GF admitted some of her past to me. Not good.

[Robert28]

I never ever ask a woman about her past, however, some just feel the need to tell me all about it. I give them plenty of rope to hang themselves. I used to try to change the subject or whatever but now I just ask questions and keep them going and then they're like "oh I shouldn't have told you all that, now you're going to think I'm a slvt". Bingo b!tch!

 

[expos]

I'm not saying this chick is wife material!

Good - because she isn't! OP, I don't care how good she is to you now. Past behavior is a great indicator of future behavior. Rarely do people change. My friends, my exes, my brother, my crazy aunt, and my parents have not changed the entire time I've known them.

She sounds like the type of girl who would cheat on you if she knew she wouldn't get caught.

Why did her engagement end? I'd be curious to hear the answer to this question.

You've only been with her for 6 months and she only disclosed this stuff to you because she finally got her hooks into you emotionally. She's knows that you won't leave now, so she got comfortable enough to drop this bomb on you.

It's your life and you can do what you want, but you've got enough feedback at this point to make the call.

 

[devilkingx2]

the girl sounds pretty normal to me. none of those are red flags imo.

unless she's like 15, the fact that she has had sex before she met you(like, again, every girl you date who isn't 15) shouldn't surprise you, and you'll have to get over it unless you want to date HS seniors and juniors for the rest of your days

 

[Peña]

He sure did....and he definitely did not need to. But then he isn't famous for making brilliant decisions, is he?

He has value. He don't care. He can do that.

the girl sounds pretty normal to me. none of those are red flags imo.

unless she's like 15, the fact that she has had sex before she met you(like, again, every girl you date who isn't 15) shouldn't surprise you, and you'll have to get over it unless you want to date HS seniors and juniors for the rest of your days

Go to a college party to see what these girls do. New boyfriends months later have no clue.

 

[YawataNoKami]

You should marry her.........
Seriously you can't make a hoe a housewife!!

 

[Boxer00]

Girls, like everyone else, can do whatever they wish......so long as they are willing to pay the price.

If they want to slut it up, be prepared for judgement and a severe reduction of men willing to commit.

Why does that bother you so much?

What price? How is she a slut?

I don't even care, not sure why you're taking a weird stance on it.

 

[LMFAO]

There are girls for sex, and there are girls for long committed relationships.

I've had girls admit to me all sorts of sexual sh*t including fvcking two guys at the same time. If that's their scene then fair enough, but it's not someone to make your girlfriend rather just a girl you bang here and there without too much emotional attachment.

If you don't consider a girl who jerked off two guys at the same time as a slvt and as someone you can marry then fair enough, marry someone like that and let us know how it works out for you.

If you think all girls are LTR and marriage material then you really are very sadly mistaken.

 

[Boxer00]

What do you find weird about not wanting to commit to a h0r? I will repeat myself not because it is shocking to me that men would marry such creatures, but because they would accuse other men of being weak or low value for NOT committing to them.

You know it is a fvcked up sexual market when men are chastised for "not being able to handle" committing to a h0r.


Holy $hit people can really warp things with some twisted thought processes. Orwell would be proud of this double-think. "Not being able to handle committing to a h0r".....you really can't make this $hit up.

Calling a girl a slut for having sex in a relationship is weird. If she never told him her stories he would have no idea of it. 6 months he was with her before he knew. He was already committed. Guys really have no idea what their women have done. Clearly you are upset about girls having sex with guys before you. I guess your stance is all women are sluts since the majority are sexually active. What happens if you're married and 6 months into the marriage your wife told you this same story? Didn't you already marry a slut with your stance? Could you handle that?

If you don't consider a girl who jerked off two guys at the same time as a slvt and as someone you can marry then fair enough, marry someone like that and let us know how it works out for you.

Better than banging two guys at the same time. What she did is typical of most girls today. They get a little wild and they settle down. Try looking for a girl today who hasn't hooked up and had a relationship or two. Probably won't be a very good looking girl. It's common stuff. Not sure why you guys have a problem with it in today's age.

 

[Boxer00]

Boxer you are all over the map with your arguments.

Basically you are starting with "If you did not know then it should not matter".....this is countered by the fact that lack of knowledge on someone does not render you immune to the consequences of dealing with them.

