Girl dating strategy is common now

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The amount of "stress" they can inflict on a guy without him checking out is proportional to their looks and his age/libido.

Most men given a certain amount of stress from a women will move on and given a certain amount of stress from women in general will push them to check out completly.

Whatever their strategy is regarding that, they better calibrate precisely given the fact that they already chase a small number of men with plenty of options that are already unwilling to commit to them even with the added stress.

Also the social byproduct of many men checking out are those women beated from weirdos on the subway while men around pretend to have hearphones and not to hear.
 

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Please enlighten me how a female games a guy like me! Lol. I don't get it.
 

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Please enlighten me how a female games a guy like me! Lol. I don't get it.
Love bombing about how great a prospect you are, how much you and she have in common, taking actions that a reasonable person would presume would lead to sex, and then unreasonably delaying actions directly leading to sex/sex itself.

But if it doesn't work out, it's on YOU for making bad choices or lacking game, according to some posters here (and screening them out is somehow bad).
 

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simple: amused mastery. “Girl game noted. Good try.” And give them the smirk.

Makes the hamster hit the wheel HARD. Say nothing else - they abhor silence and be forced to go off script. Try it.

They are not the enemy. Personally I LOVE women, they’re fascinating creatures. Use dating as a laboratory- try different things, learn to recognize patterns. learn to counter them. Trial and error- each one has its nuances. Gray seducirá have one thing in common: the ability to think creatively and reason in chaos. Women are like exotic pets, they require attentiveness and special feeding.

I remember years ago when I was dating a lot of chicks the moment I realized I could simply do certain things to illicit predetermined reactions, it was an eye opener. I did it enough times with enough women to prove that it worked most ones with most women. It gave me control and took me from feeling like I was a victim to near god mode.

You do however have to give her something she wants that no one else has, it up to you to figure out what that thing is.

Float like a Cadillac and sting like a Beemer.
Very good post. Thanks for contributing.

'Know yourself, know your enemy' is a Sun Tzu quote. I wouldn't characterize women as an enemy either. But that's the wording he used
 

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Love bombing about how great a prospect you are, how much you and she have in common, taking actions that a reasonable person would presume would lead to sex, and then unreasonably delaying actions directly leading to sex/sex itself.

But if it doesn't work out, it's on YOU for making bad choices or lacking game, according to some posters here (and screening them out is somehow bad).
The whole screening thing is now complicated by girl game.

Women have sh1t tests for us. And we have different tests for them. And they give us information to pass our tests that they have worked on as a community.
 

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simple: amused mastery. “Girl game noted. Good try.” And give them the smirk.

Makes the hamster hit the wheel HARD. Say nothing else - they abhor silence and be forced to go off script. Try it.

They are not the enemy. Personally I LOVE women, they’re fascinating creatures. Use dating as a laboratory- try different things, learn to recognize patterns. learn to counter them. Trial and error- each one has its nuances. Gray seducirá have one thing in common: the ability to think creatively and reason in chaos. Women are like exotic pets, they require attentiveness and special feeding.

I remember years ago when I was dating a lot of chicks the moment I realized I could simply do certain things to illicit predetermined reactions, it was an eye opener. I did it enough times with enough women to prove that it worked most ones with most women. It gave me control and took me from feeling like I was a victim to near god mode.

You do however have to give her something she wants that no one else has, it up to you to figure out what that thing is.

Float like a Cadillac and sting like a Beemer.
Women who use a lot of girl game are indeed the enemy. The rest are cool though.
 

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Thats the point of this thread. Let's figure it out together
You can't they use different types of game for 40+ men. If you are a 20-something guy it's going to be different from their end.

Edit - just saw your post date. Might be useful to list your age in a thread like this. I'm 40+
 

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The whole screening thing is now complicated by girl game.

Women have sh1t tests for us. And we have different tests for them. And they give us information to pass our tests that they have worked on as a community.
You got to learn to read the signs. Look back over past interactions with girls who were dtf women who pretended to be dtf. Learn what the differences are. There are subtle cues that give them away, but it takes a little time to learn them.
 

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I think their main strategy is to sit on their asses and wait for men to do all the work. As far as I can see in the last 50 years that hasn't changed.
tbf, The Manipulated Man came out over 50 years ago, based on pre-feminist gender roles

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More ass-sitting now these days though judging by their sizes
 

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The amount of "stress" they can inflict on a guy without him checking out is proportional to their looks and his age/libido.

Most men given a certain amount of stress from a women will move on and given a certain amount of stress from women in general will push them to check out completly.

Whatever their strategy is regarding that, they better calibrate precisely given the fact that they already chase a small number of men with plenty of options that are already unwilling to commit to them even with the added stress.

Also the social byproduct of many men checking out are those women beated from weirdos on the subway while men around pretend to have hearphones and not to hear.
It's actually an interesting psychological aspect. When we, men, get stress from something, we want to fix it.

So basically women inflict a stress moment, and our subconscious tries to fix the situation. That makes us chase them.

Yes, they are only interested in a small number of men, but the internet distorts their perception. Making them think they have more options than they do. That's probably why so many women end up not in relationships.

But being rejected is not rejection in many cases. If you deal with the rejection in an attractive way it will increase her attraction. But many women do it because they want you to chase them.

So this is a big area we should be focusing on.
 

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You can't they use different types of game for 40+ men. If you are a 20-something guy it's going to be different from their end.

Edit - just saw your post date. Might be useful to list your age in a thread like this. I'm 40+
I'm 40.

I work at a factory and I'm getting all the women to use this girl game.

So I'm working like 25 girls between the ages of 19 and 35, and it is going amazingly
 

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You got to learn to read the signs. Look back over past interactions with girls who were dtf women who pretended to be dtf. Learn what the differences are. There are subtle cues that give them away, but it takes a little time to learn them.
Agreed. Thanks for contributing.

You should list some ways you screen to help the community
 

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Agreed. Thanks for contributing.

You should list some ways you screen to help the community
Generally kino if you're face-to-face, sexual flirtation if you're over text/phone. Having a script if you use OLD that you can use to compare how successfully phucked women and pretenders behave over various stages of the interaction. Pattern recognition in OLD profiles in how they present themselves.
 

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I'm 40.

I work at a factory and I'm getting all the women to use this girl game.

So I'm working like 25 girls between the ages of 19 and 35, and it is going amazingly
LOL you don't want women to use girl game, you want them to be more straightforward (by women's standards)
 

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I think their main strategy is to sit on their asses and wait for men to do all the work. As far as I can see in the last 50 years that hasn't changed.
Their strategy is incredibly different than ours, agreed.
 
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