Getting set up for KINO

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Alright, yes I'm posting again about a girl who I'm on the line of the friendship zone hell, or not. I'm going to try my damn best to stay away from there, starting on our very next, yes I will call it, DATE!

Ok, so here's the deal. I don't really know what I'm going to ask her to do, but I'm calling her tomorrow (3 days after previous get-together). Calling on the phone should be an easy feat, if I just remember that I am the prince, she is the....lower one trying to win me.

So, anyhow. We go on our next date. She might not know its a date but I plan to let her know through my actions, possibly some words too. But, how can I get set up for kino? I can't just be acting all normal and then all of the sudden go and start touching her, know what I mean? It'd be like "Yeah, so whats up -- whaaaaa what are you doing dude?!"

Get what I mean? I need to be in a position close enough. Maybe I could just say something like "You know, I think we should start dating again." (we used to be). And if I was in the position I put kino on at the same time. But how can I get into that position?!

And where is a good place to do it? I'm not looking to go TOO far, but just get her the idea that I don't want to just be friends.

1) Where is a good place to do this?

2) How, specifically, could I get into a position to kino her without it being too out of place?

3) Anything specific I could say on the telephone that could give her the idea I dont' just want to be friends?

Yeah, I'm reading the bible, and it's doing a TON so far. Now that I think about it, just feeling confident and not worrying about whats going to happen, just trying to get what YOU want, not worrying about whether she doesn't want it or not, helps a ton. So please don't say read the bible. Thanks.
 

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ooh, i just thought of the tickling type of kino.

Think it would scare her (I mean scare her as in she thinks I'm a psycho) if I came behind her and got her in the sides? I don't know a single person who isn't ticklish right below the rib cage on their sides....it's gotta work. That could set me up right?

But anyhow, still try to answer the questions I asked.

Thanks.
 

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The point of kino is to make it noticable, but not noticable at the same time.

It's supposed to affect her subconcious, not be like "ooooh he's touching me....WTF????"
 

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yeah dude i'm gonna be in this situation soon... i say just go for it and grow a pair if ya know what I mean. You sound like you aren't stupid enough to make it too obvious. THe girl i'm mackin on atm i think has put me in the zone so I'm gonna ask her on a coffee date and just kino the **** out of her. If I go I'm going kicking and screaming. The one time I did grow some nuts and try kino on her a while back it worked really well and she was probbly touching me more than I was her.
 

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Originally posted by dogstar

1) Where is a good place to do this?

2) How, specifically, could I get into a position to kino her without it being too out of place?

3) Anything specific I could say on the telephone that could give her the idea I dont' just want to be friends?

Yeah, I'm reading the bible, and it's doing a TON so far. Now that I think about it, just feeling confident and not worrying about whats going to happen, just trying to get what YOU want, not worrying about whether she doesn't want it or not, helps a ton. So please don't say read the bible. Thanks.
1) Shoulders, maybe a little on the hand if you're feelin game, upper arm, hips if you're feelin playful and confident that you're winnin her over

2) Just do it and don't make a deal of it. If she senses you are consciously doing it and you're scared of how she will react you're a dead man. An easy one to do is to comment on something shes wearing like a ring or something and then stroke/touch it as if out of curiosity

3) "hey lover, my nuts are going to be slappin on your chin within the next week if I have my way"
 

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Well, yes, nice advice. Thank you.

For #3 though, I was looking for something perhaps, a little more subtle. I dunno how she'd react to that comment. And for #1, I meant where is a good place to go on a date to make it feel more like "not just as friends"?
 

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Any ideas on WHERE to go for a date, to give her the idea?
 

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Originally posted by dogstar
Any ideas on WHERE to go for a date, to give her the idea?
Anywhere but the movies,restaurant.She automatically knows you're interested. Don't show it to her that clear.
 

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Going to the movies or a resaurant would be BAD if I wanted it to be like a date?

Then what would be GOOD to make it seem like a date?
 

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quick give me some ideas im calling within the next like 10 mintues
 

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btw to chat im on mIRC at

us.undernet.org #sosuave

please come see me there
 

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Dude that #3 was kinda meant as a joke. Ha, I don't think anybody could say somethin like that and totally get away with it. I'm takin the girl i want out on just a coffee date, thinkin of maybe gettin like take-away coffees or somethin then goin and chilling in the park or something. It doesn't really matter what you do as long as its fun, casual and you make her wet
 
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