Your second argument is putting the "black or white" label on suggesting that I am calling all women sluts. I said no such thing.

Your final argument is about one finding out post marriage that your wife is a slut. Irrelevant since only and idiot would get married today.

Any other questions regarding the retarded desire to defend and marry sluts?

By the way, props for again throwing out the suggestion that "only real men can handle marrying sluts".

I am not all over the map. Your argument is that men should not committ to sluts. Well he already did with your stance. He had no idea of her past until she told him just like most guys don't know their woman's past. It is possible that millions of men are already committed sluts since they don't know of their woman's past. Do you know all the past of any of the women you were with? Couldn't it be possible they hooked up too not telling you? Girls having sex before you does bother you. Girls are going to have sex bro before you regardless. Get used to it. A girl having sex with 4 dudes makes no difference if they were committed or not. 4 d1cks were still in her cooch before yours.

 

[captain55]

I completely wholeheartedly agree.


Look men, you should never, ever commit to a h0r....simply because you should never have to. As long as you are always raising your value you will always be able to find a good looking girl to fvk.

LOL, so if a 5/10 guy is lucky enough to score an 8/10 he's gonna dump her because she's a slut? He should be thanking his lucky stars. Only the top guys get to be picky with attractive women, w'ere talking the top 5% of men here.

 

[Between_The_Lines]

LOL, so if a 5/10 guy is lucky enough to score an 8/10 he's gonna dump her because she's a slut?

Yes, it's called having standards. Are you going to put with a girl bouncing around from c0ck to c0ck while in a relationship with you because she's an indisputable 10 and you've appraised yourself at a 5?

He should be thanking his lucky stars. Only the top guys get to be picky with attractive women, w'ere talking the top 5% of men here.

This is exactly the frame of mind that enables women to believe that they have the world at their beck and call. You count your blessing for having beaten Cancer, not being able to wake up to a bl0wjob from a supermodel.

 

[Boxer00]

LOL, so if a 5/10 guy is lucky enough to score an 8/10 he's gonna dump her because she's a slut? He should be thanking his lucky stars. Only the top guys get to be picky with attractive women, w'ere talking the top 5% of men here.

Bad mindset to have. Only be picky with what the woman looks like. No way in hell is anybody going to know exactly how many d1cks were in her cooch. Girls will always lie about their numbers so they don't look like a slut. If you know she's a slut then you know. Most guys don't know what the woman has done. Calling girls sluts for having sex is dumb when the majority are sexually active today.

 

[Boxer00]

Firstly, are you suggesting there are not "slut tells"?

Secondly, one should never even get married in today's wetern civilization.

Thirdly, your last statement counting d1cks and such only shows your fixation on defining what number makes a slut.

Lastly, did you happen to marry a "reformed" slut? Because this topic sure seems to rev you up with your anger at men not wife-ing up the hungry hungry c0ck gobblers.

Slut tells are one thing. Knowing what the average girl has done in her past is impossible. Clearly you are upset about girls having sex with guys before you, And now trying to project your anger on to me. You're calling girls sluts for having sex inside relationships so a number to "define" a slut should be made known. A girl who had 3 ex's is not a slut. It is impossible to committ to a girl who hasn't had sex only if she is a virgin. With your weird stance any girl who is having sex is a slut in your terms. Who can you committ to?

The question I asked you has not been answered since you avoided it. Do you know exactly many men your women screwed before you? Do women having sex with past boyfriends bother you? Is she a slut when she screwed other men before you? Girls that have sex with guys before you bothers you. Wife up a virgin if you can find one bro. You'll probably have to marry her though since she won't put out until you're hitched. I'm done with this argument I can already see how it's headed.

 

[Boxer00]

Boxer,

Where did I say any girl having sex in a relationship is a slut?

This girl in question had threesomes and jerked off two men at once.


You can leave the argument you are in because nobody else is in it. You are making up some kind of position and claiming I made it.

What she did is typical of what a lot of girls do today. Go out in the field and see for yourself if you don't believe me. He wouldn't be the wiser unless she spilled the beans. That goes for all relationships today.

