Girl dating strategy is common now

[Pierce Manhammer]

Very good post. Thanks for contributing.

'Know yourself, know your enemy' is a Sun Tzu quote. I wouldn't characterize women as an enemy either. But that's the wording he used

Very familiar with The Art of War.

 

[IamtheAlphamale]

LOL you don't want women to use girl game, you want them to be more straightforward (by women's standards)

It's really a good thing to do anyways.

Encouraging women to use girl game has a bunch of advantages :
-gets all of them to do the same thing
-you can learn their game and and adapt to the unfolding situation better
-they learn to respect themselves and will probably have way better lives because of you
-they associate you with feelings of confidence and have high regard for you because you helped them
-in a group setting they talk to eachother about this new ideology they all have and about how great of a guy you are for caring about their wellbeing and making all of them more confident

 

[IamtheAlphamale]

Very familiar with The Art of War.

If you like the art of war, you should try 'the seven military classics of ancient China.'

 

[BillyPilgrim]

It's really a good thing to do anyways.

Encouraging women to use girl game has a bunch of advantages :
-gets all of them to do the same thing
-you can learn their game and and adapt to the unfolding situation better
-they learn to respect themselves and will probably have way better lives because of you
-they associate you with feelings of confidence and have high regard for you because you helped them
-in a group setting they talk to eachother about this new ideology they all have and about how great of a guy you are for caring about their wellbeing and making all of them more confident

You want them to engage in flirting, you don't want them heavily bsing you.

Maybe you're defining "girl game" differently.

 

[IamtheAlphamale]

The way I'm using girl game is : we use pickup, they use girl game.

Mad flirting. The goal is for girls to have positive emotions associated with you. You to be super strong. Realize they will network. Everyday things fluctuate, so keep frame. It's very effective for increasing your social status

 

[kavi]

Theres lots of things in female game. Females have game since they are young. One thing is that when most start relations of any kind begin men normally are only given a short window when to make things happen or they lost their chance. This is a form of girl game to make the guy move quickly and thus accepting a more beta and weak position that comes from scarcity. This is how many relationships start. Once the relationship starts with the man on weak-footing it can get to a point of marriage and then kids before the woman changes tactics and brings up his flaws cos now she cant be asked to manipulate him any more as he has been in a weaker position since the beginning and it all starts with that first acceptance

 

[pranshu]

Yup. That's one of the sites that they have which is basically the same type of thing as this site.

Except that their movement is built on causing as much stress as possible in order to increase attraction (emotional abuse).

They also have a book which sold millions of copies called 'why men love bitches' which says to no show on a man in crummy weather and have him waiting for you in the rain so that he gets sick. So men have most likely died from this use of biological warfare.

I'm just including this so that if the media comes after sosuave this specific message will draw attention.

You can not be emotionally or financially abused unless YOU ALLOW women to do so..
The tactics you mentioned in this post are basic and cliche compliance **** tests..nothing new about them and all women naturally use them to test your mindset and masculinity.
BREAKING NEWS: Dogs barks and water is wet..

 

[pranshu]

Theres lots of things in female game. Females have game since they are young. One thing is that when most start relations of any kind begin men normally are only given a short window when to make things happen or they lost their chance. This is a form of girl game to make the guy move quickly and thus accepting a more beta and weak position that comes from scarcity. This is how many relationships start. Once the relationship starts with the man on weak-footing it can get to a point of marriage and then kids before the woman changes tactics and brings up his flaws cos now she cant be asked to manipulate him any more as he has been in a weaker position since the beginning and it all starts with that first acceptance

lol..bro..you just perfectly described Indian dating scene and arranged marriages..most of the men who have a gf in India are basically pet dogs of their gf

 

[IamtheAlphamale]

You can not be emotionally or financially abused unless YOU ALLOW women to do so..
The tactics you mentioned in this post are basic and cliche compliance **** tests..nothing new about them and all women naturally use them to test your mindset and masculinity.
BREAKING NEWS: Dogs barks and water is wet..

Move along please

 

[IamtheAlphamale]

Theres lots of things in female game. Females have game since they are young. One thing is that when most start relations of any kind begin men normally are only given a short window when to make things happen or they lost their chance. This is a form of girl game to make the guy move quickly and thus accepting a more beta and weak position that comes from scarcity. This is how many relationships start. Once the relationship starts with the man on weak-footing it can get to a point of marriage and then kids before the woman changes tactics and brings up his flaws cos now she cant be asked to manipulate him any more as he has been in a weaker position since the beginning and it all starts with that first acceptance

The interesting thing is that if you have a cold approach then you have to move fast. But if your interaction is assured, I find it's much better to move very slowly and take your time building your position.

Even if you make a move and get rejected, all you have to do is sit back, build and wait for a while.

Most of pickup is built for cold approach.

