GF possibly sleeping with best friend?

StevenR

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What would you do if you were in this scenario. A close buddy of yours is a natural DJ. He is a master at spinning plates and usually has at least three going at once. He has a main girlfriend he is not really serious about as well as a couple of other women he is sleeping with on the side. This primary girlfriend is very jealous and suspect he is cheating on her, in fact she pretty much knows he does but she f**ks him anyway. She doesn't like it but for some reason she stays with him.
You start dating a woman who you meet on your own, but she becomes your girlfriend and of course she gets to know your friend, including senior Don Juan.
You have a falling out with Don Juan because he owes you some money you let him borrow and he doesn't pay you back, and you fight about some other trivial things, so you are not getting along with him very well at the moment.
One day, out of the blue, his primary girlfriend calls you up and says that she suspects Don Juan and your girlfriend are having sex. What do you do at this point? To sum it up, one of your buddies plates calls you up and tells you YOUR girlfriend is cheating with him.
 

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Wow. Bang his girl, I guess. Then bang on him.

Unless his GF is a compulsive liar, I would take it VERY seriously. There is a reason she said that. Find out more info before confronting her about it. Why does other chick think this exactly? Specifics.

Your GF shouldnt be having any contact with that dude at all. If she is, I garuantee she's fvcking him.
 

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Your so called friend has sociopath (narcissism) tendencies. These kind of friends are not so great to have. They would cut your heart out if they felt like it would benefit them And they wouldn't get caught.
 

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yeah man i would try and get more info on this issue, also if it is true i would definatly bang HIS girl, video tape it, show it to him, and then woop his ass but you have to be 100% sure that this is going on.
 

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OK. Dude!

I think youre cool guy and like your posts and your feedback when I post SO I will be 100% honest ,like when I inject peoples mouth to numb them its gonna hurt but after wards you'll be better than before.

Im giving you my opinion on my mistakes and this is something I had gone through when I was tooled and married!

First mistake you know your boy is ALpha player guy OK.
it was wrong to introduce your GF to this guy cause you know he has game and you tell him everything and you tell your GF about him and women are attracted by social proof, so you are in social proof game,

which for me is difficult to avoid this unless you dont expose her or your boy in your private life, BOUNDARIES ! for yourself and loved ones. OK

It sounds you are good friend a cool guy , I apprecaite sharing this intersting story.

But knowing your boy and knowing psycology of women is like ........running your game in a death trap or booby trap field, like Rambo movie , gory as hell !

you can come alive but you can accidentally stand on a bomb and instanly die!

Why I say it so strongly , OK cause you have to realize that you put yourself in that position, have borders in your life have different friends. He's scum but use him to learn what he knows about gaming and managing stuff if you are stiil his boy, but you put yourself and exposed that since you didnt determine boundaries.


Well your boy is being your boy by ****ing her , so isnt your boy. I would NEVER go **** your girl , dude.

I suggest this to be a lesson for you to go out and game other girls and get good !
GO OUT W HER FRIENDS and try to **** em'
ALSO read more on female psycology.


Forget your boy and act like you dont care if he ever mentions it.

if other guys in your social cirlce know about it your value goes down and down the drain but you can act distracted when they talk about it . If they are willing to help you it depends you want to show you are defenseless and that way you **** her.

Dont qualify yourself trust me , I did and it doesnt come off congruent as you are about to show them that you are not only better person but you respect and love yourself.

Find another girl fast go out like crazy followup and prepare yourself to free yourself from oneittis and read the post which I posted how overcome GF, you are still with her she is acting different but prepare yourself mentally to lose her and break rapport run jeaolus plot lines and **** her up mentally by playing with her head and being a this jerk and watch how obsessed she will become.

read this :http://www.amazon.com/33-Strategies-War-Robert-Greene/dp/0670034576

use war mentality and you will win this tough situations like this :

... it says that the way you know who will win a war is in the mind , so you dont have to go beat him up or beat her up you can punish her with her own mind.

Give her own taste of the MEDICINE.

you do this she'll be back ,that what works .LoL

I disagree you getting ain a rage of beating up guys who sleep with your GF cause you will go to jail dude and not worth it!

other guys here suggest ****ing her friends all her friends and start with fatty go up one up to the hottest one.
THIS WORKS !!! DEFINATELY

about your relationship status dont talk about it with her NEVER !!!!

,LET her come to you to talk about it !!!