Why are you still avioding my questions? Do you know exactly many men your women screwed before you? Do women having sex with past boyfriends bother you? Is she a slut when she screwed other men before you?

If you can't answer those your argument holds no water. Like I said there is no point in arguing this when you don't know the truth about her past.

 

[Spp27]

I think it's good that you found out. Now you can make a decision what to do if it was me I would bail. I almost went out with a girl like this found out she was like this and Dident botther. But that just me. If you were okay with it you wouldent be in here asking. So you really made you decision already. Just bail there are probably better girls out there you just have to put the effort in to find them. I am trying too it's hard but it will be worth it in the end. I have learned nothing in life is easy. Good luck.

 

[salinechow]

Guys, why do you keep telling him that his attitude is the problem? Because if you cant handle the facts you shouldnt seek them

If his standard is to get a girlfriend who has not done a threesome or goes totally crazy after she's drunk some alcohol then why tell him otherwise?Becasue he asked us to do so

I know there are a lot of girls out there who went crazy in their 16-24 BUT, if he doesn't want one of those girls, doesn't this forum exist to help and encourage guys like him to go after what they really want and not settle for anything less, does it? No. This forum exsists to help HIM with his FRAME(of mind, being and pursuit). We are no more his emotional tampon than the LJBF girls we try to avoid. We are MEN trying to help MEN be MEN. This OP needs some perspective. It is not about this girl at all. It is about his lack of FRAME when HE recieved answers he most definitely went digging for.


I never ask exactly for a girls past, but as I already mentioned, sooner or later you and your guts will notice, when theres something wrong and when its time to leave.I disagree. Its time to watch porn together and play a little game I like to call" If they do it, we do it. Just better." What is this kid crying about. I would ask the braud to show me a few of her tricks and then ask her if I have perfected them yet.

I would never stay with a women who had a threesome in her past, rather would I stay single till the day I die then to lower my standard.Your standards are just a lack of information. Your bride in her white dress has skeltons just like the rest of us. The only difference between finding a girl who had some weird sex and didnt, is finding the girl who will tell you she did and finding the girl who will keep those secrets.

The only reason this post exsists is because this gentalman asked a question he couldnt handle the answer to. And, becasue this girl dosent value him enough to keep her secrets locked up tight. Actually, she wants to probably do it again in some way. The op should feel lucky she is hinting at him that she wants it to include him.

 

[RedBear]

OP if you can't deal with it cut your losses

 

[Peña]

You don't need value to marry a h0r, anyone can do that. You only need a history of bad decisions and the inability to predict the future and Charlie has that in spades.

Ugly men can marry nobody. Wh*res dont like value men? Charlie is still ok with everything he did. Yes?

 

[Peña]

Pena,

There are tons of married uglies. As for your h0r comment I never said they do not like men with value.

I don"t know if Charlie is happy or not, but I do not give two $hits if he married a h0r. She left him and took a large portion of hia money and his kids at the same time. If that is what you want then have at it. I will fvk the hotties without marrying them.

Ugly men marry ugly women. Yes? Ugly men don't get hot wh*res. So you say they like men with value and not low?

He still have more money though. I do not say that is what I want. You say that is what it is.

 

[Peña]

I don't know what you want, but then you don't seem to be making a very strong argument with your Charlie Sheen reference because I don't see your point.


Your statement on ugly men, hot women and h0rs implies that you believe ugly men must make sacrifices to marry a hot woman. Whereas I believe marrying ANY woman is a sacrifice, whether you are ugly or not.

Secondly, I believe even ugly men can secure hot women (look around you and I am sure you have seen it before).

Lastly unlike you I don't believe every girl is a h0r, nor do I believe every hot girl is a h0r.

If you are born with unfortunate looks, go to the gym, increase your skills for more money and increase your game. Saying that because you are ugly you then have to commit to a h0r just to get a hot woman in your life only tells me that you are using your looks as a crutch for accepting low-quality.

Don't wish it were easy, wish you were better.

Why you lie? You say all women are wh*res. I don't say that. You say that to other guy too.

No. I said ugly men dont marry hot women. My looks are good. Don't know why you lie about that either.

Charlie can do what he wants. He has value. Why you lying?