This is an interesting thread. Thanks for contributing

 

[kavi]

lol..bro..you just perfectly described Indian dating scene and arranged marriages..most of the men who have a gf in India are basically pet dogs of their gf

lol bro u perfectly described the dating scene in the west most men who have gfs are pet dogs of their gf lol

 

[pranshu]

lol bro u perfectly described the dating scene in the west most men who have gfs are pet dogs of their gf lol

I mean India is the only country I have lived in and whose dating and marriage system I understand..I don't know anything about west for sure..That's why only commented about our scenario

 

[member162951]

Push-Pull is the single most dangerous and toxic strategy in women's FDS handbook. Pull you close (lovebombing), Push you away (distancing). Similar to what @BillyPilgrim wrote. It will cause any independent self-sufficient man to succumb to levels of stress he'd never seen before.

I don't recall where I read this, I think it was Heartiste years ago, that for women Push-Pull is employed subconsciously meaning not necessarily a game. It's part of their female nature being fickle, changeable, unpredictable often times unstable creatures.

This is why it's so toxic, it done with such finesse, men have no clue how to respond to it. If it was a clear game and done for the purpose of driving men to stress, men would know how to deal, but it's not, it's part if their female nature.

Heartiste wrote men employ the same strategy but its intentional, a byproduct of game. Many savvy women have become hip to it and will either up the ante or otherwise not let if affect them.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Push-Pull is the single most dangerous and toxic strategy in women's FDS handbook. Pull you close (lovebombing), Push you away (distancing). Similar to what @BillyPilgrim wrote. It will cause any independent self-sufficient man to succumb to levels of stress he'd never seen before.

I don't recall where I read this, I think it was Heartiste years ago, that for women Push-Pull is employed subconsciously meaning not necessarily a game. It's part of their female nature being fickle, changeable, unpredictable often times unstable creatures.

This is why it's so toxic, it done with such finesse, men have no clue how to respond to it. If it was a clear game and done for the purpose of driving men to stress, men would know how to deal, but it's not, it's part if their female nature.

Heartiste wrote men employ the same strategy but its intentional, a byproduct of game. Many savvy women have become hip to it and will either up the ante or otherwise not let if affect them.

This is where having a consistent, semi-templated seduction process can help. Over time you get a feel for how a truly high-interest and woman will behave. From past experience, you know how successfully phucked woman have responded at each stage of the process, and how the "pretenders" usually behave during the process. Now it's not going to typically be clear cut and black/white, but you can get a good feel for how close to the two archetypes each new prospect is as she goes through your seduction process.

 

[IamtheAlphamale]

Push-Pull is the single most dangerous and toxic strategy in women's FDS handbook. Pull you close (lovebombing), Push you away (distancing). Similar to what @BillyPilgrim wrote. It will cause any independent self-sufficient man to succumb to levels of stress he'd never seen before.

I don't recall where I read this, I think it was Heartiste years ago, that for women Push-Pull is employed subconsciously meaning not necessarily a game. It's part of their female nature being fickle, changeable, unpredictable often times unstable creatures.

This is why it's so toxic, it done with such finesse, men have no clue how to respond to it. If it was a clear game and done for the purpose of driving men to stress, men would know how to deal, but it's not, it's part if their female nature.

Heartiste wrote men employ the same strategy but its intentional, a byproduct of game. Many savvy women have become hip to it and will either up the ante or otherwise not let if affect them.

Thanks for that. That's a really great contribution

I didn't know they were using that

 

[IamtheAlphamale]

This is where having a consistent, semi-templated seduction process can help. Over time you get a feel for how a truly high-interest and woman will behave. From past experience, you know how successfully phucked woman have responded at each stage of the process, and how the "pretenders" usually behave during the process. Now it's not going to typically be clear cut and black/white, but you can get a good feel for how close to the two archetypes each new prospect is as she goes through your seduction process.

You should give tips about how you tell the difference more. Thanks for your contributions btw

 

[BillyPilgrim]

You should give tips about how you tell the difference more. Thanks for your contributions btw

Collect lines and moves that you know work for you, and assemble them into a structured process. The deets you have to work out yourself as each dude is unique. But you can start with adapted tinder openers, and use the same innuendos, c/f lines, dhv stories, etc. You want to start with something slightly edgy to set the tone and to weed out the lukewarm women from the get go.

 

[IamtheAlphamale]

Collect lines and moves that you know work for you, and assemble them into a structured process. The deets you have to work out yourself as each dude is unique. But you can start with adapted tinder openers, and use the same innuendos, c/f lines, dhv stories, etc. You want to start with something slightly edgy to set the tone and to weed out the lukewarm women from the get go.

Awesome man.

 

[evan12]

In my openions here is what is work now aday
1- Max your look as much as you can, it will make all other points more easy.
2- You are expected to have hair on your head, and some basic tuned body.
3- Do not run after women, women are watching you, and trying to see how much you are thirsty for women. However choose your one like eagles and go to that one only, if it fails keep fyling high again.
4- Don't try to show off, remember this girl might be last nigh with MMA player or F1 driver, so nothing you do will impress her and you will come as silly and naïve.
5- Don't show negatives and don't be honest, be like the sales person who only talks about positives.
6- Dont move faster than she is moving , it is another indicator you are thirsty, remember women never idle, and they assume you have at least one women, otherwise you are a loser.
7- Let your actions show you have an abundance of women , but never talk about that.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

6a - if she's moving too slow, sh1t test her for compliance and cut bait if she fails