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Master Don Juan
My gf of 10 months is studying abroad in Italy until December.
Our relationship has had ups and downs, but I've learned an incredible amount about myself with her and understand her more than ever.
I'm 19 (she's 21), and have had plenty of relatioships in the past. I've had sex with over 15 girls, have dated countless numbers, and have had a couple long-term relationships. I'm saying this not to boast but to illustrate the fact that I'm not just with this girl because of immature infatuation.
Anyway, she's been totally faithful with me for the past 10 months. I took her virginity about 3 months after dating her. I'm a fairly particular judge of character, and I will truly call her a good girl. She's totally sweet to me, and is "true."
She has limitations, boundaries, and morals that I may not have (but I'm more of a rebel anyway), but I accept them, and even respect them, despite the fact that I could refute them, at least in my mind.
Over the past 10 months, I've fallen in love with her, and she has fallen in love with me. I use to disdain the idea of love and even mock those who claimed to be caught in it, but that's because I never understood it. I pushed away from it, dated other girls during the 10 months in order to "avoid" it, but eventually found this in vain. This is a girl who I care enough about to actually accept it. I spent a whole week with her before she left at her family's home in the East, and had one of the best weeks of my life.
But she's leaving until December, and I already miss her a lot. Some might ask if my concern is her cheating on me. The answer is no. I know the quality of man I am, and the depths of passion and respect she feels towards me. The question of whether she will cheat on me is, quite frankly, irrelevant. I neither fear nor worry about it. Obviously, you are always vulnerable when you truly love a girl, but the vulnerability goes deeper than her just cheating on you.
Despite all of that, I still do feel a bit depressed about her not being here. I would love to here opinions and thoughts from guys who have been or who are in a similair situation to mine. What were your thoughts? How did you handle not having her around for so long (for me, three months)? What sorts of things did you learn from the experience?
Our relationship has had ups and downs, but I've learned an incredible amount about myself with her and understand her more than ever.
I'm 19 (she's 21), and have had plenty of relatioships in the past. I've had sex with over 15 girls, have dated countless numbers, and have had a couple long-term relationships. I'm saying this not to boast but to illustrate the fact that I'm not just with this girl because of immature infatuation.
Anyway, she's been totally faithful with me for the past 10 months. I took her virginity about 3 months after dating her. I'm a fairly particular judge of character, and I will truly call her a good girl. She's totally sweet to me, and is "true."
She has limitations, boundaries, and morals that I may not have (but I'm more of a rebel anyway), but I accept them, and even respect them, despite the fact that I could refute them, at least in my mind.
Over the past 10 months, I've fallen in love with her, and she has fallen in love with me. I use to disdain the idea of love and even mock those who claimed to be caught in it, but that's because I never understood it. I pushed away from it, dated other girls during the 10 months in order to "avoid" it, but eventually found this in vain. This is a girl who I care enough about to actually accept it. I spent a whole week with her before she left at her family's home in the East, and had one of the best weeks of my life.
But she's leaving until December, and I already miss her a lot. Some might ask if my concern is her cheating on me. The answer is no. I know the quality of man I am, and the depths of passion and respect she feels towards me. The question of whether she will cheat on me is, quite frankly, irrelevant. I neither fear nor worry about it. Obviously, you are always vulnerable when you truly love a girl, but the vulnerability goes deeper than her just cheating on you.
Despite all of that, I still do feel a bit depressed about her not being here. I would love to here opinions and thoughts from guys who have been or who are in a similair situation to mine. What were your thoughts? How did you handle not having her around for so long (for me, three months)? What sorts of things did you learn from the experience?
