Gf is crazy literally

[wifehunter]

 

[devilkingx2]

If she seems untrustworthy, that's because she is.

even if OP is just paranoid?

 

[MillionBillionaire]

LoL judging by the first page, OP is beyond hope.

 

[Red Legg]

lol shes not loyal bro

Loyal???? Bwahaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

 

[phil2015]

even if OP is just paranoid?

Good point devilkingx2.

This woman is clearly unstable and has already been violent, she is not going to get better.
If he's paranoid or not, which he sounds (scarcity mindset) it only adds to the chaos.

Either way the situation is totally fcked

 

[phil2015]

has shown no signs of being a reliable potential mother of my kids.

OP think about what has come from your own mouth. Digest your thoughts

Women who are controlling in nature will try anything, including getting pregnant/forgetting her pill/poking holes etc if she wants to 'keep you'

Weigh up the odds.......

Don't fool yourself

I know she's loyal.....and loyalty is hard to find so i stick around.

You describe her as narcissistic in your first post.

From personal experience I can tell you narcissists are never loyal. Guaranteed she will have someone lined up for when things go wrong between you. 100%. I wouldn't of believed this either until it actually happened to me.

Not meaning to be harsh, just trying to save you the pain I went through

 

[captain55]

OP think about what has come from your own mouth. Digest your thoughts

Women who are controlling in nature will try anything, including getting pregnant/forgetting her pill/poking holes etc if she wants to 'keep you'

Weigh up the odds.......

Don't fool yourself




You describe her as narcissistic in your first post.

From personal experience I can tell you narcissists are never loyal. Guaranteed she will have someone lined up for when things go wrong between you. 100%. I wouldn't of believed this either until it actually happened to me.

Not meaning to be harsh, just trying to save you the pain I went through

explain this to me though.....I've punished this girl by using her for sex and walking out just to **** with her head, I cut off all romantic dates and cancelled my planned vacations with her, I don't even pay for her drinks or dinner anymore. I told her I'll take you on a date when you deserve it....and She still clings to me, cooks for me, and ****s me whenever I want.

I don't think most hot women would put up with a man that does so little for her unless they were truly sorry for their behavior and in love with them. I would never put so little effort into a woman that was good to me obviously. I was good to her and she ****ed up by being violent with me. After that's I checked out emotionally, so the past six months I've emotionally checked out and she still is holding on. That's why the cheating wouldn't line up. Tons of dudes willing to do way more for her as a man than I'm doing now. I think I am subconsciously trying to push her away since I know she's terrible for me. It didn't work though, she's still putting in the effort...she just can't help her drinking issues. I'm convinced she wants to change but can't. if she didn't care I feel like she would of left by now.

She's also still trying to get me to move back in with her. Shen would be able to cheat much easier now with me not living there so it doesn't make sense if she wanted to **** around.

I do think violence is just as bad as cheating though, not justifying her behavior. Just saying loyalty isn't my concern with this chick.

 

[exhausted]

Yes. The only things she brings to the table are sex and she's a loyal chick. She gets violent and crazy when she drinks, she pushed her friends and family all away, she doesn't conduct herself like a woman in public when she drinks she gets super loud and rude, shes very selfish and inconsiderate when it comes to people's plans. .

I don't really put much effort into the relationship anymore I don't wine and dine her either....I call her when I want to **** her and do just enough to get the sex I want, but mentally I'm checked out. I would however like for that love I used to have for her to come back.

I'm physically attracted to her, but her personality makes it impossible to really put my heart into it. There is just something about selfishness that turns me off. I bang her and try to avoid doing couple like things either her becusee she's just an *******. Problem is the sex is good

Listen friend I just went through the exact same thing and wasted three years of my life. Pass the year together I realize this girl is crazy she is unstable she is selfish she does not tell the truth she twist the facts she tries to control everything and she does not get what she wants she isn't happy she pouts she runs out during conversations or arguments it became a living hell dealing with somebody like this. It slowly kills your soul and I mean that literally yes she is hot but she is killing your heart and soul check out all the way and get rid of her

 

[marmel75]

explain this to me though.....I've punished this girl by using her for sex and walking out just to **** with her head, I cut off all romantic dates and cancelled my planned vacations with her, I don't even pay for her drinks or dinner anymore. I told her I'll take you on a date when you deserve it....and She still clings to me, cooks for me, and ****s me whenever I want.

I don't think most hot women would put up with a man that does so little for her unless they were truly sorry for their behavior and in love with them. I would never put so little effort into a woman that was good to me obviously. I was good to her and she ****ed up by being violent with me. After that's I checked out emotionally, so the past six months I've emotionally checked out and she still is holding on. That's why the cheating wouldn't line up. Tons of dudes willing to do way more for her as a man than I'm doing now. I think I am subconsciously trying to push her away since I know she's terrible for me. It didn't work though, she's still putting in the effort...she just can't help her drinking issues. I'm convinced she wants to change but can't. if she didn't care I feel like she would of left by now.

She's also still trying to get me to move back in with her. Shen would be able to cheat much easier now with me not living there so it doesn't make sense if she wanted to **** around.

I do think violence is just as bad as cheating though, not justifying her behavior. Just saying loyalty isn't my concern with this chick.

She behaves this way the same reason an AFC guy still chases after a chick that treats them like dirt...