was always working (understandable on the weekend...once in awhile she may be free during the day). It seemed like things weren't progressing further and stalled out. Initially, I thought it'd be too bold/creepy to ask her to come up to my neck of the woods one night during the week to hang out...plus, being at work all day, there wouldnt be much time. After awhile tho and with her not having time on the weekends to hang out outside of when I see her at her work, I threw it out there. I said I'd be in touch about getting together later in the week when she wasn't busy. Then, the other day I called, got her vm, and specifically mentioned a day and plan. No call back, even through today.
Ok so long story short here...my attitude is one of "hey either you want to see me or you don't. If so, then return my call and let's make plans, if not, let me know and I'll walk away because there's no sense in keeping this going." ....but when would be the best time to explain that, and how? Do I shoot her a text tonight/tomorrow saying that? (get it out sooner rather than later, especially if she wants to hang out this week) Do I wait until she gets back to me and say it? Or do I wait until I run into her this weekend (after the date would have happened) and tell her in person?
Any tips?