Did this board go down the schitter or what? I'm appalled by some of advice I read here recently.
Don't come down too hard on them, they're all newbies (except for tittyboy)
Time to address all the things you're doing wrong.
We've been together for a long time. But after me saying something stupid she lost her desire for sex. She said that I just need to be patient and it will come back.
That's a load of 5hit. Women normally don't get horny by sitting and waiting for it to strike them. They get turned on by certain things. Even if she's pissed off at you, you can still get her turned on. When she's mad, go outside with your chainsaw and cut down a tree. She'll watch the manliness come out in you as you work and sweat your ass off. When you come back into the house, her pu55y will be dripping.
Don't get it? It's being a MAN that turns a woman on.
I think that I need to prove her that I love her and I'm not with her only because of sex.
Woah, I can see where this is leading...
I won't force sex for a while, will not touch her too much etc, but I guess that she needs some ROMANCE, and proof that I love her.
Romance in it's purest form does nothing for a woman. Romance is a seasoning that you add to a relationship to make it better. Right now, you're ready to hand her a plate of oregano and hoping she'll enjoy it.
Sex is the drive of the relationship. Desire for sex drives two people to be together. Without the drive of sex, the relationship won't go anywhere and drift apart.
Sex plays a much bigger role in a relationship than romance does.
Now, if you've read the stuff on this forum, you'll know that kino works wonders. It makes a woman aware of you, and can make her turned on by you. I guarantee if she's not fvcking someone else, she using a vibrator and a romance novel. The vibrator doesn't have to wait for her.
Initiate kino with her, but make it a bit sexual. Start stroking the back of her neck. Then start smelling it. Then kissing it. Then lightly biting it. Communicate with your body that you are a sexual creature. She'll understand and respond. You then lead her into the bedroom.
If you do this (and she doesn't resist), she'll be back to her "old self" in no-time
If she does resist, your relationship is going down the 5hitter.