Gf making me weak

Thebestthereeveris

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She’s too soft too feminine wants cuddles and kisses all the ****ing time and it’s making me lose my masculine edge. Should I just dump this b1tch? I honestly hate what she’s doing to my body and my soul.
 
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That's what she'll do. It's on you to turn it around. She gives affection; you make it sexual. Take control. It sounds like you're letting her have the control.
 

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That's what she'll do. It's on you to turn it around. She gives affection; you make it sexual. Take control. It sounds like you're letting her have the control.
I can Fock her whenever I wants she wants sex more than me but honestly I’d rather work and workout and become better. She’s just dragging me down. The easy answer is break up with her but she’s almost exactly what every red piller says is ideal. Submissive sexual obedient doesn’t drink smoke party or dress promoscuous
 

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“Dump this *****”. That tells me you don’t like your gf. You probably should.
Got to make sure your not an incel (not saying you are one) before you give me advice. Misery loves company. I know this posts will inspires who don’t get laid to say break up cause they don’t want anyone in a relationship if they can’t have one. Srs answers only.
 

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She sounds more possessive than submissive tbh. Sounds like an undeclared frame battle. She wants to betaize you on some level.
 

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She sounds more possessive than submissive tbh. Sounds like an undeclared frame battle. She wants to betaize you on some level.
She’s not she does exactly as I say and I don’t do a thing she wants me to do. I’ve been with enough women to point out possessive vs submissive. Every girl has jealous of other girls in them. But it’s about how overt. I told her I’m not seeing her for a month and she said ok. I want guys over 30+ with experience with women both ONS and relationships.
 

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She’s not she does exactly as I say and I don’t do a thing she wants me to do. I’ve been with enough women to point out possessive vs submissive. Every girl has jealous of other girls in them. But it’s about how overt. I told her I’m not seeing her for a month and she said ok. I want guys over 30+ with experience with women both ONS and relationships.
You guys have preferred styles of intimacy that are different. Or, she is exposing something to yourself you either didn't know about or quite don't like. Maybe subconscious vulnerability. Did she display this intimacy style early on, or did she change it? Were you comfortable with this style early on?
 

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OP, you're trying too hard not to be like your Dad. Don't let this affect your relationships. Since it is, seek therapy.

The fact that your screen name is what it is and are repeatedly requesting only "slayers" to respond in this thread speaks very loudly to this.


All the lifting in the world ain't going to solve this. Find another way to cope.
 

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What is wrong with a girl wanting to cuddle up and be affectionate with her man? like...what?
 

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OP, you're trying too hard not to be like your Dad. Don't let this affect your relationships. Since it is, seek therapy.

The fact that your screen name is what it is and are repeatedly requesting only "slayers" to respond in this thread speaks very loudly to this.


All the lifting in the world ain't going to solve this. Find another way to cope.
lmao the username is absurd i made this account in a different time of my life. My relationship with my dad is fixed and i let go of the anger I had for him. I only requested slayers becaues lets be ****ing honest most guys who say break up and stay single are incels wanting people to feel their pain. And the internet forum is the best place for cappers its rare to meet someone who has genuine real experience both with one night stands, cold approach, social circle, and long term relatinoships.
 

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Bro, cause you like masculine girls who treat you like $hit, that's what you're craving, who dangle the sex carrot but never give it, that's what you're used to get, your mind is experiencing a new thing and you're conflicted. Get therapy.
You guys have preferred styles of intimacy that are different. Or, she is exposing something to yourself you either didn't know about or quite don't like. Maybe subconscious vulnerability. Did she display this intimacy style early on, or did she change it? Were you comfortable with this style early on?
yes shes always been affectionate but lately its been crazy. Honestly im super lucky for this girl as Ive been with enough women to know how fvcking rare her mindset is. I just dont want to lose my edge and ability to push in life.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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yes shes always been affectionate but lately its been crazy. Honestly im super lucky for this girl as Ive been with enough women to know how fvcking rare her mindset is. I just dont want to lose my edge and ability to push in life.
I got ya man. You win the lottery, the tendency is to lose the edge. If she's making you feel too comfortable, you're prob best off cutting back, remembering most things in life are temporary.

Stay hungry, my friend.
 

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I love cuddles, get her to massage your feet, hands, shoulders, back etc
 

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This is a first—someone losing their masculinity due to his woman's affection towards him. If her affection is making you "weak", the problem isn't her but rather you.

A man should be able to receive affection and still be a man. And likewise, be able to reciprocate and still be a man.

Anyway, all you needed to hear from the members of this forum was said by @jaymbrs.
 

Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.

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