Hey man, your doing a great job at running a woman off. If you hold her in a cage, she'll do everything to get free. You have to let this bird be free. Free to love you of her own free will. You can't make her want to be with you. You can only entice.
"How do I entice her", you ask.
Well, for starters, get your head out of her ass. The more you have it up there, the more she's going to want it out. Do your own thing and let her wonder about you. That's right! Let her worry. Why put yourself in a situation where you have to worry about her?
Why are you worried about her? Well, I'll tell you. It's because you're scared.
Why are you scared? Well, because you think this girl is the only girl for you or maybe the only girl like her that you could have. That's what's called a scarcity mindset. To you, women like her are scarce. In your mind, she's the "one" for you, but is that true? If you were without her (i.e. she found another man and left you), would that be the absolute worse thing that ever happened to you? I'll answer that question for you. No!
What does this scared, scarcity mindset do for you? How do women actually perceive this attitude? It does nothing positive, but screw up your relationships. It makes a women lose interest in you so fast your head will spin. When you need a woman (even if it's just needing her not to go to Miami) you'll lose her.
What do women really want? They want what they can't have. What do they do with what they want once they have it? They drop it. They lose interest.
So, how do you stop this cycle? Well, I'll tell you.
Love yourself. Get to know yourself and find what makes you happy without needing other's validation. Love life without needing attention from women. Women love men that don't need them.
Tell this woman to go and have a good time. Make plans to do something, too. Don't be obvious about it, but let her wonder about you. While she's gone, do not call her excessively. Maybe just call her once. Let her do almost all of the calling, and you need to be missing calls. Miss a lot of them. Let her get mad. If she's mad, it only means that she cares, and she's the one being jealous.
Anyway, good luck, bro!
"How do I entice her", you ask.
Well, for starters, get your head out of her ass. The more you have it up there, the more she's going to want it out. Do your own thing and let her wonder about you. That's right! Let her worry. Why put yourself in a situation where you have to worry about her?
Why are you worried about her? Well, I'll tell you. It's because you're scared.
Why are you scared? Well, because you think this girl is the only girl for you or maybe the only girl like her that you could have. That's what's called a scarcity mindset. To you, women like her are scarce. In your mind, she's the "one" for you, but is that true? If you were without her (i.e. she found another man and left you), would that be the absolute worse thing that ever happened to you? I'll answer that question for you. No!
What does this scared, scarcity mindset do for you? How do women actually perceive this attitude? It does nothing positive, but screw up your relationships. It makes a women lose interest in you so fast your head will spin. When you need a woman (even if it's just needing her not to go to Miami) you'll lose her.
What do women really want? They want what they can't have. What do they do with what they want once they have it? They drop it. They lose interest.
So, how do you stop this cycle? Well, I'll tell you.
Love yourself. Get to know yourself and find what makes you happy without needing other's validation. Love life without needing attention from women. Women love men that don't need them.
Tell this woman to go and have a good time. Make plans to do something, too. Don't be obvious about it, but let her wonder about you. While she's gone, do not call her excessively. Maybe just call her once. Let her do almost all of the calling, and you need to be missing calls. Miss a lot of them. Let her get mad. If she's mad, it only means that she cares, and she's the one being jealous.
Anyway, good luck, bro!
