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Master Don Juan
100% accurate.Originally posted by NewMan
BP
Another conversation and thread in the same vain as all the others.
Not trying to ride your a## here - but every thread is about your fvcked up relationship.
Here is a tip.
Click on the DJ Bible link and read it.
Ok... further...
1) Never Ever, ever, ever, ever tell a b#tch that you want to be with her for the rest of your life/ that you love her/ that you want to live with her/ that you want to marry her BEFORE she tells that to you. Ever. Never. NEVER.
2) You are giving ALL of the relationship power to her. I say this time and time again. The minute you show weakness. The minute she realizes that you like her more than she likes you - you are fvcked. She needs to initiate all the moves.
3) you will only push her away by forcing issues. By being a little boy when on the phone with her. Let me tell you, you will NEVER be able to control anyone. You will NEVER be able to change her or her way of thinking. Ultimatums do not work. You either accept it, or you walk away. Don't waste your time trying to make her something she isn't.
'nuff said.
Girls care way more about the status and progression of a relationship, so leave that up to them, also to include in the list on #1 - when the relationship has become exclusive. I think that is a big one to not come off desperate or needy, and keeps you in the position of choice, not her.