Alright, yes I'm posting again about a girl who I'm on the line of the friendship zone hell, or not. I'm going to try my damn best to stay away from there, starting on our very next, yes I will call it, DATE!
Ok, so here's the deal. I don't really know what I'm going to ask her to do, but I'm calling her tomorrow (3 days after previous get-together). Calling on the phone should be an easy feat, if I just remember that I am the prince, she is the....lower one trying to win me.
So, anyhow. We go on our next date. She might not know its a date but I plan to let her know through my actions, possibly some words too. But, how can I get set up for kino? I can't just be acting all normal and then all of the sudden go and start touching her, know what I mean? It'd be like "Yeah, so whats up -- whaaaaa what are you doing dude?!"
Get what I mean? I need to be in a position close enough. Maybe I could just say something like "You know, I think we should start dating again." (we used to be). And if I was in the position I put kino on at the same time. But how can I get into that position?!
And where is a good place to do it? I'm not looking to go TOO far, but just get her the idea that I don't want to just be friends.
1) Where is a good place to do this?
2) How, specifically, could I get into a position to kino her without it being too out of place?
3) Anything specific I could say on the telephone that could give her the idea I dont' just want to be friends?
Yeah, I'm reading the bible, and it's doing a TON so far. Now that I think about it, just feeling confident and not worrying about whats going to happen, just trying to get what YOU want, not worrying about whether she doesn't want it or not, helps a ton. So please don't say read the bible. Thanks.
Ok, so here's the deal. I don't really know what I'm going to ask her to do, but I'm calling her tomorrow (3 days after previous get-together). Calling on the phone should be an easy feat, if I just remember that I am the prince, she is the....lower one trying to win me.
So, anyhow. We go on our next date. She might not know its a date but I plan to let her know through my actions, possibly some words too. But, how can I get set up for kino? I can't just be acting all normal and then all of the sudden go and start touching her, know what I mean? It'd be like "Yeah, so whats up -- whaaaaa what are you doing dude?!"
Get what I mean? I need to be in a position close enough. Maybe I could just say something like "You know, I think we should start dating again." (we used to be). And if I was in the position I put kino on at the same time. But how can I get into that position?!
And where is a good place to do it? I'm not looking to go TOO far, but just get her the idea that I don't want to just be friends.
1) Where is a good place to do this?
2) How, specifically, could I get into a position to kino her without it being too out of place?
3) Anything specific I could say on the telephone that could give her the idea I dont' just want to be friends?
Yeah, I'm reading the bible, and it's doing a TON so far. Now that I think about it, just feeling confident and not worrying about whats going to happen, just trying to get what YOU want, not worrying about whether she doesn't want it or not, helps a ton. So please don't say read the bible. Thanks.