NOTE: NO GIRL WILL TELL YOU SHE DIDNT SLEEP WITH UR BOY! SHE "LL NEVER TELL YOU IF SHE DOES SHE DOESNT HAVE ANY SHAME WHATSOEVER.

acted like you know somethings up but dont talk about it yet timing is key here who wins, you mix her emotions like a rollercaoster like jerks do and she'll be obssesd.


At this point NOW to make her change her mind about you is hard, she sees you as BF material not lover material.

you can change her feelings but its not gonna be easy you wiil have to work to set the stage for whats to come.
 
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get proof before you do anything. jealous hoes will lie. The question is who do you trust? His girl,your girl or your own eyes and guts? Play detective. Get proof.
 

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Agree with PE but yeah it all does come down to how well you know your friend's girl and how trustworthy you judge her to be.

Also I am completely serious when I tell you it might be a good idea for you to proposition her to help you get a little revenge on both of your significant others by fvcking eachother's brains out.

Hey, it can't hurt!
 

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my post was long SORRY .

I agree w Kontroller X

**** all her friends , Ive seen player chicks become more obsesd when they are played themselves. their emotionaly invested plus make up sex is awesome.
 

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Before this chick told you this, were there any other signs, or gut feelings? What is your opinion about your girl? How long have you been together? Need more info.

It'd be a pretty sweet move to dump her for some other girl, before she knows why you're doing it. Even better to not ever tell her why you dumped her. That would fvck with her mind. Assuming she is cheating, anyway, which seems pretty likely.

I just thought of something else: The next time you and gf are hanging out, laugh and say you heard (your ex buddy) caught herpes, and watch her reaction. Also think about getting this book called "never be lied to again" by David Leiberman. It show ways of getting the truth out of someone without them knowing it.
 

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horaholic said:
The next time you and gf are hanging out, laugh and say you heard (your ex buddy) caught herpes, and watch her reaction.
That is just priceless :up: :p
 

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I just thought of something else: The next time you and gf are hanging out, laugh and say you heard (your ex buddy) caught herpes, and watch her reaction. Also think about getting this book called "never be lied to again" by David Leiberman. It show ways of getting the truth out of someone without them knowing it.
Yeah, this is what I should have done. I put this as a "what if" because it did happen to me, but not recently, it is what precipitated the breakup of me and my first real girlfriend. I feel I did not handle it very well at the time. My "friend" insisted that he never slept with her, that he would not do that to a friend. I am not sure about the integrity of his girlfriend either. My former girlfriend turned out to most likely be have full blown BPD, she played all sorts of mind games with me and I learned that she could not be trusted. This guy recently contacted me recently and seems to want to be friends again, and he still insists he never slept with her. I don't know what to believe.
 

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Dude Im glad its over cause the guys that are posting here have awesome ideas !

Horaholic, HTF? you came up with funny sh!t like that? Mad PROPS to you man!

anyways , you can forgive but try to move past that,he might anchor distrust when you see him, I would go with your gut instinct on this one.

Since you felt she cheated,I bet she did.
Hell I would have told you : "hey Steve, Im sorry it happened man ...
but she is a dumb ass ***** and I was drunk , rememeber Bro's before Ho's."

If he is still not honest ,then **** him. this ass hole is a taker, I hate people who are like that.


you dont need the guy just have him pay you back that money he owes you.
 

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I wasn't just trying to be funny, actually. I got the idea for the herpes thing out of that never be lied to book. I was trying to find an example for the op.

It would have been the perfect way to find out the truth. If the chick fvcked the guy, and you said that, you could judge her reaction. Also, the second she was alone, she would be calling the other guy asking WTF. The other guy would then immediately call you asking why you're talking shyt. That would be proof, if you ask me. If she didnt fvck him, she wouldn't have a reason to go straight to him so fast. Then, continue spreading the rumors for revenge.
 

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I'm a lil confused. You say your gf is sleeping with another guy? Or one of his plates is just saying that? If the first question I asked is correct than dump the b!tch.
 

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
I'm a lil confused. You say your gf is sleeping with another guy? Or one of his plates is just saying that? If the first question I asked is correct than dump the b!tch.
The second of the two, one of his plates said that
 

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Well...

If you want to keep ****ing your girlfriend keep doing that but just **** her and leave. Start looking for other plates and just don't be exclusive with her anymore. As far as your friend goes, he obviously was trying to get at you with ****ing your girl. If it was me I wouldn't do a damn thing to the guy. I would just realise the reality that he is now your enemy. Realise that enemies can be used more beneficially then friends many times. Just know in the future if you ever need certain agendas filled contemplate how to use your newly found enemy to help you fill that agenda.

So:

No more girlfriend
Dude is now your enemy
 
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