OK. Dude!
I think youre cool guy and like your posts and your feedback when I post SO I will be 100% honest ,like when I inject peoples mouth to numb them its gonna hurt but after wards you'll be better than before.
Im giving you my opinion on my mistakes and this is something I had gone through when I was tooled and married!
First mistake you know your boy is ALpha player guy OK.
it was wrong to introduce your GF to this guy cause you know he has game and you tell him everything and you tell your GF about him and women are attracted by social proof, so you are in social proof game,
which for me is difficult to avoid this unless you dont expose her or your boy in your private life, BOUNDARIES ! for yourself and loved ones. OK
It sounds you are good friend a cool guy , I apprecaite sharing this intersting story.
But knowing your boy and knowing psycology of women is like ........running your game in a death trap or booby trap field, like Rambo movie , gory as hell !
you can come alive but you can accidentally stand on a bomb and instanly die!
Why I say it so strongly , OK cause you have to realize that you put yourself in that position, have borders in your life have different friends. He's scum but use him to learn what he knows about gaming and managing stuff if you are stiil his boy, but you put yourself and exposed that since you didnt determine boundaries.
Well your boy is being your boy by ****ing her , so isnt your boy. I would NEVER go **** your girl , dude.
I suggest this to be a lesson for you to go out and game other girls and get good !
GO OUT W HER FRIENDS and try to **** em'
ALSO read more on female psycology.
Forget your boy and act like you dont care if he ever mentions it.
if other guys in your social cirlce know about it your value goes down and down the drain but you can act distracted when they talk about it . If they are willing to help you it depends you want to show you are defenseless and that way you **** her.
Dont qualify yourself trust me , I did and it doesnt come off congruent as you are about to show them that you are not only better person but you respect and love yourself.
Find another girl fast go out like crazy followup and prepare yourself to free yourself from oneittis and read the post which I posted how overcome GF, you are still with her she is acting different but prepare yourself mentally to lose her and break rapport run jeaolus plot lines and **** her up mentally by playing with her head and being a this jerk and watch how obsessed she will become.
read this :
http://www.amazon.com/33-Strategies-War-Robert-Greene/dp/0670034576
use war mentality and you will win this tough situations like this :
... it says that the way you know who will win a war is in the mind , so you dont have to go beat him up or beat her up you can punish her with her own mind.
Give her own taste of the MEDICINE.
you do this she'll be back ,that what works .LoL
I disagree you getting ain a rage of beating up guys who sleep with your GF cause you will go to jail dude and not worth it!
other guys here suggest ****ing her friends all her friends and start with fatty go up one up to the hottest one.
THIS WORKS !!! DEFINATELY
about your relationship status dont talk about it with her NEVER !!!!
,LET her come to you to talk about it !!!
NOTE: NO GIRL WILL TELL YOU SHE DIDNT SLEEP WITH UR BOY! SHE "LL NEVER TELL YOU IF SHE DOES SHE DOESNT HAVE ANY SHAME WHATSOEVER.
acted like you know somethings up but dont talk about it yet timing is key here who wins, you mix her emotions like a rollercaoster like jerks do and she'll be obssesd.
At this point NOW to make her change her mind about you is hard, she sees you as BF material not lover material.
you can change her feelings but its not gonna be easy you wiil have to work to set the stage for whats to come.